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I could care less why you feel you are gay, and I'm baffled why you are curious why I am not gay. Why do you care?
I do not feel it is 'natural,' however, because if it were, it could lead to the loss of the human species. Natural is what causes a species to continue to survive. Since same-sex cannot naturally produce children, I'd have to say no... it's not natural. But each to their own.
I've always been attracted to the same sex.Simple answer.lol.
Actually it was all well and good in ancient Greece too. In fact in some places it was a large part of raising strong men from adolescent boys.
Well the studies say otherwise. Statistically "strait" homophobic males will physiologically respond to gay porn whereas those who weren't homophobic simply didn't respond to the stimuli.
It's this way for like almost 9/10 of homophobes, studies suggest.
This one kind of annoys me. It's imaginary. If you're in a room of strangers and half of them happened to be gay (unless they are really camp and effeminate) you're not going to be able to tell who's what. Since coming out to ma friends about a month ago, nothing has changed, not a thing (in fact I'm the only one who has changed).
I'd say from about the of 11,when I became sexually awakened,I've always been attracted to the same sex.
Curiosity,more than society,did make me experiment with boys.And I can honestly say I never ever enjoyed it.And believe me,I experimented a lot.lol.
I was 13 or 14 when I first kissed a girl properly and it felt so right.I kissed a cpl of boys after that,just to see,but the only thing i felt was an icky feeling in my stomach.
Of course,it wasn't just the physical aspect that attracted me to girls.I loved the whole idea of romance and relationships,and still do.I never fantasized about having that with a boy,it was always with a girl.In fact,i never fantasized about boys full stop.As i said,it was just curiosity.
Amazing how the word homosexuality can be quickly followed by bestiality and necrophilia.
What you are failing to understand is that i did not choose,I do not have a preference for females
What you are failing to understand is that i did not choose,I do not have a preference for females
At the age of sexual awakening my first attraction was to girls
,and it always has been.
How can i make a choice when I have never been attracted to the opposite sex?
I dont know about that. It was probably the military training that took place from the age of 7.
Wiki
In classical antiquity, writers such as Herodotus,[1] Plato,[2] Xenophon,[3] Athenaeus[4] and many others explored aspects of same-sex love in ancient Greece. The most widespread and socially significant form of close same-sex sexual relations in ancient Greece was between adult men and adolescent boys, known as pederasty.
oh really? where is your evidence of this? This is the type of thing that irks me about gays. all of a sudden THEY can determine anyone else's sexuality as well as their own whereas, in my opinion, they are the most confused of the lot.
religioustolerance.org
he two groups exhibited similar arousal when they viewed 4 minute samples taken from one heterosexual and one lesbian movie. But they responded differently to the male homosexual clip:
The researchers concluded that these data are consistent with the belief that most homophobic men have repressed homosexual desires. An alternative, but much less likely, explanation is that the homophobic men's erections were caused by anxiety during the experiment.
In the above post you seem to indicate that 9/10 of homophobes are gay, but here your saying that you cant tell that?
Most people relate to each other by things they have in common. Since homosexuals are a minority they are typically the oddballs. This is what creates the awkward situation im talking about.
Of course,it wasn't just the physical aspect that attracted me to girls.I loved the whole idea of romance and relationships,and still do.
Originally posted by spinkyboo
if i choose to grab my wallet on the table and then set it down again then i just made that choice consciously, it wasn't intrinsically printed on to my "soul" that on this day on this hour on this minute and on this second i have to pick up my wallet.
I would define this as an action born from need. Not a choice.
I am an artist. My mother wanted me to be a doctor. I even tried to be a doctor.
But I couldn't. Did I choose that? No. It was an intrinsic predisposed choice. It was my nature. I did not choose it.
If you are born with 6 toes there is no intrinsic choice being made there, it was a biological error.
How did you get 6 toes? Did you choose it?
The choice was made for you. It was your nature - to have 6 toes.
Choice by nature. Not by you.
Well please prove me wrong, if someone can already be born homosexual then they can also be born with bestiality and necrophilia preferences. How is homosexuality any different?
So what gender are you? If you’re a boy then your first sexual experience was a girl so you do have a choice……you weren’t born gay. Your post contradicts itself. U do not have preference for girls but a girl was your first sexual awakening. So you like boys now but at first you liked girls…..
Originally posted by MilitieTempliSalmo
Ok... nice stories and all but... can you people now stop trying to convert others to your side or acting like that gay-thing is something natural please? Because its NOT. It will NEVER BE. Its not normal. Deal with it.
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I'm not saying I hate gays and they should be all shot or anything
I'm just saying its not something "natural" like you all want the world to face it. Stop trying to impose gayness to normal ppl (not even counting the 90% of you that actually enjoy being a ON-YOUR-FACE gay with all that gay pride crap and kissing and smootching and provoking normal ppl just because you like to shock others).
No I dont hate gays. (like I dont hate ppl who eat french fries with ice cream) - Yes I do think its unnatural (like eating french fries with ice cream)
Heteros are not as IN-YOUR-FACE as you gay people.