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originally posted by: dawnstar
but, the hubby never decided to take time off from work, neither the doctor or anyone else ever offered any assistance, so well, I had no choice. My third child was a healthy baby weighing 9.5 lbs... and was the cutest little baby I had ever seen... but he was a bitch throughout the pregnancy!
originally posted by: Annee
originally posted by: ketsuko
. . . but his own mother carried hers and gave it up for adoption.
I could never give a child up for adoption.
That is so far worse to me.
A living child knows they've been rejected. A non-consciousness parasite does not.
originally posted by: Teikiatsu
originally posted by: Annee
originally posted by: ketsuko
. . . but his own mother carried hers and gave it up for adoption.
I could never give a child up for adoption.
That is so far worse to me.
A living child knows they've been rejected. A non-consciousness parasite does not.
(Good night after this.)
Actually my mother knew she could not provide me the childhood she felt that I deserved and made a loving choice to carry me to term and find a loving family for me. I think about her almost daily. I am trying to locate her unobtrusively so I can determine if she would be willing to receive at the very least a 'thank you' for such a critical decision for a 16 year old girl who felt backed into a corner.
Please don't project your burden of rejection on others.
originally posted by: dawnstar
a reply to: mOjOm
heck, I think the women who spend the most time in these discussions like us are older, we've had our kids, we raised them, heck we couldn't have more if we wanted to...
but, we are also old enough to remember what it was like before roe/wade and when birth control wasn't as widely available. we were friends of kids who had 7 or 8 siblings, heck the good ole days when valium was mommy's little helper because that was the only way she could get through the day without going start raving mad!
originally posted by: dawnstar
a reply to: Annee
nope, had a good pediatrician and well, she'd offer my husband work when she had odd jobs around the office some because she knew we couldn't afford it, till my husband decided that being a truck driver provided for a better budget and well, started driving cross country. but, no, no help. and well, I was going to a nice church till I heard them chatting with each other about how if "her husband didn't want her to be there (at church on sunday morning) she shouldn't be there, and I just quit going there after that, so no help from them either.
originally posted by: tadaman
I dont think all or even most avoid killing people inside them as much as you or I are committed to avoiding that extreme.
I dont like the fact people can kill babies so they can look better or go to school. Sex is nice.
If I have to respect that capital punishment is illegal in some states to honor scum bags lives Others should accept that they may have to forgo the murder of children if they CAN have kids.
So, you don't know your birth mother. You have zero idea what she thought of you or if she even cares. You were rejected. But, you've created a fantasy in your mind that she loved you because she gave you life.
originally posted by: tadaman
a reply to: Annee
maybe and you can make orphans feel like crap too.
do you hear yourself?
Think what you just said to an adopted person. Wow scum bag moment.
you are horrible. no wonder your world sucks and you look at ours with primate awe
originally posted by: tadaman
a reply to: Annee
thats F ed up. Really. Horrible. thing to say.
Your generation is a curse. Selfish and full of malice.
bye thread. Just mind puked.
cant wait for you all to die of old age already.