Stifled or Selfish or What ?

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Hi Squidley,

I can't blame her for not telling her Mother the entire truth....

Maybe she told her Mum what she thought was the position.... She was a bit "off" and I don't expect her to assume the "villian" role in this saga.

I thank ye kindly for the care and support.... It really felt it coming through...

Will write about Cambodia.....


[edit on 18-2-2010 by dixon]

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I think that when a relationship does break up, there is no right from wrong...
Its just a differance of perception..
Blame should`nt be delt out. In her mind she wasn`t doing anything wrong, she didnt see herself the way you did.
Its that you were incompatable, nothing more...
From this though, you may be a bit clearer on the sort of person you`re compatable wit..

reply to post by squidley_35


Yup... Just want to take a lesson from this but try to drop the unhappy issues.....

Probably compatible with a great big labrador....

Hello All,

Back from Angkor and back at work.

She called a couple of times when I was away (answering machine was flooded) and had a couple of letters in the mailbox.

Last letter reads ..".... you will always be in my heart and I miss u terribly.....". Sweet..... But I got scars (which seem to be permanent) on my arm.....

No contact for more than a mth now. Guess I'll be alright.

I'll be winding up this post now and I thank all ye kindly folks who have cared for me.... Grateful.......