Domestic violence where women are perpetrators - So little coverage of troubling issue

Didnt the police have to rescue stormy daniels huband, cause she beat the crap out of him?

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originally posted by: carewemust
Didnt the police have to rescue stormy daniels huband, cause she beat the crap out of him?

Well taint dis interesting! I didn't know she was an aspiring politician. Back in 2009 she was arrested for domestic violence and she was interested in running for senator. has that ever been reported? The more I hear about this person, the more I smell a setup.

www.huffingtonpost.com...

Read the comments on this page (below). Even back in 2009 it was well known that women are just as violent as men, and they usually get away from it. The commens on the TMZ page show exactly what this thead does in who gets the short end of the stick in these situations.

www.tmz.com...

nypost.com...

a reply to: DigginFoTroof

Yes. Stormy is A female thug!

originally posted by: carewemust
a reply to: DigginFoTroof

Yes. Stormy is A female thug!

Well the good news is that she will meet a thugs end then. I just edited the above post about the comments on the TMZ page. It is kind of eyeopening to see the people explaining this issue almost 10 years ago. One commented said it starts in the first years of school, when the boy always gets yelled at when a boy/girl get into fights, even if the girl started it. They said it basically sets the tone for life. I have to agree with that assessment b/c I remember that quite clearly that I was astounded that the girls could do no wrong it seemed. I guess all the female teachers were sexist back then as well.

Like I said, a reckoning is coming.

WOW!

Just...WOW!!!

Here in the UK we,ve just had our first conviction under the new laws. Which have pushed through by those dreaded feminist. I'm a feminist I teach my kids, you don't hit anybody. My oh teaches our son, you don't hit girls. Inequality between the sexes is the not the product of us nasty feminists, but is something we've fought against. For every male that tells his son not to play with dolls, there is a female that teachers her daughter to play nurse, rather than be a doctor. Equality is something we all have to work on together.

originally posted by: DigginFoTroof

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originally posted by: carewemust
Didnt the police have to rescue stormy daniels huband, cause she beat the crap out of him?

Well taint dis interesting! I didn't know she was an aspiring politician. Back in 2009 she was arrested for domestic violence and she was interested in running for senator. has that ever been reported? The more I hear about this person, the more I smell a setup.

www.huffingtonpost.com...

Read the comments on this page (below). Even back in 2009 it was well known that women are just as violent as men, and they usually get away from it. The commens on the TMZ page show exactly what this thead does in who gets the short end of the stick in these situations.

www.tmz.com...

nypost.com...

LMFAO

From the TMZ article

Stormy was booked for misdemeanor battery -- which may screw up her chances when she runs for Louisana Senator in 2010

Like all the people who would have voted for a porn star would turn around and say "actually on 2nd thought maybe this Stormy Daniels lady isnt as upstanding a pillar of the community as I thought, she's just been charged with a domestic violence offence, I better rethink my choice"

Just too funny

The dark little secret is out, eh ? I know from personal experience this is not a new trend at all. 40 years ago I started to experience the same thing. There is a double standard of behaviors that allows women to get away with quite a bit more than any man. When there's kids involved the worst part is once separated the mother gets custody and it's only her side of the story that gets told to the children. The kids then grow up thinking their father was worthless and abusive of their mother. Small wonder 80% of all suicides are men, that's male privilege for you.

Without nurture men wither and die inside like neglected plants. There is something fundamentally wrong with a society that laughs when a woman abuses a man in public thinking no doubt he surely deserves it. Watching that video on pg 1 shows how wildly out of balance we are. Equality? Fairness? When this all blows up in their faces don't wonder why. Women can be anything while men bear the blame for history and the vast supposed 'patriarchy' that gives them myriad hidden advantages. You could not intentionally design a system to destroy society any better than what we currently have.

originally posted by: IkNOwSTuff
I don’t have a lot of sympathy for men who get beat up by women.
Unless your dating some 150kg biker chic or a martial arts expert your most likely able to defend yourself.

In my experience the blokes I know who have been hit by women deserved it, either by doing something pretty shytty or by tolerating it.
If anyone of sound mind hits you, hit them back.
You lose the “don’t hit a lady” card if you attack first

Your arse will end up in Jail....lol...you must be someone who has never had relationships with women....because NO ONE IS EXEMPT from this abuse....no man who dates multiple women will escape this abuse....it is quite that simple.

No,lol,you cannot defend yourself because as soon as you lay a hand on a woman NO MATTER WHAT THE CIRCUMSTANCE you are in the wrong....you had an option to retreat......retreat means RUN......grabbing wrists to stop punches from hitting you is NOT ACCEPTABLE...you will leave marks and possibly injure her....even putting up your arms to cover your face doesn't work because if she breaks a nail or god forbid a finger while smashing on you....well like I said you will end up in jail....it is a NO-WIN situation for men.Unless there is a woman nearby who steps in on your behalf...good luck with that.

a reply to: DigginFoTroof

It's a guy thing i suppose, i mean if a female is managing to beat you up and get away with it who are you going to tell whilst retaining any kind of pride and dignity?

Rather shortsighted and sexist attitude i know as there is many a women quite capable of putting a Man on his arse but its just kind of how the majority of Men are built.

I'm a counter puncher.

Hit back twice as hard.

Until they stop moving.

Just kidding but you break their nose it's all over, but break a guys nose, it just pisses him off more.

The funniest story I know is about a girl kickin' a guy's ass. The guy is a friend of mine too. I never laughed so hard in all my life! Even thinking about it now makes me laugh. Funniest stuff ever...I mean, way, WAY, better than the funniest comedy movie you've ever seen!

Probably not the right thread to post it though.

a reply to: DigginFoTroof

When I was a "military wife" (slight inside joke, since I was out of the military before my wife) and we lived on Fort Campbell, there was a night where I heard a bunch of shouting and arguing coming from the home above mine. I was going to let it go, but as it kept going on and on, I started to hear things getting thrown, and then what sounded like furniture being knocked over.

I knew that they had a little girl up there, so I called the MPs because I wasn't about to let a little girl get hurt or continue witnessing what she was probably having to see.

The MPs show up and go upstairs, and they're up there for a bit, and then they come down with the husband (who was the Soldier) and talk to him down by my front door (I'm outside in my garage working on my car, and the MPs are asking me a few questions, too). I assumed that he was about to get arrested.

The next thing that I know, his wife is being led down the stairs in handcuffs--apparently SHE was the one who was doing the attacking, and throwing of things, and overturning of tables. She had attacked him multiple times, hitting and scratching the hell out of him, and at some point was also throwing household cleaners (the liquid, not just the bottles) in his face.

I felt so bad for the daughter and the guy--apparently she has been like that for a long time, but that was the worse that it had ever gotten. She had not hurt the daughter, though, other than adding to the emotional and psychological scars that were already probably present in the poor girl (she was six years old at the time).

And that wasn't the first time I have come across female abuse against males--in my four years as a paralegal in the military, three of which were on the prosecution side, and six month each in family law and in trial defense, I saw many female names come across my desk for abusing men, including boyfriends, husbands, and male children.

It's a sad reality, and is a pervasive problem in our society, which likes to downplay it because men are supposed to be able to handle ourselves and take it because we're 'built Ford tough,' so to speak. But for many men (probably most) who deal with these situations, they have just as many lasting issues from dealing with it as women do, but again, we're expected to hide it and not talk about it (again, according to societal norms and preconceptions).

I'll tell ya, between both men and women, I lost a LOT of faith in humanity because of the amount of abuse cases that I saw in my job as a paralegal--in that job, you really only see the worst that our species has to offer day in and day out, and these were just the people in the military. I can't imagine how much more pervasive it is in regular society as a whole (actually I can...there are statistics out there, and it's saddening).

a reply to: burgerbuddy

That's why you go for the eyes, throat, or groin...the three vitals.

originally posted by: Flyingclaydisk
The funniest story I know is about a girl kickin' a guy's ass. The guy is a friend of mine too. I never laughed so hard in all my life! Even thinking about it now makes me laugh. Funniest stuff ever...I mean, way, WAY, better than the funniest comedy movie you've ever seen!

Probably not the right thread to post it though.

I once knew of a Woman who worked on perfecting breaking mens noses with one-punch.....she operated in bars in my area....she was no heavier than 130lbs and she was a one-shot Pro.

Nothing funny about violent people.

I used to think it was funny when I was younger.

No women and no children......this means no violence against women or children...this means no violence FROM women or children because of this codecile.I know this os out-of-date...olde fashioned...biased....sexist....stereotypical...et al.....but it is what it is.

all this talk is just that talk now just how do we change it ?
through women in jail as offtona and for as long as men ?
Well if we did not have a problem with kids growing up without dads now we havea even bigger problem of kids growing up without ether parent .

So just what is the solution ? I can only think of one and that would mean the end of the human race within 50 years .
see women act like its we men who need them but the truth is we need each other it takes two to shake and bake .

so if one side refuses to shake then the other side can not bake . I will say this it would take a fool to marry or even sign a birth paper now a days .
If I knew then what I knew now I would be childless . So would you ladys . It does take two .

There is no solution for the humans race except extinction . Intelligence is a failed exparment it conflicts with instincts . Instincts always over rule intelligence and we lash out problem is our intellegence has given us the ability to lash out and destroy our self at the same time .

We been around 200 - 300 k years and still act like the savages we are wolfs in human clothing .

a reply to: midnightstar

You change it by knowing better than to hit a Woman or allowing yourself to be placed in a situation where you are the victim.

And if that does not work i have always found doors to be the solution which you can simply walk out of thus remove yourself from any violence that might ensure.

That being said i have been known to put my fist through a few doors rather than hit a person, stupid really as hitting inanimate objects is silly, and you only need to fix or replace the thing the next day.

a reply to: SlapMonkey

I would actually think it's more pervasive in the military than it is in civilian life. The rigid protocol/inflexible work assignment structure coupled with possible combat scars / PTSD would make for a pretty ripe domestic violence environment.

It's a man thing. We don't want to admit that we get smacked around. I'm not excusing men slapping their women around but how many cases of domestic abuse come from retaliation? My first wife was a terror. I would have never admitted it at the time. Today I'd biff her back and deal with the courts. In fact did with my second wife. I'll not be hit by anyone again without retaliation.

a reply to: Flyingclaydisk

It's possible, but at the same time, military members are supposed to be more disciplined in the grand scheme of life, so maybe it's a wash and it's a decent microcosm of the "real world?"

At least in the military, there is a steady income and housing available, so if socioeconomics have a lot to do with the problem, that part of it, in reality, is basically removed for most military members (that doesn't mean that they still don't overspend themselves into stressful poverty situations, but at least, for the most part, there is job security and a steady wage with automatic raises).

Of course, my experience was pre-9/11, so it may be more prevalent now. My wife, however, was a military court reporter through 2006, and she never noted much of an increase in those types of cases, but she only dealt with courts-martial and not things like Article 15s, so she didn't see it all come across her desk like I did (and like she did before she became a court reporter).