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originally posted by: WeAreAWAKE
Equality means a burger is a burger. Not wrapped one way for some, and a different way for others.
originally posted by: Darth_Prime
If it was a burger in Red White and Blue we would praise them for being patriotic, if it was in a wrapper that had crosses on it or Scripture we would praise them for their faith and using their "Freedom" of Religion, if it was a wrapper with Guns on it we would praise them for their patriotic Freedom of the second amendment .
but if you put a Rainbow on it for Pride month (which is inclusive of Heterosexual as well) and say ‘We are all the same inside.’ meaning no matter what Color of the Rainbow we are we are all Human. it is bringing upon the end of the "Free" world, and we are asking for Special treatment, and we are Militant
originally posted by: [post=18113267]Benevolent Heretic
That's the same mindset that restricts kids who are bullied so the bullies will not target them. Punish the bullies, not the bullied.
You said yourself that it happens to groups anyway and you don't need to be anyone special.
One reason I refuse to eat at fast food places.
originally posted by: Leonidas
originally posted by: [post=18108777]Benevolent Heretic
What ever happened to a business owners right to refuse service to anyone anytime?
That "Right" exists solely because of bigoted, sexist, racist business owners. It was always used as code for "We ain't servin' yer kind here!"
The Civil Rights Movement is largely responsible for exposing the small minded and mean spirited people behind the signs. There is a reason you don't see them very often anymore.
There are lots of Old-White-Guys out here that DO get it, you have no excuse.
originally posted by: Leonidas
a reply to: nenothtu
The world is changing - for the better - keep up. If this isn't the "planet you were born on" it is YOUR fault that you aren't keeping up. Your attempts at explaining the natural world are nothing more than a veiled attempt at hiding your hatred and fear for people that you don't understand.
"Old" is a number. It is not a valid excuse to hang onto outmoded ideas that do not accurately describe the planet we all live on today. Not just "your planet"
originally posted by: nenothtu
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first off...I LOVE book length responses
I myself am trying to keep from drive-by one liners so I applaud your substance!
I'll start at the top as usual
I am finding myself lately open to redefinition. Up until very recent I was cocky and arrogant and believed my own definitions were wrote but these days I love love love when someone challenges me. Not because I think I am a great debate expert. That is hardly the case. Instead, it offers me the chance to change and adapt and become closer to truth. So for me, I guess I would have to return to the idea that harm is going to be subjective. Not so much as in an S/M relationship. I suppose if the "M" in the relationship enjoys pain then go get the whips and chains!
So, in attempt to continue this discussion, I would say harm is in the eye of the "victim." (I am going to use that term very loosely as I understand its connotations can be deep. I just need a good placeholder
If the victim is harmed, then is it not harm? If a woman is raped then I believe we do have a situation involving harm. She is a victim, and somebody, or somebodies, harm her. I don't think many will dispute that. But again I come back to, say, a nine year old who is molested. I admit that yes I feel harm in involved in such a case. I guess I broke my record player and keep coming back to the concept of consent. If some 40 year old wants to sleep with a 17 year old and the 17 year old consents, well, I might find it a bit icky but I have a hard time calling harm on that. I feel the 17 year old probably is at least a bit mature enough to understand the ramifications. But we go back to the 9 year old and we have to ask the tough questions. Did she/can she consent? And then you have to go deeper and ask at what age CAN she consent? It's an ugly quandary at best I think. But again I am not here to debate whether it's ok to be an acting pedophile. More to the point, you talked about calling someone 'sick.' I'd have to agree with you on this. Who am I to determine that someone is sick or not based on their actions? I suppose me sleeping with another guy could be seen as sick to others, and while I don't agree, I suppose I shouldn't take my own feelings of oppression out on others. Fair play to you on this one.
To your second statement, I have to again see both sides of the coin here. So a brief on pansexual is someone (regardless of gender) who is attracted to both man and woman AND transman and transwoman. So you mentioned that this isn't the planet you used to live on. I would have to ask the question to you AND myself, did the planet change or did we just not notice before? I believe the answer lies in the middle. On one hand, the internet and widespread media are indeed a force and many people have probably felt safer coming out now as opposed to say, the 50's. But at the same time, I admit I have met my fair share of LGBT who think it fashionable to be LGBT in these newer days. I'll admit that it took me years of my own soul searching to determine if I was who I am now. My experiences and comfort level with who I am have given me a positive answer and yes it is legitimately me but then there is something to be said for those who may not be as genuine. I'm sorry LGBT folks but they do exist...not very many in my opinion but it happens.
I again love your comment in paragraph three. It is wrong, but to make that value judgment on the actor is not necessarily up to you or I. So no further comment needed here as you covered it
The only area I will call into question is your final paragraph before you closed. You mention that what I or anyone else does in my bedroom is not your business and does not impact you. I agree and again kudos to your thoughts here. But I have to now ask my own genuine question. What part does affect you? Is it things like PRIDE fests/parades? Boycotts of things like Hobby Lobby? As you stated, I am not trying to trap you, I'd love to know your thoughts. Where does the business of the LGBT community begin to affect you?
Thank you
originally posted by: KyoZero
I am finding myself lately open to redefinition. Up until very recent I was cocky and arrogant and believed my own definitions were wrote but these days I love love love when someone challenges me. Not because I think I am a great debate expert. That is hardly the case. Instead, it offers me the chance to change and adapt and become closer to truth.
But again I am not here to debate whether it's ok to be an acting pedophile. More to the point, you talked about calling someone 'sick.' I'd have to agree with you on this. Who am I to determine that someone is sick or not based on their actions? I suppose me sleeping with another guy could be seen as sick to others, and while I don't agree, I suppose I shouldn't take my own feelings of oppression out on others. Fair play to you on this one.
To your second statement, I have to again see both sides of the coin here. So a brief on pansexual is someone (regardless of gender) who is attracted to both man and woman AND transman and transwoman.
So you mentioned that this isn't the planet you used to live on. I would have to ask the question to you AND myself, did the planet change or did we just not notice before? I believe the answer lies in the middle.
On one hand, the internet and widespread media are indeed a force and many people have probably felt safer coming out now as opposed to say, the 50's. But at the same time, I admit I have met my fair share of LGBT who think it fashionable to be LGBT in these newer days. I'll admit that it took me years of my own soul searching to determine if I was who I am now. My experiences and comfort level with who I am have given me a positive answer and yes it is legitimately me but then there is something to be said for those who may not be as genuine. I'm sorry LGBT folks but they do exist...not very many in my opinion but it happens.
I again love your comment in paragraph three. It is wrong, but to make that value judgment on the actor is not necessarily up to you or I. So no further comment needed here as you covered it
The only area I will call into question is your final paragraph before you closed. You mention that what I or anyone else does in my bedroom is not your business and does not impact you. I agree and again kudos to your thoughts here. But I have to now ask my own genuine question. What part does affect you? Is it things like PRIDE fests/parades? Boycotts of things like Hobby Lobby? As you stated, I am not trying to trap you, I'd love to know your thoughts. Where does the business of the LGBT community begin to affect you?
Thank you