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Originally posted by LadyV
....they won't complain about men going to strip clubs, or looking at porn, or someone getting drunk and cheating on a spouse on Saturday night,
Originally posted by riley
I believe the reason why christianity is more tolerant of women being objectified and used for 'service' than they are homosexuality is because the bible starts with Eve being Adam's servant and therefore tolerates women being used as such..
it is usually women that are held accountable for pornography by fundies- probably because the mindset is 'Eve offered the apple so it's her fault he bit into it'.
Originally posted by riley
I believe the reason why christianity is more tolerant of women being objectified and used for 'service' than they are homosexuality is because the bible starts with Eve being Adam's servant and therefore tolerates women being used as such.. it is usually women that are held accountable for pornography by fundies- probably because the mindset is 'Eve offered the apple so it's her fault he bit into it'.
Yes- christainity has always had alot of power- only took a millenia for women to get some of it back.
Originally posted by saint4God
Hold up. Are you saying the women in strip clubs, pornos and involved in adulterous relationships are Christian?
Originally posted by riley
No [well maybe one or two] ..I'm saying that ideals in the bible have drastically influenced cultural attitudes.
Originally posted by madmanacrosswater
Yes, Saint. Women who are in strip clubs, etc. could possibly be Christian. One must not have a strict impression of what a "Christian" is. A Christian is one who looks to Jesus Christ for forgiveness of their sins, and realizes that Christ took to the cross for that.
Originally posted by madmanacrosswater
You asked me about where it said in the Constitution about seperation of church and state. You KNOW what amendment I was referring to.
Originally posted by madmanacrosswater
A true Christian DOES NOT JUDGE. From earlier readings of your writings I got the impression that you realized that. However, the two questions asked, and specifically the "Women in Strip Clubs" question now has me wondering that perhaps you are being judgemental.
Originally posted by madmanacrosswater
It is not our place to judge. Question, yes. Judge, no.
Originally posted by madmanacrosswater
One certainly realizes GOD made the differences in man and women for procreation purposes? That man only put on the clothes after the original sin?
Originally posted by madmanacrosswater
Many types of Christians out there my friend. Just like different people view things different ways. I don't like the "conservative" viewpoint just like you don't apparently like the "liberal" viewpoint.
Originally posted by madmanacrosswater
When one moves on in their spiritual progress, and after their physical being dies many will be amazed at what "strange bedfellows" God has.
Originally posted by madmanacrosswater
It basically comes down to passing on God's LOVE to all mankind.
Originally posted by Ray Davies
This thread reminds me of a classmate I had in high school.
He tried to convince people that if you masturbate you are a homsexual, because.........well, because you're touching a dick.
Originally posted by Ray Davies
I am terrified of Christians, they'll believe anything.
Very true. From the days of Biblical lore to this very day women are considered the evildoers when it comes to carnal sin. This is because they were considered property, subject to man and expected to live by their rules. The women were labelled whores while their patrons were considered...well...they actually were not considered anything but men, unless of course they were pharoahs succumbing to the whiles of an already married woman who acted in compliance with the hero to deceive their prey. Yet the Bible is rife with glossed over accounts of rape and forcible subservience of women. Men had many wives, while females at puberty were destined for marriage to any old codger who their fathers could ship them off to, usually uncles, sometimes brothers as with Abraham. Sheba being that one rare case not accepting subservience or being the trophy bride.
Originally posted by rileyNo [well maybe one or two] ..I'm saying that ideals in the bible have drastically influenced cultural attitudes and moral expectations.
Originally posted by SomewhereinBetween
The women were labelled whores while their patrons were considered...well...they actually were not considered anything but men,
Originally posted by saint4God
Let me review the important points. United does not mean "take as a servant". It means according to Merriam Webster: 1 a : to put together to form a single unit b : to cause to adhere c : to link by a legal or moral bond. Also, becoming one flesh means that anything he feels, she feels. Anything she feels, he feels. Who would cause harm, hatred, anger, and subserviance to themselves? The thought is ridiculous. The problem is we don't get this verse. We think after marriage the two become two. Clearly this is NOT what the Bible says.
What makes anyone think 2,000 - 4,000 years ago men walked from cave to cave clubbing women to become their wives? I've yet to see any proof of that.
Originally posted by SomewhereinBetween
Christianity does not believe in the God responsible for our creation, he has been replaced by another, just as all previous Gods were ousted in the 6,000 year old evolution. And even this new god, is in danger of being replaced by his mother.
Originally posted by riley
1 Corinthians 11
3 Now I want you to realize that the head of every man is Christ, and the head of the woman is man, and the head of Christ is God. 6 If a woman does not cover her head, she should have her hair cut off; and if it is a disgrace for a woman to have her hair cut or shaved off, she should cover her head. 7 A man ought not to cover his head, since he is the image and glory of God; but the woman is the glory of man. 8 For man did not come from woman, but woman from man; 9 neither was man created for woman, but woman for man.
Seems women are less 'holier' than men in the eyes of god.
What makes anyone think 2,000 - 4,000 years ago men walked from cave to cave clubbing women to become their wives? I've yet to see any proof of that.
Originally posted by riley
I don't know.. maybe the fact that women used to still have to say "love , honour and obey" only last century..
Originally posted by riley
Saint4god.. how can you say that marriage is suppose to be 'equal' when men didn't even have to say this? ..the logic behind this was Eve being born for Adam [as in possession] ..same idea behind rape being still legal in marriage last century.. thats not 2000 years ago.
1 Timothy 2
11 A woman should learn in quietness and full submission.
Can't see the misogynry yet?
12 I do not permit a woman to teach or to have authority over a man; she must be silent. 13 For Adam was formed first, then Eve.
14 And Adam was not the one deceived; it was the woman who was deceived and became a sinner. 15 But women will be saved through childbearing--if they continue in faith, love and holiness with propriety.
nope.. that doesn't sound like a single unit.. sounds like a master/servant 'relationship' to me.. where is this equal 'unity' based on mutual respect?
Originally posted by saint4God
Do you know who wrote Corinthians? Do you know why that letter to the Corinthians was written? Some background since we're only pulling out a small section. Paul wrote because of church dissension. Apparently there was some rivalry within the church so they asked for Paul's advice. This was the solution he put forward. Let's talk about God, not Paul's solutions to problems in a Corinthian church, shall we?
Is that in the Bible? Because, that is what we're discussing here. Also, how is this clubbing? I obey God, as it is written and as we're instructed.
Originally posted by riley
Saint4god.. how can you say that marriage is suppose to be 'equal' when men didn't even have to say this? ..the logic behind this was Eve being born for Adam [as in possession] ..same idea behind rape being still legal in marriage last century.. thats not 2000 years ago.
Let's talk about today then. I guess we've established that the 'old school' thinking wasn't so bad after all.
Jesus compares at length his relationship with the Church as a bridge-groom relationship. He uses it as something sacred with love. Do you believe Jesus would 'rape' the church?
1 Timothy 2
11 A woman should learn in quietness and full submission.
Can't see the misogynry yet?
12 I do not permit a woman to teach or to have authority over a man; she must be silent. 13 For Adam was formed first, then Eve.
14 And Adam was not the one deceived; it was the woman who was deceived and became a sinner. 15 But women will be saved through childbearing--if they continue in faith, love and holiness with propriety.
Another letter? Okay okay, who is "I" in this passage? Paul. Again, you're quoting an apostle who was sorting out problems in a church. Genesis shows Adam blaming woman AND God for eating the apple and he gets equally punished (sent out of the garden).
I agree that it's best to listen and do that which is right male or female.
After all, wisdom is a she, right? How about addressing some of my quotes, huh?
Galatians 3:28 - "There is neither Jew nor Greek, slave nor free, male nor female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus." Need more? I got more.
Originally posted by saint4God
Proverbs 8:1 ... Her? She? Men of foolishness? Hm, doesn't sound very misogynistic to me. Let's read some more...
This is about wisdom though and is being personified as a woman.
She was highly favored for being with God.
Of course!!! It because of our "binah"...intuition, intelligence, understanding which is also the root of "build" as women were built and not formed so we're closer to G-d's ideal!! Practice makes perfect!!!!!!
How about Deborah in Judges 3?
One of the seven female prophets!!!!
And of course my favorite: Genesis 2:24 "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh"
The Hebrew uses cling in lieu of united which I think fits much better. I like this verse because it shows that human males are to be different than the other males as he wants to be with his wife; also it shows that the ideal in the garden was monogamy.
Proverbs 31:10 "What a rare find is a capable wife! Her worth is far beyond that of rubies."
Originally posted by Shonet1430
Proverbs 31:10 "What a rare find is a capable wife! Her worth is far beyond that of rubies."