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Originally posted by Indigo_Child
By the way you never answered my question - did you start meditating BEFORE or AFTER you read about meditation? Be honest.
Originally posted by poet1b
reply to post by Indigo_Child
Perfection is an ideal for those who desire to escape conflict and struggle, a belief that once you obtain this perfect state, that you will no longer have any problems. We know that we are not perfect, because we continuously make mistakes, and continuously have to deal with conflict and struggle.
Lust is personal enjoyment of sex. There is nothing wrong with enjoying sex, or anything that life offers us, including victory. What distinguishes wrong from right, good from evil, is when people let their desires over ride their responsibilities as humans, to act fairly and and with virtue in ones conduct in order to establish trust, and therefore law and order, or in other words, to take what one has not earned.
Why seek perfection?
Why seek perfection
You call yourself a child of god, and then you deny the father that is within all. Exactly what kind of god do you think you are a child of?
Perfection is nonsense
The techniques are perhaps learned
Originally posted by Indigo_Child
The techniques are perhaps learned
Thank you, and that is exactly what I was looking for. You learned how to meditate from the Aryan teachings(Gnostic, Buddhist, Hindu, new-age) and if you had not learned how to meditate from them, you would have no understanding of father, period.
We seek out things because that is how we learn from life. This is the whole purpose for living. A great many people are satisfied, often. Western man doesn't thirst for perfection, he thirst for challenge, new ways to test himself, to continue learning and growing. While pleasure is nice, you will find that most Westerners want challenge more than pleasure and that accomplishing things is what brings people the most satisfaction. The desire to be challenged is what has enabled Western Men to accomplish so many amazing things.
You most certainly can satisfy a desire by doing what you desire. The key is to enjoy what you have done when the moment arrives. This is why celebration is a virtue.
Here is what you are missing. You can only remain satisfied for so long. This goal of perfection where you reach some nirvana, and spend eternity in blissful satisfaction is extremely unrealistic. Eventually, you will get bored. Take it from me, I have lived blissful periods of life here on Earth, and eventually I got bored. The idea that you could live for an eternity in bliss is completely contrary to everything we know about the nature cycles of the world. Your emotional cycles from happiness to sadness are as natural as the tides.
While seeking perfection might be embracing conflict and challenge, achieving perfection ends all conflicts and challenges. Once you achieve perfection, there is no place else to go, no other challenges to take on. You become static.
When it comes to sex, the old saying, giving is better than receiving, very much applies. The more pleasure you give, the more you get back. Those who are wise and know how to live don't treat others as a means to an end, as objects, they treat others as partners, team members, family. If you are wise you see your lover as your partner, and you work together for your mutual pleasure. You see your co-worker as your team mate, and you work together for your mutual success. Those people who treat others like meat, as something to be used, or something to be ignored, as something less than they are, are people who have failed to develop wisdom, and an understanding of life.
Those people who have learned to see the world as a good thing, to see others as partners and friends to share in the enjoyment of life, do not see our life on Earth as a plane of suffering, they see life as a great experience.
If you see life on Earth as a plane of suffering, something you would not want to repeat, then you are greatly missing out on this great gift of life.
Personally, I would like to live much longer, I love life. My hope is that in the next life, I go to a higher level, where there are even greater challenges, and greater possibilities.
Originally posted by poet1b
reply to post by Indigo_Child
Forget about the next world, and start concentrating on living the life you are lucky enough to experience.
Originally posted by poet1b
reply to post by Indigo_Child
Subject B - His wife cheats on him and leaves him, and all he is going to do is meditate, and tell himself he feels better? Ouch.
Western is not Abrahamic.
Who has the caste system, and who has a government based on the ideology that all men are created equal, endowed by their creator with certain unalienable rights? Which culture do you think is more enlightened?
A revival of Western spiritual beliefs is what we need, and what has been going on for a couple of centuries now. There is nothing wrong from learning from Eastern spiritualism, but Eastern spiritualism should not dictate how Western spiritualism takes on a new shape.
Originally posted by poet1b
reply to post by Indigo_Child
If your example B guys happiness does not include his woman, then he will never have a woman, because a big part of what makes people happy is the belief that they make others happy, especially their significant other.
Life is also about sharing, sharing time and experiences together. If you only concentrate on the interior, higher self, then you miss out on the exterior world which you can share with others.
Western civilization broke free from Abrahamic control centuries ago. The church controlled world was the world of the divine rights of Kings, the protestant world has become one where we try to believe in equality, where we can all search for God on our own terms. This is a step ahead of even the Hindu world.