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Originally posted by madnessinmysoul
homosexuals are born a certain way. there's evidence of homosexuality in other species, not just humanity. it's not a choice, it's something that's built into a person
sure, you can choose to commit a homosexual act as a heterosexual, but that's just being dishonest to yourself.
the vast majority of homosexuals fall into the category of people born that way.
calling the state someone is born into sinful is prejudice
I'm not being dishonest.
You said that homosexuality is sinful and that people are taking a risk by displaying their prejudice against homosexuality.
i really don't...
in fact, i tend to only use it when it's necessary.
i asked you to show me how it hurts people
you just repeated an assertion and then made a bigger one
Do you have any evidence to demonstrate that it's simply a choice that people make?
The same Kinsey study also produced other evidence that can not be explained in terms of biological determinism, but would readily support the idea that choice is involved in sexual orientation and behavior:
• 74% of their gays admitted to having been sexually aroused by a female and 80% of lesbians said that they had been sexually aroused by a male;
• 19% of their gays and 38% of lesbians had been heterosexually married;
• 20% of gays, 5% of heterosexual men, 7% of lesbians and no heterosexual women had had sex with animals.
Consistent with these results, the Family Research Institute (FRI) 10 conducted a nationwide random survey of 4,340 adults drawn from 5 U.S. cities in 1983 and found:
• 82% of those currently lesbian and 66% of those currently gay said that they had been in love with someone of the opposite sex;
• 88% of lesbians and 73% of gays had been sexually aroused by someone of the opposite sex;
• 67% of lesbians and 54% of gays reported current sexual attraction to the opposite sex;
• 85% of lesbians and 54% of gays, as adults, had sexual relations with someone of the opposite sex;
• 32% of gays and 47% of lesbians had been heterosexually married; and
• 17% of gays, 3% of heterosexual men, 10% of lesbians and 1% of heterosexual women reported sex with animals.
These are the kinds of sexual choices one would expect from the sexually adventurous or confused. Unless Dr. Isay and his supporters are willing to believe that people are "born" to fall in love, get married or to have sex with animals, some measure of choice, rather than biological inevitability, must have been involved.
The ability to change explains the FRI findings that:
• Overall, 7.8% of women and 12% of men claimed to have been homosexually aroused at some point in their life. Yet 59% of the once homosexually aroused women and 51% of the once homosexually aroused men were currently heterosexual;
• 5.1% of the women and 9.4% of the men admitted to at least one homosexual partner. Of these, only 58% of the women and 61% of the men were currently gay;
• 4.1% of women and 5.8% of men reported that they had, at least once, been "in homosexual love." Yet only 66% of those who had fallen in love with a member of the same sex were currently gay; and
• almost a third of those who admitted to homosexual relations in adulthood were now heterosexual.
People Can Change
Where is the "biological inevitability" or "immutability" in these findings? The evidence suggests that people can modify their sexual tastes. The FRI survey in Dallas, similar to the Kinsey survey in San Francisco, found that 1% of heterosexual females and 3% of heterosexual males at one time considered themselves homosexual (i.e., were ex-gay when interviewed).
And a survey of 50 wives who had no homosexual experiences or interests up to age 30, but who participated in homosexual sex acts as part of "swinging" (where married people swap partners) reported that all of these women eventually considered themselves to be bisexual.
These are among the findings that seriously challenge the claim that sexual orientation is predetermined before or after birth, or even that it is permanently fixed in adulthood.
What is at Stake?
If sexual orientation is actually a matter of choice like drug use, we can expect that more of our youth will try homosexuality the more that it is tolerated and encouraged. Along these lines, Dr. Christopher Hewitt's analysis of the frequency of homosexuality in various societies is summarized in the Table: societies that accept homosexuality have more of it and those that disapprove of and punish it have considerably less of it
...so it's ok to criticize people for things they're born with
oh dear noodley lord, you're actually going to compare homosexuality to a mental illness?
Well, comparing her to a regular thief is a bit prejudiced. Many kleptomaniacs do not even realize that they're stealing things at the time...
And you're comparing apples to oranges, because homosexuality isn't inherently harmful and stealing an item is
actually, it's just mean and quite possibly the worst way to deal with an alcoholic.
Homosexual sex doesn't lead to fatalities (if you bring up AIDS, then heterosexual sex is just as dangerous)
(if you bring up AIDS, then heterosexual sex is just as dangerous)
Originally posted by Freeborn
reply to post by Bigwhammy
Soz whammy, but where in The Bible does it state that having "the holy spirit" in you is a necessity for understanding the "true" meaning of The Bible?
Verse and chapter please.
The Bible, according to Xians is "the" word of God.
There is no secret, gnostic, hidden message.
The Bible is words, and words are simply words.
The Bible is the tool which nearly 2 millenium of Xians have used to gain converts.
Any attempt to imply that there are "hidden" messages in The Bible is elitist and is merely an attemp to justify a particular interpretation of The Bible as THE "true" interpretation.
[edit on 10/4/08 by Freeborn]
Originally posted by TheWalkingFox
reply to post by Bigwhammy
And who sets the standard for comprehension? Apparently, you believe you are such a stadnard-setter. I presume there are more, however? Do you have a master list of all the people who have the "correct comprehension" of the bible? Does this standardization vary for each denomination, or is the Russian Orthodoxy just SOL?
Originally posted by rizla
reply to post by Bigwhammy
How old are you? You seem pretty young. I think when you mature you will change a lot of your ideas. Thinks will become less black and white and you will learn to think for yourself more. At least, I sure hope so!
Originally posted by mug2k
O, really?
1. The most people in world history were killed by atheists.
2. The most wars in world history were non-religious.
Now thats a big statement. If its your personal opinion so be it. Fact ? please back it up with evidence !
Ephesians 2:8: "You have been saved by God's love and kindness because you believed. It was not because of anything you did, but it was a gift from God
A believer in Paul's church needed only make a statement of belief to fulfill all the requirements of Paul's Christianity. It was enough to believe that the Messiah died on the cross for the forgivness of sins.
Humankind was to develop its own salvation by changing within. No one would give it to a person as a gift.
Yeshua promised the transformation would require work:
EVIDENCE. God I love that word. If any religion can prove their supernatural claims with simple EVIDENCE many atheists would instantly convert! Unfortunately, religions like christianity want us to believe whatever they say without showing any kind of reliable proof. Fact checking and evidentiary standards are foreign to them.
Originally posted by idle_rocker
reply to post by nikolat23
EVIDENCE. God I love that word. If any religion can prove their supernatural claims with simple EVIDENCE many atheists would instantly convert! Unfortunately, religions like christianity want us to believe whatever they say without showing any kind of reliable proof. Fact checking and evidentiary standards are foreign to them.
Oh really? I spent years dead to the Spirit, caught up in a world of logic, science and psychology. Only when I finally opened my heart did I find true peace, joy and happiness. I don't need any more proof. I have it right where I need it. Your standards and logic aren't foreign to me...they're just wrong. Evidential standards and logic don't hold a candle to the light of the Spirit. Just because you haven't found it, doesn't mean it's not there. Sorry, but it's true.
Originally posted by Bigwhammy
reply to post by rizla
Sorry but you have it exactly backwards. I am probably a lot older than you are. I did not become a Christian until I was 37 and that was a while ago. The more I mature the more I see it is all true. It takes a change of heart to be able see the truth. God blessed me with one. The wisdom of the world makes sense in some regards but it never satisfies. It doesn't compare to the wisdom of God as revealed in the Bible. I think as you mature you will find that to be true.