thoughts about dating an older person.. much older

Word of advice, based on experience.
Don't do your buddies mom.
It makes "yer mama" jokes awkward for a long time.

originally posted by: saiyankev
So.... this is new to me but I'm more excited than anything else, I am 25 and she is 39, she's a beauty which I guess helps my excitement for this. we are not dating yet but she is very interested.. she said so her self. I'm surprised by how much I'm all for this, she's cool, nice, attractive.

so what do you all think about a relationship like this? honestly, have you or are you in a relationship like this or know anyone who was or is? any advice?

In 584 years, you'll be 609 and she'll be 623. So enjoy life.

a reply to: TechniXcality

Ah you know me well Tex I'm not against it 100% mind you, however miracles have been known to happen.

Hmmm makes me wonder if there's a eunuch online dating service, now 'there's' a money making idea

a reply to: awareness10

What the hell is an eunuch lol, yes your nihilistic approach does make me laugh, but to the point I think the OP ought to give the older woman a shot if not just for the experience.

originally posted by: TechniXcality
a reply to: awareness10

What the hell is an eunuch lol, yes your nihilistic approach does make me laugh, but to the point I think the OP ought to give the older woman a shot if not just for the experience.

Ouch, Ranger.. back in the very old times the Sultan hired guards
for his harems. One crucial requirement was to remove their
enthusiasms. If you feel a pulling sensation in your stomach
you know the detail.

Maybe the most wonderful, eduactional and emotionally
fulfilling relationship of my adult life was with a lady almost
ten years my senior. I regret everry day not dismissing all the
societal stigmas attached to such a thing and just staying.
I had more to learn-- and all of those things were bad for me.

a reply to: derfreebie

Oh of course castrated man dating site oh hell no! Hahaha

HAVE FUN WITH IT.

You don't have to plan on marriage and babies today.
She's in your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.

a reply to: TechniXcality

lololol...

a reply to: awareness10

Why a eunuch dating sight why can't us men keep our manhood and you still be interested .
So when are you gonna tell me what made you apt to this persuasion that love has no merit or value and I merely a construct, and therefor not real.Not grilling you, what of love for our children is that just a mere construct? Do we truly love them, the perspective is intresting to me because it's so different. I however suspect as I've said before that it derives from deep pain, broken promises and failed relationships. However I could be completely wrong, cheers

a reply to: TechniXcality

Family love is not the same as personal 'omg i am in love with blah blah blah'. No that love'the latter' doesn't interest me, it i feel is only a muse to further distract the masses from the uncontrollable chaos that is over taking the planet as we speak. I feel awakened people who choose have children in this day and age to be totally irresponsible and couldn't possible be thinking straight. The world is hell and i don't know anyone rational who'd want to bring a baby into this sh*t reality let alone have a relationship with someone, the Drama would kill.

Oh and Cheers to you too

Them older womerns will put some hair on your chest.
It may only last one night, but you know it was good if you need a couple of Band-Ades the next morning.

Well, give me
an older woman
every time, every time
give me an older woman
every time
'Cause they don't yell
and they don't tell
and Oh, they're
grateful as hell
so give me an older woman
every time

Benny Hill..