What is SEXY to you?

A woman who can share her thoughts, holding nothing back, keeping no secrets, being a best friend to beat all best friends.

A woman who can with just a look, or a smile, melt my heart.

Doesn't really matter what her figure is. If I had my druthers, I would choose a woman who was heavier rather than "anorexic" looking. it is all in the eyes, and the small actions. A squeeze of the hand, a hug from behind, that look across a room that makes you feel special.

The ability to laugh at what life throws at her, no drama queens please. Never taking life for granted, but is just as comfortable and fun at home as going out for the evening.

Hair colour? Who cares, I have none anyways so how can I be picky. I really don't care anyways.

I like a woman with an accent. Whether it be American, Australian, Dutch, Scottish, whatever,I don't know why, I just do.

I must admit my take on what I find sexy has changed over the years, but that is what get's me every time. Trouble is, the ones that fit the bill are in a relationship already, usually being taken for granted and unhappy, but what is one to do?

Been there, done that, and realize that I cannot change someone just as they cannot change me, so that limits them somewhat. I won't settle for less, nor would I expect them to either.


Perhaps someday....

Originally posted by Gazrok


Hey, bimbos have their place... They're like little convertibles, fun to drive, but you wouldn't want it for the everyday commute...

Ah yes of course, but the topic is what is "sexy" remember.

I could still be attrtaced to a cute girl, or funky etc. Sexy is not the only thing that can attract I guess.

Originally posted by tribewilder
A woman who can share her thoughts, holding nothing back, keeping no secrets, being a best friend to beat all best friends.

A woman who can with just a look, or a smile, melt my heart.

Doesn't really matter what her figure is. If I had my druthers, I would choose a woman who was heavier rather than "anorexic" looking. it is all in the eyes, and the small actions. A squeeze of the hand, a hug from behind, that look across a room that makes you feel special.

Perhaps someday....

How the hell are you not snapped up tribe?

I agree on everything you wrote!

A girl that with just one look can make you go weak at the knees, and beautiful eyes, nothing like a girl with gorgeous eyes! somebody you can feel so at ease with straight off, and share everything good and bad, a woman who knows herself!

I love an accent too, just something very attractive about certain accents, irish, american/canadian even welsh!

Ahhh we can dream!

pardon the language but Michael Rappaport's riff on beautiful girls is fitting here. Great movie, incredible cast, amazing soundtrack and it contains the only redeeming thing Rosie O'Donnell has ever done.

How the hell are you not snapped up tribe?

I don't understand it either Valiant. There really should be a Mrs Tribewilder, although I have to admit that I'm fast developing an almighty (but platonic!) crush on the poor man....God help him!

Hmmmm.....I suppose I should chip in here with what I find sexy, since that's the subject of the thread. It's hard to quantify, but there are a few non-negotiables, like sense of humour, compassion, *personal hygiene*! (I love a guy who smells good), intelligence of course, creativity, but more a strong sense of who he is and what he's here for. Not really fussed about physical stuff, what they look like and so on, apart from clean, and obviously well cared for. Also it helps if he doesn't get all stressed out and huffy when I throw one of my OCD hissy fits, usually about house mess.......it's best just to giggle and comply really.

And hands.....warm, strong, clean, well kept hands that are good at....um....stuff...............