You tell me why unchild humans, should care about your children?

One thing, i have noticed on ATS or anywere else is the concern of children and women more than men, not that i have a problem weather men get more of a levarage than the two subjects, i don't however i also don't see why those who disllike or feel physically disgusted by children should not be allowed to have their opinion and why they should be forced to be bothered about other peoples children?


I wundt hurt a child, but i don't like been near one, hearing one, seeing one or even interacting with a child, i feel physical sick been near one and i get shivers, if a question was to be given if i saw child been abused, or drowning would i save it? yes i would.

However what i am trying to say is, everyone goes on about how the poor children will be hurt, some people just don't like children and they may not like your's, they may even not be your friend just because you have a child.


I personally don't like parents i find them selfish and bitter, and as for single mothers, i believe they are worse than men able to cope with children .if they don't have a man around, the same dose not apply to majority of single men, however this debate is about your child, about children around the world, why should childless couples or individuals care about your child and take responsibility to make sure your child is not hurt, that's not other parents or childless adults responsibility that your's.

I personally wont be told i should not do something that could be a danger to a child such as a dog of a leash who may not be a danger or anything else, just for political correctness, so tell me, and give me a valid strong reason why childless adults or other parents should care about the welfare of your child?

[edit on 23-10-2009 by deathpoet69]

Since English is not your first language, I'll tey to keep this short and easy to read. I don't like to be around children very much either. But laws like keeping your dog on a leash are to protect everyone, not just children. Your dog may not be a problem, but another dog could. So all dogs are on a leash.

It is part of our culture to be protective of those who are weaker than we are. We tend to protect our children out of instinct. I hope you were able to understand this.

i know that, but the question was, why should people like myself care

Dog on a leash isn't just for kids...

That's like asking why I should slow down just because you're crossing the street Maybe you should cross a little faster if you don't want to be run over.

I feel like I wandered under a dark cloud. Are you for real

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You should care, because you were a child once, and if people hadn't cared for you, you wouldn't be here!

You have a right to your opinion, likes and dislikes, but I find this very strange.

I hope that someday you change your mind.

Children our our future, your future and the hope for mankind.

Peace, Kiwifoot.

Originally posted by ZombieOctopus
Dog on a leash isn't just for kids...

That's like asking why I should slow down just because you're crossing the street

Maybe you should cross a little faster if you don't want to be run over.

well yea, you should cross a little faster

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give me a valid strong reason why childless adults or other parents should care about the welfare of your child?

A person's a person, no matter how small.

I personally don't like parents i find them selfish and bitter

It's a shame that you won't like me then. Anyway, while there are selfish and bitter parents, true parents are the opposite. A parent has to give up what they want to do for the child. Would I like to be able to sleep-in on a Saturday or not be woken up at three in the morning? Yes, but I put those wants and desires aside so I can raise my son and he'll be healthy. A true parent is selfless.

However what i am trying to say is, everyone goes on about how the poor children will be hurt, some people just don't like children and they may not like your's, they may even not be your friend just because you have a child.

Does someone not liking children give them a right to not care for the well being of children? No, of course not. Just like, if someone doesn't like you, they don't have a right to intentionally do things that would put you in danger.

that's not other parents or childless adults responsibility that your's

Yes, my child is my child and I go out of my way to make sure that he doesn't get hurt. That doesn't mean though that I can control what others do. Thus, we all need to watch out for the well being of others. It's not an excuse if you do something that hurts someone to say, "Well, they should've/their parents should've been watching out for them!"

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i was a child, i was looked after in certain ways yes, but many children become lost, alot children are spoilt and thats why the world is how it is, so again, why should we care about the future of man kind

Originally posted by trueset
I feel like I wandered under a dark cloud. Are you for real

for real

Originally posted by deathpoet69
i know that, but the question was, why should people like myself care

Would you care if my dog attacked and seriously hurt you because it wasn't on a leash? That is why it is a law. It's to protect you and everyone else from other people's dogs that may attack you.

Originally posted by deathpoet69
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i was a child, i was looked after in certain ways yes, but many children become lost, alot children are spoilt and thats why the world is how it is, so again, why should we care about the future of man kind

Because these are the people who will care for you when you get so old you can't take care of yourself.

If you feel physically disgusted and get shivers when you're near children, you have issues pal. Considering we've all been a child, how can you possibly feel nauseated by THEM not IT. Personally, your outlook on this is disgusting, and gives me shivers.

Originally posted by darkelf

Originally posted by deathpoet69
i know that, but the question was, why should people like myself care

Would you care if my dog attacked and seriously hurt you because it wasn't on a leash? That is why it is a law. It's to protect you and everyone else from other people's dogs that may attack you.

No, i wundt be bothered but then again, i am not keen on people so i would do anything to report them just as they would myself

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r you see, your relaying on the future of the human race to look after you because you may not be able to look after yourself, shund't relay on anyone

Originally posted by deathpoet69
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i was a child, i was looked after in certain ways yes, but many children become lost, alot children are spoilt and thats why the world is how it is, so again, why should we care about the future of man kind

I understand friend, I do, but this is not the fault of the child, but of the adults, parents and caregivers.

If you want to change the world, or stop children being 'spoilt', maybe you should take even MORE of an interest in children, not less!

Do you see where I'm coming from?

By the way, you are well within your rights to have this opinion and share it with ATS.

But a lot of people may disagree with you, some may agree, that's what ATS is all about !

Sometimes you don't have a choice.

Originally posted by deathpoet69
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i was a child, i was looked after in certain ways yes, but many children become lost, alot children are spoilt and thats why the world is how it is, so again, why should we care about the future of man kind

sorry guy. you just ./ended your thread right there.

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I have no problems with children, i have it more with the parents to be honest, i do blame adults of course etc, but children can grow up to be like all other adults the world wundt change

Originally posted by deathpoet69

Originally posted by ZombieOctopus
Dog on a leash isn't just for kids...

That's like asking why I should slow down just because you're crossing the street

Maybe you should cross a little faster if you don't want to be run over.

well yea, you should cross a little faster

So you would expect to get run over? Why do you live in a country with such strict laws then? You sound like you're more of an anarchist.