Why isn't Psychiatry involved?

I've been looking at this situation for a while now.

We have been dealing with a bunch of Man-Haters in this country. Except they aren't being treated as Man-Haters. Yet, they claim almost everything a Man does is 'Toxic". This is insane.

Hate doesn't belong here. Which means Man-Haters don't belong here. It's blatant Bigotry against Men.

So why isn't the Psychiatric community getting involved? Are they infiltrated by Man-Haters? Because I have heard stories about Men being told to stop acting like Men in Therapy.

And where do Man-Haters get off thinking they can dictate how Men should act or think?

This Bigotry needs to stop.

a reply to: GotterDameron23

Where you fall on the toxic spectrum usually depends on how much they like you. You can get away with a lot if they like you and very little if they don't.

Regardless of gender, behaviour is tolerated based on mob mentality. The further from acting like a mob humans get the more tolerant and less controlled they get.

I’m hoping the last four years of being led by the nose will help 1st world societies throw the yoke and start diversifying their individual goals for the common good.

a reply to: tamusan

First, a psychiatrist in the US is little more than a legal drug dealer. Most of these women probably do go to professional therapy. The professional therapist in the US seem to be divided into two classifications depending on what university they went to mostly. One form of therapy is "woke" for lack of a better term. The other form is not. Most women that are in the woke camp are most certainly going to choose a woke therapist to validate their nonsense.

The problem in this area pretty much lay with the US university system being overloaded with marxist identity theory. And as such, you can expect this bizarre and weird behavior to continue for some time to come.

At this point, the only real cure is social ostracizing. I see it on the internet, not sure if it exists in real social situations as I work nights and do not really have a social life outside of my immediate family and close friends.

Have you seen the ones who hate men?
No attractive women hate men unless they were abused by them.
Some even deliberately make themselves ugly or turn lesbian after being in younger years by men.

The loudest, unsightly man haters however hate men because men aren't attracted to them and they are too dumb for a career ladder or anything else.
So they blame men for that.

The rest, including a lot of born lesbians don't hate men.
Men make the world go round. Well not all males (soy jacks and men for Harris and abusers excluded).

Nature always wins in the end.

a reply to: Hecate666

a reply to: GotterDameron23
They don't call it "liberal arts" for nothing.
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originally posted by: tamusan
Where you fall on the toxic spectrum usually depends on how much they like you. You can get away with a lot if they like you and very little if they don't.

What are they trying to get away with?

But clearly, and demonstrably, you are correct although one must wonder how much that has to do with money as well.

Would Donald Trump have won not one but two elections had he just been toxic?

Of course, if wealth was the only contributing factor to toxic masculinity then there would be significantly less toxic men - only about 1% I suppose, lol. There are far more than that obviously, you just have to look at the levels of domestic abuse in some countries as well as the attitude to it. Rape and sexual violence too, not to mention the way in which in seeking justice victims, male and female, are repeatedly re-victimised by the criminal justice system.

Alot of what we define as toxic is really a sense of entitlement, and I suppose, with high profile people like Andrew Tate, a projection of what he thinks a man should be in justification of his own misogyny and exploitation of women. He wants to be looked up to, admired and emulated which implies a deep level of insecurity.

I wonder with the OP, whether the guys that were told to stop "acting like men" by their therapists were stuck in a cycle of performative masculinity that was proving detrimental to their interactions with the opposite sex outside their inner circle where those examples were set. Even those who are gender normative can be essentially performing a role, assuming a sexual identity that they feel the need to conform to in order to be accepted by their family or peers which may not be acceptable in wider society - or sticking to specificity set by the OP, by women in general.

I don't believe that women hate men in general any more than I believe men hate women in general but traditional and historically the balance of power, and expression of vitriol, has been quite one sided. That's no longer the case and obviously that's going to annoy misogynists who long for a time when such behaviour would warrant a scold's bridle or a good old fashioned smack across the mouth.

a reply to: PorkChop96

is that the president of the she woman man haters club?

a reply to: BernnieJGato

You'd have to ask what they identify as, but I'm sure you're not far off

a reply to: GotterDameron23

So why isn't the Psychiatric community getting involved?

But they are.

Here is an article: Psychology Today - Debunking the Myth of the Man-Hating Feminist

Misandry is a myth. Although it is true that there are some feminists who identify as misandrists, those women are the exception, not the norm. To those men who apply “not all men” arguments to every discussion about men’s harms toward women, this should be a relatively easy concept for them to grasp.

There is some empirical evidence suggesting that women are more likely to identify as misandrists when they have first gained consciousness of their own oppression (Downing & Roush, 1985). Over time, as they become more aware of the systems that underpin sexism and sexist oppression in a patriarchal culture, they disengage from the hatred of individual men and begin engaging with systems instead. If misandry exists at all, it appears to be a belief system with a short half-life that exists in only a small portion of all self-identified feminists.

On the other hand:

Are they infiltrated by Man-Haters?

There is anecdotal evidence that women are taking over the field.
On Being a Male in Female Spaces: A Personal Investigation into Misandry in Modern Psychology

Why isn't Psychiatry involved?

It is.....Go into any bar and watch the guys get shot down because they try to use macho psychology; trying to impress women with how badass they are. It's hilarious...


"you catch more flies with sugar than...."

a reply to: BrucellaOrchitis

What are they trying to get away with?

I don't know about other men but it's their Vjay that I'm after, but most woman are safe as I have a very specific type of woman and no, not specifically Asian, it's the highly educated women who I like, most of which happen to be Asian.

a reply to: GotterDameron23

The pharmaceutical companies own every one with a medical license, from the ER OR and Psychology to even the Veterinary field. BIG PHARMA pushes their pills, and physicians don't cure any thinganh longer, they treat symptoms...

Keep that in mind next time you question things.
Who's in charge, who benefits.

originally posted by: tamusan
I don't know about other men but it's their Vjay that I'm after,

Vjay? You are after their vagina? You are allowed to say "vagina", it is the biological term and generally the one adults use.

Either way, that wasn't my question, I asked you what you were trying to get away with, not what the end game was. You said:

originally posted by: tamusan
You can get away with a lot if they like you and very little if they don't.

I was hoping for some of examples of what you can "get away with" when they like you a lot.

a reply to: BrucellaOrchitis

I was hoping for some of examples of what you can "get away with" when they like you a lot.

As a charter member of saloon society, I feel experienced enough to answer this question.


It usually follows a logical progression, kiss, intimate caresses, then sex. Seduction is an art and attractiveness is a definite advantage .

a reply to: lilzazz

Lol, lilzazz, not really what I was getting at but good for you.

You're not "getting away with" anything are you though? Getting away with something implies that you are doing something wrong. Two people enjoying each other within socially and individually acceptable parametres is not wrong. Sex, in and of itself, is not wrong. So what exactly is it that you think that you are "getting away with" here?

That's more along the lines of what I was getting at, you know?

a reply to: BrucellaOrchitis

I don't know if you have ever experienced the " competition" aspect of seduction; but there is a sense of "getting away with something" if you "score"...does that make any sense.

Emotionally, a throwback to adolescence....I don't want to think about this anymore.

Happy Thanksgiving!!

Dont look up the 4b movement then

originally posted by: BeTheGoddess2
Dont look up the 4b movement then

I support the women that support the 4B movement. It's just another aspect of "freedom of choice"
however I do find the "trans" movement to be seriously weird but it's none of my business and doesn't affect me.