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originally posted by: ketsuko
a reply to: CthruU
I disagree, but I am a Stoic in nature and philosophy. This is alongside being Christian or beneath it. I find that it leads me to being generally content and happy because among other things, I know what I can and cannot control.
The dichotomy of control. In my clinical work, this Stoic idea stands out as being of the most obvious value. According to the Stoics, we need to let go of the idea that we have direct, complete control over many of the things that concern us, such as what other people think about us, what happened in the past, and even what might happen in the future. All we have direct control over, according to the Stoics, are how we think about things and what we voluntarily do. Life will go much more smoothly if we focus only on these. For example, suppose you are worried that you have upset a colleague. Instead of spending hours overthinking the situation, reflect on whether there is something helpful you can do. A good Stoic would probably pick up the phone and speak to their colleague. They would certainly not get caught up in fruitless hours of worry or self-recrimination.
In other words, the past cannot be changed. It is what it is, and even those events that I played direct part in are over and done, and no purpose is served in continually revisiting them. All that can be done is to move forward with today. Apologies and chest thumping and guilt are only attempts to change a past that is what it is and nothing else will change it. All that matters is what we do now, and creating inequalities today to try to fix an inequality that that will never right is sheer folly and stupidity of the greatest order. You only recreate the past over and over in running away from it.
originally posted by: KTemplar
originally posted by: CthruU
originally posted by: KTemplar
a reply to: CthruU
Peace Panda, I mean Lionking, whatever your avatar is 😁
Cool, . back to your gaming now and leave the real world issues to the people who actually get out of the house.
There's a good girl or tomboy or whatever your avatar is.
I have a job, and have worked since I was 16! I don’t game!
Nice try! Nice projection of yourself though 🤣
originally posted by: Moon68
originally posted by: ketsuko
a reply to: PorkChop96
Anyone who has imbibed that particular brand of ideology gets their jollies both by feeling miserable and then by pointing out how awful it is that others are not as virtuously miserable as they are.
I hear that the Canadian healthcare system offers a cure for self-loathing depression.
originally posted by: ketsuko
a reply to: CthruU
And you blatantly ignored the rest. But of course you did.
By creating continued inequalities today in an attempt to balance what cannot be balanced because it is over and done with, you only end up chasing the past and recreating it over and over which is what you are doing right this very second.
You have not let go of the past at all. Unless treating everyone the same starts now, and that does not start by treating some more equal than others because they weren't treated fairly in the past, we are only reliving the same mistakes we have made, over and over and over ... This is why you learn history instead of reliving it.
originally posted by: PorkChop96
a reply to: CthruU
Please, enlighten me oh great one, what am I supposedly preaching? Since my simple minded brain doesn't seem to understand the greatness you speak.
originally posted by: PorkChop96
a reply to: CthruU
It's posts like these that just further my point form earlier. You are so caught up in trying to make yourself feel better for your "white guilt" that all you want to do is try to make others feel inferior to yourself.
I really do feel sorry for you and the need you feel to belittle others to get you jolly's. I would love to see you go 5 minutes in a thread without making derogatory comments about another persons post. Otherwise, if you have nothing to say but negative things about someone, instead of trying to have a legitimate conversation/debate, then please just leave.
originally posted by: seagull
a reply to: CthruU
So crimes of the parents brought down on the sons and daughters?? We're guilty, no matter how long ago??
Whatever.
originally posted by: seagull
I wonder what the threshold is?? How much "whiteness" is required to fall under this proposed idiocy??
I'm about 1/16th Blackfoot, though you couldn't tell by lookin' at me. I'm a tall, heavily built, mountain man bearded white dude--glow in the dark white dude. Given that my family, on both sides, hail from both sides of the Mason-Dixon Line, I can be fairly confident that there's probably some African-American in the mix, too...
So how much is not enough??
originally posted by: Hangontight
How many times has she criticized white people?
If that rule applied to her she would have hundreds of criminal charges against her for criticizing white people.