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originally posted by: antar
a reply to: olaru12
Shes crazy, what else could they have done?
Wasn't she in a courtroom? She wasn't being quiet. That was the problem. Are they supposed to empty the courtroom and wait for the Mobile Crisis Unit to arrive? I think they did the most reasonable thing: they dragged her ass out of the courtroom in a way that did not injure her or the deputies.
Love your avatar video. That poor dog can't even back-talk to a cat.
The court had just declared Rios mentally incompetent in a felony trespassing case. According to WSVN, Rios couldn’t say goodbye to her mother after the ruling, and was taken to a hallway. When she refused to sit on a bench, Johnson began dragging her through the courthouse.
originally posted by: Anyafaj
originally posted by: Vasa Croe
Vasa, I'm sorry for what you've had to go through. I've lived it myself. I have a paranoid schizophrenic bio mom who took all her abuse out on me. My sister and brother never had to deal with it. I did. From birth to age 5. My dad remarried and as my stepsister became a teen, I bore the brunt of her abuse. She was bipolar. If you ask me, her mother had undiagnosed issues as well and that's where she got it from because she wasn't always playing with a full deck. I got to deal with my daughter being diagnosed missing part of her brain AND having autism and having emotional and mental issues because of it, along with physical abuse from that. Severe enough to almost paralyze me.
I also dealt with filing restraining orders and criminal harassment stalking orders against my ex-MIL because she got pissed I married her son without her permission while she was out of state. She would drive by the house and wake up my daughter, call all ours of the night and do hang up calls, run up onto the porch, knock and run away, call and threaten to paralyze me if she saw me on the street (I have a spinal condition). I had enough of her crud. She also has mental health issues.
Because I was moving to a Naval base, I offered a conditional discharge as long as she didn't follow me to the base. The prosecutor proposed it to her and she accepted. She behaved for a year and it was dropped. I've been there. I know when to say violent needs to be dealt with. And I know when it's not violent, they just need understanding.
When my daughter was violent, the reason why? She was mad because her father wouldn't call her to just say hi, and she had the understanding of a 5 year old, but the body of a linebacker. She just didn't know how to say, "Why, Mommy, Why won't he talk to me?" She told the psych nurse at a mental health hospital that, "Children sometimes hit their mommies to make their daddies come home." That's what she needed someone to talk to that wasn't me. Someone to understand her. Something I could NOT get her, for the life of me, in that blasted state at that time because of "cut backs". So instead I got the crap beat out of me until I was almost paralyzed. It took 5 psych wards, 3 states, and 2 weeks in jail to FINALLY get her into a group home!!
originally posted by: olaru12
On thing is certain....
all the arrogant " holier than thou " types are bringing down some heavy Karmic debt ....maybe not on themselves but their children or loved ones. Where will the compassion be then?
Sins of the Fathers...as it were.
Exodus 20:5 You shall not bow down to them or worship them; for I, the LORD your God, am a jealous God, punishing the children for the sin of the fathers to the third and fourth generation of those who hate me,
(Deuteronomy 5:9)--"You shall not worship them or serve them; for I, the Lord your God, am a jealous God, visiting the iniquity of the fathers on the children,"
originally posted by: olaru12
originally posted by: antar
a reply to: olaru12
Shes crazy, what else could they have done?
I work part time for a forensic behavioral training facility for our local Police Dept; Training cops to learn crisis intervention .
They could have given her a few moments to compose herself, talked to her and shown some compassion. They also could have let a female officer talk to her. It would have made a huge difference.
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originally posted by: Tangerine
originally posted by: olaru12
On thing is certain....
all the arrogant " holier than thou " types are bringing down some heavy Karmic debt ....maybe not on themselves but their children or loved ones. Where will the compassion be then?
Sins of the Fathers...as it were.
Exodus 20:5 You shall not bow down to them or worship them; for I, the LORD your God, am a jealous God, punishing the children for the sin of the fathers to the third and fourth generation of those who hate me,
(Deuteronomy 5:9)--"You shall not worship them or serve them; for I, the Lord your God, am a jealous God, visiting the iniquity of the fathers on the children,"
Puhleez. We don't believe in that silliness, either.
"There are more things in heaven and earth, Horatio,
Than are dreamt of in your philosophy."
WILLIAM SHAKESPEARE / Hamlet Act 1. Scene V abt. 1601
originally posted by: Anyafaj
originally posted by: Tangerine
What they could have done is what a lot of schools do for children of special needs with behavioral plans. When they become disruptive, take them to an empty room so as to not disrupt others.
That's exactly what was being done: she was being taken from the scene of her disruptive behavior to another location. Sorry, but the entire world can't come to a halt every time someone pitches a fit--including mentally ill people. There are consequences for misbehavior and this consequence was pretty mild. If the deputy had yanked her hands behind her back and cranked her arm or wrist to control her, it would have been worse for her. If a couple of the deputies had man-handled her, it would have been worse for her. She still would have pitched a fit and screamed that she was being hurt.
originally posted by: Tangerine
originally posted by: DMFL1133
I worked in the mental health industry from 1992 to 1998.
We would have been fired if we did something like that.
Were you a deputy working in a courthouse? Different rules apply.
originally posted by: antar
a reply to: olaru12
Shes crazy, what else could they have done?
It seems that you have experienced a tremendous amount of dysfunction and violence. Perhaps you have developed a higher tolerance for misbehavior than most people and regard this woman's misbehavior as no big deal. She was ordered by a deputy to get up from a bench or chair and walk with him. She refused to do so. There are reasons why people who are going to be incarcerated (mental hospital or jail) are not allowed close physical contact with others: they could harm the other people; they could grab them and hold them hostage; they could pass or be passed weapons or drugs. Bottom line, she didn't follow the deputy's order.
was there a significantly better option? If so, what?
originally posted by: hopenotfeariswhatweneed
a reply to: Tangerine
was there a significantly better option? If so, what?
Well as others have mentioned perhaps a little patience would have gone a long way,perhaps even just letting her say goodby to her mother......she is mentally ill and does not have the cognitive function to understand her position....