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originally posted by: diggindirt
a reply to: saiyankev
If you both want children, you'll have them whether by birth or by adoption. But if only one partner wants children, the path is rocky indeed. I've watched 3 happy marriages fall apart when a third person (a baby---or the need for a baby) was introduced into the relationship.
Take your time and have fun getting to know one another and being sure you want this relationship to continue for at least 18 years before thinking about introducing a third person.
Please believe me, if she is the one those jibes and jabs from jealous people will roll right off your back. Whenever some unkind person would make reference to my "Sugar Daddy" that old country song, "I Feel Sorry for Anyone Who Isn't Me Tonight" would drift through my mind and make me smile.
Edit to add: Don't worry about the sex. If it's good now, it will still be great in 30 or 40 years.
originally posted by: TechniXcality
a reply to: saiyankev
I don't know man, don't ask us. Go for it! I personally am attracted to older women, not granny's or anything but with ten years ain't a problem for me, and they know what the hell they are doing, what they want, generally are more secure, and you don't have to guide them like young women which is unnatractive at least to me.
Rock and roll, make her feel young again.
originally posted by: darkbake
I know a few older women in their 50's who would be fun to date, even though I am only 30. When I was in college, my room-mate dated an older friend of ours who was in her 40's then I think. He was around 22. It worked out really well, she is what you call a cougar. I am still friends with the lady - as for my room-mate and friend, he disappeared somewhere in Africa.
Their relationship was really good, in fact it was better than one of the relationships my friend had with someone his own age.
I'm not sure if ur comment was meant as a good or bad thing but ya I think she does like me, kissed, talked about a vibrator but took my offer (have not had sex yet but she's open to it when we can), she actually started this... we were both working. I helped her out and she said she likes me because I do my job unlike others.. which I took it as she likes me as a person, not lazy, etc etc... but she really meant.. like like.. did not expect that at all, thought she was just really friendly
originally posted by: TechniXcality
a reply to: saiyankev
Wow, gonna have a freaky conversation and not capitalize right then and there, we differ in that way, anyway cheers lol the good old my junk is better than your toy line, hey she must like you to play along! I think she digs you man.
ok ty, I guess if she doesn't work out then I can still be open to the whole older women thing
originally posted by: Kentuckymama
My husband is 12 years older than me. To the day. We both have July 4th B-days. It hasn't been an issue for us. We have been married for 14 years and have 3 children. We heard a few jabs in the beginning, but only in good humor. We have a lot in common and make each other laugh. Don't let age alone be the thing that stands in your way.