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Originally posted by Beamish
Would it be so extraordinary to read of a believable encounter with the fantastic on ATS that goes on to be genuine? One that does not begin with an obviously fictional opening gambit? One that does not insult our intelligence, but seeks to expand it?
I for one think citizenc is genuine in his/her intent. But I believe things were off on the wrong foot by focusing on the fantastic stories rather than the reactions, which I felt was the true intent.
I feel that the OP was judgmental, and the response to my initial post was even more so. I know citizenc doesn't see it this way, but I would ask if that matters?
This is counterproductive to the effort to quell fear. There must be implicit trust to meet that end.
If you wish for people to feel less fearful, give them a reason to be so. Fear cannot be denied. But it can be overcome.
As I said, I do think citizenc is intelligent and earnest, but from where I stand, seeing what I have seen and being as I have been, I don't think the earnest intent was served by the structure of the argument.
Hi! Minion #2 here. I do not understand this statement at all. I believe that citz was ASKED questions and he kindly answered them. No judgements at all. I am a grown women who makes her own decisions and believes what I truly think is the truth. There is NO controlling or creating going on in this post(not with me). That statement made me feel belittled in a way, and also being referred to as a "minion". I read your whole post also. You have a totally different personality on this one. You are acting like the ones you were having a hard time with on your post. You just will not let up and now you are calling people names that are simply asking the poster questions. That is what this is all about. Post-ask questions-reply back-ask questions again.... I don't see the problem. If you are dissatisfied, then why not find something else that might please you instead of feeling so unsatisfied. You have experienced a lot of misery in your life. Maybe you have just become accustomed to it and feel the need for it everyday?? I find this thread to be rather calming , and will probably want more of it if this useless complaining will ever end. I am not trying to be sarcastic, I am just defending my character. It was an insult to be called a controlled and created minion (never been called that before and I know you didn't call my name but we all know that i was one of them). OK, I am done with all this negative energy. I am going to be a more positive person everyday and I can feel it slipping away now.
Have I missed something? Have you shared anything but your judgements and underhanded attacks on threads like mine?
Originally posted by antar
OK citz, I came on to see if you have gotten busy with your thread and started doing something other than gain alliances and spank the few while dishing out endless streams of acceptance to those who agree with you.
Have I missed something? Have you shared anything but your judgements and underhanded attacks on threads like mine?
ATS is not Total drama Websport, you do not need to control and create minions to serve and validate the fact you have strong oppinions and like to have others strenghten your reserves.
Are you writting from a podium? I thought this thread was to share 'your' experiences however strange and unbelievable they may be.
Can you make some rules for us to follow so we dont cross the line of the unbelieveable unbelievable. I have a few soft ones for you that would be acceptable I am sure, that would not make you fear or doubt or get angry at me. Should they be religious of nature or just ordinary everyday unknown stuff?
You did U@U me and ask that I come on and Apologize, I just cannot untill I have heard something of your experince first that would make you feel my story should be in the trash bin rather than The Grey Area.
At some point I truly hope to find common ground.
You did U@U me and ask that I come on and Apologize, I just cannot untill I have heard something of your experince first that would make you feel my story should be in the trash bin rather than The Grey Area.
Originally posted by antar
reply to post by citizenc
You meditate from the mind? No wonder meditation is as far from the mental states as it is the opposite of what you say, it is of the nomind, but then your ego would fight that if it could even begin to comprehend.