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Originally posted by DDay
Very very well said and for it you have my way above vote.
Although I have never myself been subjected to this type of behaviour I have to take some responsibility for the actions of "my" people.
It's the quiet kind of hurt that you carry that gets lost on most. People only hear the "squeaky wheels" of the African American. Those that cry injustice and look for hand outs. I hope you understand what I am trying to say.
Originally posted by CSIfan
Did you know that when you apply to adopt a child, you are disqualified if you have been an abused child?
Try to imagine ...
Originally posted by truthseeka
... white people assume that black people who want reparations just want free money from the government.
But, America STILL stands out as the country with the most barbaric slave history.
Originally posted by FlyersFan
Oh geeeze. Another 'free money' thread.
Listen up. Slavery in America ended 150 years ago. There are no children or grandchildren of slaves running around. None.
Wrong. Haven't read up on the Barbary pirates, eh? Or the mass crucifiction of slaves in Rome? Slaves forced to fight to the death in Rome and Greece? Ship Galley Slaves who rowed and rowed ... and sunk with the ships. The slaves STILL in Africa and the Middle East and their plights today? The women and children held in S.E. Asia today in sex slavery - dozens upon dozens of clients each day, diseases, preganancies, no medical care, beatings, no hope - full and complete slavery.
Tens of thousands of years of human slave history and you say the couple of hundred years of slavery in America was 'the most barbaric'??
quote: Originally posted by CSIfan
Did you know that when you apply to adopt a child, you are disqualified if you have been an abused child?
Originally posted by CSIfan
At 5 yrs old, in NYC, I was getting ready to visit Southern relatives...my Mother warned me not to say anything that would make a White Person angry, what could happen to me down south!
Try to see how a woman could love a man who was set up by a master to be her mate?
Lynchings, mental and physical, continue...
The "other children", the children of the Master...this is scary...The generations who were descended from "The Master", they were raised by him, and all his hatred, torture, rapes...the sickness of the Master...a man who could buy and sell human beings...kill at will…
Originally posted by CSIfan
So, this is why I think we are owed reparations, which will certainly be mostly spent on much needed therapy (at least in my case).
Can a Country like America allow policies that drive people insane?
Originally posted by CSIfan
Anything that happened in Africa or Rome, for that matter, is not relevant here.
Originally posted by semperfortis
My sister suffered abuse from the time she was 4 until leaving home at 18... She has just adopted her grandchildren and though it was a lond drawn out process, the fact she was abused never entered into the equation...
Parental Histories and the Cycle of Abuse
A parent's childhood history plays a large part in how he or she may behave as a parent. Individuals with poor parental role models or those who did not have their own needs met may find it very difficult to meet the needs of their children.
While the estimated number varies, child maltreatment literature commonly supports the finding that some maltreating parents or caregivers were victims of abuse and neglect themselves as children.23 One review of the relevant research suggested that about one-third of all individuals who were maltreated will subject their children to maltreatment.24 Children who either experienced maltreatment or witnessed violence between their parents or caregivers may learn violent behavior and may also learn to justify violent behavior as appropriate.25
An incorrect conclusion from this finding, however, is that a maltreated child will always grow up to become a maltreating parent. There are individuals who have not been abused as children who become abusive, as well as individuals who have been abused as children and do not subsequently abuse their own children. In the research review noted above, approximately two-thirds of all individuals who were maltreated did not subject their children to abuse or neglect.26
It is not known why some parents or caregivers who were maltreated as children abuse or neglect their own children and others with a similar history do not.27 While every individual is responsible for his or her actions, research suggests the presence of emotionally supportive relationships may help lessen the risk of the intergenerational cycle of abuse.28"
A Coordinated Response to Child Abuse and Neglect: The Foundation for Practice- Chapter Five: What Factors Contribute to Child Abuse and Neglect?
Originally posted by truthseeka
she pretty much says the same things over and over,
Originally posted by CSIfan
when a formerly abused person attempts to adopt, children's services agencies are very cautious and the result is a "long drawn out process" ....
Originally posted by CSIfan
Okay, we need to agree on the most important thing about this discussion:
Anything that happened in Africa or Rome, for that matter, is not relevant here.
As I explained in the original post, I was raised in NYC so this is about America only.
This is about what was allowed to happen on American soil.
Lets stay on track!