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What would be best for the cat?
originally posted by: chiefsmom
Cats are really adaptable. And she is getting older.
I would let the cat decide, if it is feasible.
Let your daughter take her, with the understanding that she is really going to have to watch her, for the first week. She will probably hide the first day or 2, until she gets comfortable. Then your daughter really needs to watch her, to see if she is trying to dart out the door, crying and wandering around.
If she isn't doing those things, she may just be happy being with your daughter, if she is, she should probably come back to your house, for her safety.
Just a thought.
originally posted by: Lucius Driftwood
Sorry, didn't even read your post.
No cat.
originally posted by: datguy
as a cat person this is a mixed bag and a tough choice
If the cat is bonded with your daughter, there is a chance the cat will leave on its own if left behind (more likely if male)
AS was suggested by another post, a trial period might be best BUT i would suggest the opposite. As cats are territorial by nature, keep the cat with you and let your daughter get settled in but watch for any changes in the cats behavior, I.E. is it wandering outside further than usual.
If the cat clearly misses your daughter then consider visitation rights (lmao) with a possible full time move in the future.
I do have some concern though as you refer to the cat as your pet, clearly any real cat owner understands that you are the cats pet.
Hope everyone ends up happy and safe what ever you decide
originally posted by: Akragon
a reply to: KindraLabelle2
especially since its an older cat... you want her late years happy.... apartment cats are fine IF they grew up in that environment....