Creepy Guy in a Truck

I have not read all the comments, but I did read your entire post, and my initial feeling about all this, is that this guy is an ex-boyfriend of your girlfriend, or he is obsessed with her.

Just my feeling.

reply to post by xynephadyn


No, nothing at all unusual.

The last thing was pretty confrontational, maybe they have given up?

reply to post by candide


If I had one dollar for every time somebuddy called ME a creepy guy in a truck I wouldnt' have to worry about the stupid job that I got fired from ("drinking on the job' so they call it).

reply to post by inchworm


Not sure what industry you are in, but from where I stand, the amount of stuff you can get away with before you get in any trouble at all is more than enough. Granted there are plenty of law-abiding felons out there just like myself who will never get in trouble as long as only the JUST laws are enforced, and as creepy as we may look with our F-150s and our goatees, we just aren't dangerous... but nine times out of ten, you live longer if you don't give guys like you and me the benefit of the doubt. So I can't really blame the OP for asking questions. Personally, I'm have started keeping a camera handy to log anybody who doesn't seem normal- cops in particular as a matter of fact. And as far as drinking on the job goes.... if you actually do stuff at work it's probably best to stay sober. If I worked at Taco Bell or something that would be another story, but seriously....

Sounds like the start of a thriller toa hollywood film

In all seriousness though if its getting worse contact the police

Why didn't your girlfriend contact the police? I know you said it was because she felt it wasn't a big deal, but being followed for what sounds like at least 30 miles is a big deal. And the tailgating at the end? This is an angry person she's dealing with. Be safe.

reply to post by candide


Not sure what the issue is. Obviously that was a future you looking to get with your lady. He was ticked off the now you was around. Once you were gone with her, he wanted to tick you off so he turned your blinker on and screwed with your visor. I mean this is elementary, what else could it be????

All is still quiet on the home front. They either lost interest of got much better at getting up in our business without being seen.

Thanks everyone for all the great perspectives. Its been really cool to have all the feedback while this was going on.

Well, make sure you keep us posted if anything comes up.

Still haven't seen any unusual people around but I did have a identity theft situation last week that made me have to temporarily close my bank account and get new account numbers.

They tried to execute some quite large electronic transfers from my checking that thankfully just kept giving me NSF's. I tried to block them initially by amount but they kept changing the value.

My bank gave me their name: 'Freidas Noel Perez'. Seemed like a pretty unique name but I wasn't able to find anything doing internet searches so maybe its some kind of alias.

All I know is that it is a huge pain to have to get all of your electronic payments and direct deposits redirected to a new account, hope that stuff doesn't continue.

Sounds like a job for...


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I agree with what people are saying about an affair or ex BF thing, if it was just some tweeker then why would he come back later to go car hopping and mess with the car? And because your GF brought up him hiding his face could be because she was afraid he was going to do something stupid.

Just to be safe, you should do surveillance on her place when she thinks you are not around.

or call greco

Just sayin...

Originally posted by candide

Originally posted by Freenrgy2
Update of this?

GF not an issue?

Actually yes, I have a bit of a crappy update and another possible run-in with the creepy guy.

Update #1 really sucks. The license plate number I wrote down after the original incident came back as invalid. Im not sure why, my only theory is that it was either from our close bordering state with a similar white background and I didn't notice or I just messed up writing it down.

The other update is that my girlfriend is freaked out because she was followed for about an hour yesterday while doing her errands.

This is what she told me last night...

About 11:00am she took off for the credit union to do a deposit for the business. As she walked out the door an older gold colored Chevy truck (not red like last time) passed our house heading for the cultisac turnaround. She started the car and was waiting for him to pass by on the way back but he slowed down to a stop and waited for her to leave, which she did.

She didn't think too much of it and drove to our credit union which is about 20 miles away and kind of a pain in the ass to get to. As she walked from her car towards the bank she realized it was closed for veterans day (doh!) Coming back, she saw the same guy in the gold truck enter the parking lot.

She walked back to her car and the truck drove to the back of the lot and parked, staying in his car. When she left, she saw him following many cars back. At this point she drove to the dollar store about 5 miles away from the bank and back towards our house to pick up some christmas gift tins.

When she came out of the dollar store he was parked at the back of the lot at a 90 degree angle so she couldn't see his license plate so she decided to walk over to where she could take a look at it. As she approached the truck she could see that the guy had fluffy hair (like the original guy I saw) and was wearing large mirrored sunglasses and a baseball hat pulled down in the front. God only knows how he could see with sunglasses on a dark and rainy fall day.

Apparently the guys body language was kind of aggressive because she chickened out before she got all the way there and ran back to her car instead of following through with getting the plate number.

When she pulled out of her parking spot and got ready to leave the lot, the guy came up right behind her and proceeded to tail gate her for about a mile. She tried to speed up to get a look at his plate but he was apparently right on her butt. He did that for a while and then suddenly took a turn on a side street and was gone.

The whole thing really pisses me off and makes me worry for her safety. I asked her why she didn't call the police and she said that she just didn't think about it because the guy wasn't doing anything blatantly illegal.

Next time the guy shows his face, hopefully we can get some police involved and get some kind of answers.

Anyways, thats what I have at the moment, If anything else happens, I will post it up.

Sounds like gang stalking? Maybe you or your GF is a person of interest perhaps mistaken for someone else by another party.

gangstalkingworld.com...


Another thing, you mentioned identity theft? Did you have a bank account number or credit cards missing from the car after this? Well that and the tweeker theory does not fit in with the ID theft situation with the GF being tailed..




Maybe the GF is involved in something over her head and is not telling you everything. She did not call the cops? Does not make sense to me... this seems to revolve around her and not you. Her place, her being followed and you showed up and this guy wanted to know who you are and maybe the GF did take your car one night. Something stinks.

id thieve stuff really stands out to me some times a PI or large shadowy law firms stalk and harass ppl for all sorts of resons.

stalker sounds like an amateur the ppl behind scenes know this its part of there systematic harassing of ppl. along whith id troubles . strange in deed .im shure your being vigilant thou. stay safe you two*play full nudge punch* from me =0)

id thieve stuff really stands out to me some times a PI or large shadowy law firms stalk and harass ppl for all sorts of resons.

stalker sounds like an amateur the ppl behind scenes know this its part of there systematic harassing of ppl. along whith id troubles . strange in deed .im shure your being vigilant thou. stay safe you two*play full nudge punch* from me =0)

Well, this isn't a 'good news' update. MHO is that you should file (a) police report(s) ASAP. Once could have been a misunderstanding- this sounds more like stalking. What happened to your GF was menacing. I agree that it seems directed at her, but I still don't think she somehow is involved (other than being the object of this wacko's attention), necessarily. Unbalanced people don't *need* "encouragement".
For goodness sake, be conscious of Y'All's surroundings & take precautions.
For all you know, this guy could be known (by the cops) for this kind of thing.
I think it might be a good idea to talk to your neighbors, too.

What i want to know is why in the hell this guys girlfriend left him locked out of the house and went to get gas without him... that in itself would make me edgy. I'm sorry but I would totally and cmpletely suspicious by that point and would be asking her repeatedly why she did that... not that I'm a guy and I know a lot of guys try to not be suspicious at all until it gets all built up to a point where they are about to explode but yeah, why the hell did she do that? did she misunderstand the plan? Am *I* misunderstanding something?...cause that just seems weird to me.

Originally posted by DogsDogsDogs
Well, this isn't a 'good news' update. MHO is that you should file (a) police report(s) ASAP. Once could have been a misunderstanding- this sounds more like stalking. What happened to your GF was menacing. I agree that it seems directed at her, but I still don't think she somehow is involved (other than being the object of this wacko's attention), necessarily. Unbalanced people don't *need* "encouragement".
For goodness sake, be conscious of Y'All's surroundings & take precautions.
For all you know, this guy could be known (by the cops) for this kind of thing.
I think it might be a good idea to talk to your neighbors, too.

That is very true, i had someone stalk and harass me before on my social network sites unwarranted simply because she had schizophrenia and got the wrong ideas because i was kind to her, i change my stance and would not jump to conclusions of infidelity but still would leave that on the table. The whole being followed is pretty serious and not to be ignored and swept under the rug because you want it to just go away. Why would they stop there? What do they want?

Perhaps some deranged guy developed a obsession with your girl who happens to be a massage therapist. And we often hear about story's of stalkers and like myself of people seeing your picture on a social network and deciding to hunt you like some small woodland creature. If i were you i would not be so comfortable and declare all is well just yet. You really should seek help from the authorities imo.

Originally posted by ChaosMagician
What i want to know is why in the hell this guys girlfriend left him locked out of the house and went to get gas without him... that in itself would make me edgy. I'm sorry but I would totally and cmpletely suspicious by that point and would be asking her repeatedly why she did that... not that I'm a guy and I know a lot of guys try to not be suspicious at all until it gets all built up to a point where they are about to explode but yeah, why the hell did she do that? did she misunderstand the plan? Am *I* misunderstanding something?...cause that just seems weird to me.

Exactly, that's odd. You never know, people get cheated on all the time and never see it coming. When you think you know someone... many people have a dark side and double lives even the sweetest girls can too.

reply to post by jplaysguitar


What an interesting concept, I never would have thought of that.

Sending a bumbler of a PI isn't just a good way to harass someone, its probably pretty damn cheap!

While they have gotten under my skin a bit, its a dangerous game they play. Sure hope for both of our sake I don't ever find them on my property or catch them harassing my family any more.

reply to post by candide


If he does it again, I suggest she accidentally throw her car into reverse at a busy stop light and gun it.

Having to call the cops to come out for an accident should make for some interesting happenings.

Originally posted by candide
reply to post by xynephadyn

 

As far as legal things, I am a very friendly and law abiding person so other than having a curiosity and interest in sites like ATS i imagine I would be pretty boring to them.

Plus I would hope like hell that if the govt was actually interested in me they would be more competent than what I am seeing

Incompetence could be a way of attracting your attention enough to see if you are prone to a psychotic paranoid meltdown. Just sayin'.

I'm pretty boring - hasn't stopped a couple of organizations and people from checking me out. I'd feel damn sorry for the poor fool who had to keep tabs on me. I imagine watching paint dry is more exciting.