Spiritually violated twice in a row

I don't know if it helps, but both genders have a TREMENDOUS lust for reproduction, that will overwhelm easily, if not kept in check somehow.

Men lust the initiation-part of the reproduction, whileas women lust for the latter part. Men lust for sex as much as women lust for babies. When the baby grows older than 2 years old, the woman starts lusting for another baby.

It's as rare to find a woman that doesn't have this powerful lust, as it is to find a man that doesn't have a powerful lust for sex. They exist, but they are relatively rare.

Men can lie about their sexual lust to get sex, women can lie about their reproductive lust for plethora of reasons.

Never trust a woman that says they don't want a baby (of their own, especially) more than you would trust a man that says he doesn't want sex.