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posted by sylvrshadow
Hi All. I am pleasantly surprised to see a thread such as this not reduced to personal attacks or angry rhetoric. I have so many stories about first hand accounts of racism, but I will only list a few so that I can make a statement about what I think racism really is. Just my opinion of course!
Age 8
I remember the look of disgust the [white school] nurse gave me as I had my hair checked. I thought it was because she thought I had lice in my hair, but then I realized she did it to all of the black children. [1980 in TX by my calculations.]
Ages 9 & 10
Two new girls of Japanese descent joined our class. I was excited to get to know them because I never had friends who were Asian. We had a great first week getting to know each other. Then the next Monday they told me they couldn’t play with me anymore. When I asked why, they told me because their parents told them black people were not nice and not to be trusted . .
Age 14
I moved from TX to GA . . my high school was mixed black and white but walking on opposite sides of the hall, sitting separately at lunch and in class, and riding separate busses. It was unforced segregation, and the students PREFERRED it that way.
Ages 15-17
I enrolled in Advance Placement classes to help prepare me for college. I wanted to be a veterinarian. I was the only black person in my classes. Apparently only white people took those classes and if you signed up for AP classes well, then [your black friends said] you were trying to be white. (I know it doesn’t make much sense?) So, all my friends were white. I was told by white people who knew me that I wasn’t really black, I was different. Try as I might I could never get them to understand that I really was black, and that outside of Conyers, GA, there were other black people who were as "different" as I was. I don’t think it ever really sank in.
Age 19
I attended Tuskegee University, a historically black college . . It’s a new experience going to a school where everyone is black. No one thinks I "talk white" or "act white." Everyone is from everywhere . . only a few people had extreme views about white people and unfortunately one of them was my history professor.
I became a thorn in my professor’s side. . I challenged his "facts" about how black people are the "root race" and how all great ideas are originally those of black people. I research on my own and I was still able to shed light on many of his untrue “facts."
Age 24
Now married and living in Wash DC. [1995] I am 8 months pregnant and having strange pains. With my husband at work, I have to go alone to my doctors hospital . . To get there I take the Metro train part way and then hail a cab the rest of the way. As I waited at the bus stop for a cab, my pains grew worse. I breathed a sigh of relief when I saw a cab coming. The driver slows down, looks at me and then speeds up to pick up a man 20 feet in front of me. Yes, this man was white.
I was shocked and started crying hysterically, worried about my baby . . a man waves down a cab going the opposite direction. The driver turns and stops, asking where he would go. The man replies that he would go to the closest hospital and then he ushers me into the cab. This man happened to be white. But more, the cab driver apologized for the other cab driver’s behavior and then personally took me inside the hospital and made sure I was alright before leaving. He refused to take the money I owed him for the cab ride.
Age 26
I now work as a vet tech intern at an animal hospital in Bowie MD. I feel like I have joined a new family. I noticed the woman who is the office manager, has been sending some rather strange statements my way in a couple of our conversations.
Follows several racially insensitive remarks that may or may not be purposeful. I’d guess the remarks are probably a not so subtle way of establishing her O/M pecking order. With Ms S/S at the bottom.
“Well, those are a few of the experiences that I have had in my 36 years of life. Based on my experiences and my viewpoint on life in general, I look at racism a bit differently.
Then racism only exists based on an individuals fears, mis-understanding, and the inability of that person to educate themselves about others who they see as being different. There exists cultural differences between all people, even people of the same race. I am ME before I am any label, and I find that I evolve as a person every day. I am by no means perfect, and I am guilty of exhibiting viewpoints that are prejudiced, biased, judgmental, or racist. I make no excuses for that, but I am hopeful that I learn to be less of those things everyday. It is my hope that we all will.” [Edited by Don W]
Originally posted by donwhite
I thought race prejudice was a white man’s disease?
But the white man was not pregnant. You were visibly pregnant. I have some empathy with the cabbie provided his decision was based on your pregnancy rather than on your color.
Originally posted by donwhite
Wow! OK on not living here. You’re right, I engaged in hyperbole. Well, its not too important now, anyway. I am not aware of what you describe as multi-cultural but I think I know what you mean by the context. I had no intent of referring to non-US of A types. Yes on variations. Is that a double negative on purpose?
I always wanted to visit Australia, but I never had the time and money at the same time. My closest connection to Australians was my brief sojourn with the 77 Squadron RAAF, at Kimpo AB, Korea, in late 1953. They flew Glouster Meteors. I visited their mess several times for a good sample of beer.
posted by Benevolent Heretic
posted by donwhite: I thought race prejudice was a white man’s disease?
donwhite, your commentary continues to surprise me. several of us white people have been telling you different for a year (at least) now. I'm sorry you didn't take our word for it, but glad that sylvrshadow's story convinced you otherwise. [Edited by Don W]
You [sylvrshadow] were visibly pregnant. I have some empathy with the cabbie provided his decision was based on your pregnancy rather than on your color.
Why would you empathize with a man who refused to help a visibly pregnant women for his own selfish reasons?
Originally posted by donwhite
Look at who else also thinks white America is racist.
I gave my reason in my post, B/H. Hey, it’s a free market, right?
Hey, we don’t want any regulations about who cabbies pick up and who they deny a ride. Do we?
This must be the heart of Republicanism? Small government, no or low taxes. And God Bless the War in Iraq?
posted by Open_Minded Skeptic
I don't think anybody has said there is not a racism problem in White America. I know BH has not said that. What she and others are saying is that racism is not unique to White America, but exists, sadly, in pretty much all colors and ethnicity’s in this country. That is the point that seems to keep being missed or denied. [Edited by Don W]
Are you saying you think it would be wrong for a cabby not to pick up sylvrshadow because she is black, but it is OK to not pick her up because she is pregnant?
Originally posted by donwhite
Racism practiced on blacks is huge. All other racism is minuscule.
Originally posted by donwhite
I think B/H was trying to show that if just 1 white person was not a racist, my assertion that ALL white people born before 1954 are racists, was disproved.
Originally posted by donwhite
I thought race prejudice was a white man’s disease?
In America, there are no rules about cabbies and who they haul.
S/S, rightly being sensitive to race based maltreatment sees race where I say, it might have been economic discrimination, which is OK in America.
posted by Benevolent Heretic
In my opinion, if we separate "white racism" and "black racism" as two different animals, we've lost. Racism is racism. Yes, a higher percentage of blacks are probably subjected to racism. But ANY racism is racism. None is minuscule, IMO.
Originally posted by semperfortis
If we can accept our neighbors differences, we can learn from them and maybe, just maybe be a little less racist..
posted by seagull
With all the fuss about Don Imus in the past few days it seems obvious the US has come a long way along the road to - true - equality among the races. Still a ways to go but would there have been this much fuss say even twenty years ago? [1987] I doubt it. Progress is sometimes slower than we'd like. But progress is still progress. Baseball commemorates Jackie Robinson, remember what he went through and recall there was little in the way of public condemnation of the attacks against him. No one of any consequence said anything to condemn the racist attacks against him. Now? A comment on air by Imus generates incredible outrage, as it should have. [YouTube gets the credit] Progress is there to be seen, if you care enough to look for it. [Edited by Don W]
posted by semperfortis
If you did that would you have the Dems do it as well? This goes both ways, or we have the very thing you are complaining about in reverse. Semper [Edited by Don W]
Originally posted by donwhite
I dunno, Ms B/H. Look at who else also thinks white America is racist.
Originally posted by donwhite
So why should Dems sign any pledge? They don't do racism.
posted by Benevolent Heretic
donwhite, (1) do you even read my posts? For the third time, (2) I said prejudice is not JUST a white man's disease. Meaning white people aren't the ONLY people who are racist. (3) And since when do you think it would matter to me what Dwight Eisenhower or Richard Nixon or anyone else thinks? [Edited by Don W]
I can't believe you think that Republicans are racist and Democrats aren't.