is this a thing?

a reply to: knowledgehunter0986

I'd say that's superficial and maybe bitchy, judgmental would be if I had critisised her lifestyle choices.

a reply to: Peeple

Well I'd say it says a lot more about you than her.

I mean you even made jokes about her possibly suffering from cancer.

a reply to: Peeple

Wtf?

You base everything on what she looks like and then call other people judgmental?

Ah, the projection of a guilty conscience.

And yes, you were stalking her out of envy.

a reply to: knowledgehunter0986

That wasn't a joke that was me saying I feel bad about thinking that way because I don't know what the reason is.
You read into it what you like, but that doesn't mean it's true, or what I intended to say.

a reply to: NthOther

No not envy, curiousity. Fail 2

Someone once told me that men get more distinguished with age, and as for women..... They just get old.

She probably has a wonderful personality, and is a freak in bed....

a reply to: Peeple

So you admit you were stalking her.

She may be sick, some kind of metabolic issue. He may be marrying her because she is going to need someone to take care of her in the future, he may know something is going on. When a person starts losing a lot of weight like that, something might be wrong, and usually it is not an easy thing to fix.

I do not know for sure what is going on, just speculating of a few possible things that may be happening. No use getting all worked up about an ex marrying someone else. That is life. Looks do not make personality, she may be very nice personally. I have never been hung up on looks, in fact when I was young, I dated people based on personality and interest. I did not want too big of a wife, because I liked liked canoeing and camping but some bigger women liked being active too. Now the wife and I are in our sixties and are fat, but neither of us care, we aren't going camping or canoeing anymore, we did that when we were young.

a reply to: rickymouse

Remember what Grumpy old men said about canoeing?

Stuff like that happens. Sometimes your thoughts are not as pretty as you would like them to be. I think it happens to everybody, and those who claim to be pristine of thought and deed are liars. So no big deal. And the fact is, people put themselves up for everyone to see. Sometimes it works. Early this year I found a brother I didn't know I had. Well, he found me. The other day I went looking for an old girlfriend on Facebook. Unfortunately, I found her and Oh - My - God! What a fright! But fact is we all get old. Just try to enjoy the ride.

a reply to: Peeple

It is likely an evolutionary throwback that makes women want what other women have..

If a woman’s mate is producing healthy offspring with her, then your offspring with him should be healthy too if you sleep with him..


With men that scenario is reversed...


If your having healthy offspring with your male mate, and I have sex with you.. there is no guarantee the offspring will be mine at all..


That makes it an evolutionary advantage for you to steal another females mate for you, but it is a disadvantage if I steal another males mate.. because I might just end up raising his child.. meaning my genetics don’t get passed on..


Imho this leads to all kinds negative traits for both sexes..

Makes men get violent or totally drop a relationship when jealously becomes an issue..


And makes (some) women inherently attracted to other women’s men..

Love is blind, remember this.

a reply to: Peeple

Well, is she a bimbo or a hag?

Can't be both.

Although I wouldn't mind having a trophy hag hang off my buff arm flab.

Pics or it never happened.

2nd.

I've thought about it, and I'm still not sure. My neck hurts and I care about that more. I wish you luck in your personal affairs.

nvm

a reply to: Peeple

Wow you are judgmental.

A few years later I saw him with his soon to be wife and my thoughts were: holy # a wrinkly bimbo clownface skeleton how did that happen? It bothered me because he went from me to that? Whaaaaat?

Your lack of self-awareness is astounding.

"Is this a thing?"

ENVY being the "thing".

And yes, it is.

a reply to: Peeple

Hard to advise you - when you seem to judge people - skin deep.

Are you drug free yourself.
You seem to have a lot of "woo" following you as you mentioned in the..

Baddogma's Other Meta Cafe- Polite Discussions About Scientific Mysticism and General Weirdness

www.abovetopsecret.com...&mem=Peeple

I take drugs right in front of the caregivers of the hospital I'm currently in.
Literally.
Nobody notices.
If I would only know a way how to make the whole world hate me. I'm definitely beyond "commitment issues" & trying very hard not to become a sociopath.

Before "attacking" me for the above , think long and hard before responding.
What do you want out of life?

Is there a power play going on and you're not honest enough with yourself.

originally posted by: Peeple
a reply to: putnam6

It's always sad when a family breaks apart. That's why we marry in the first place right, to have a partner in good and bad until the end?
Was it hard for your kids? Or were you able to be there for them anyways? My parents got divorced when I was 12 and I hated the new partners both of them had.

Yes it sucked, they weren't happy once I found someone else either but that was much later, but we survived and have a good relationship now. I didn't want to split but she pushed for it..

a reply to: Peeple

If you feel real bad about it, you could always post a pic of yourself and let everybody roast you.