A Question for Bi-curious Men

a reply to: grainofsand

Then why make that remark in the first place?

a reply to: nonspecific

No harm in asking.

No I have never once been sexually attracted to men.

a reply to: TsukiLunar

Shhh ... It's a ßecret.

Going back to your OP if I may as a straight male I was always a little attracted to male friends and am happy to say a male friend is "sexy" or "good looking"

I tried kissing some men but the beardy stubble thing was just a turn off.

Thats not a joke either just the way it is

a reply to: thesaneone

But you would call another male puddin' because?

a reply to: thesaneone

Asuuming you are a man then I imagine the concept is a little unsettling to you then?

It's not an easy subject I know so understand if you feel the need to assert yourself.

originally posted by: nonspecific
Going back to your OP if I may as a straight male I was always a little attracted to male friends and am happy to say a male friend is "sexy" or "good looking"

I tried kissing some men but the beardy stubble thing was just a turn off.

Thats not a joke either just the way it is

I still found it funny. Thank you for being honest. Although, I've been told I have a beautiful baby face. ;P

a reply to: nonspecific

Trust me, assertion is sexy af.

a reply to: TsukiLunar

Yeah but still, what does that matter? The guy finds some attraction, and it could be anything.
I am particularly attracted to blonde fit females wearing tight track gear and running shoes. What has that got to do with any discussion about people being attracted to both male and females.

There are differing sexual experiences males and females offer to each other, so I can easily understand someone (male or female) being attracted sexually to both.

a reply to: grainofsand

You're obviously attracted to men as well.

a reply to: ExternalForces

Men for everyone!

originally posted by: ExternalForces
a reply to: grainofsand

You're obviously attracted to men as well.

How would you define attaction though?

I admire many of my own sex, I can say say they are handsome or sexy, I can even quite happily think "hell if I were a lady I would so marry that dude he is the whole package, strong, good looking, intelligent"

Attraction and sexual preference should not be confused in my view, whats yours?

originally posted by: TsukiLunar
a reply to: ExternalForces

Men for everyone!

There is not enough of us, you need to think this through or we are in short supply.

People for all?

a reply to: nonspecific

Now I will just clone Brad Pitt a few billion times.

a reply to: nonspecific

What does admiring have to do with attraction? I admire women but never once have I been physically or sexually attracted to her. If you have your "preference" towards females, assuming here. Why the attraction towards a male ?

a reply to: TsukiLunar

An orgy?

a reply to: nonspecific

Whichever your desire for that day love.

originally posted by: ExternalForces
a reply to: grainofsand

You're obviously attracted to men as well.

How obviously?
I'm not, for the record, but I have enough friends who are fluid in their gender attraction to know that the poster who said:

originally posted by: thesaneone
There is no such thing as bi your either gay or straight!

...is talking bull#.

I wouldn't rule it out though, say if some terrible virus killed all women in the next 12 months I would adapt to such a new reality, wouldn't want it to happen, but I'd adapt.
Doesn't mean I'm attracted to males, just I wouldn't be too picky if the only mouths in my forced reality were male.

a reply to: grainofsand

Why would you mention that in the first place if you were so presumably not attracted to men? In my OP I mentioned nothing of a virus.

a reply to: grainofsand

Not sure I'm feeling this post. Human race is on the verge of extinction and your reaction is 'meh I'll just find a man to blow me.'