Dae,
Thank you for your post. Very intrestinig premise you seem to have in your post. I am curious as to why myself or any woman would be intrested in a
sex drive in competition with someone else.
Also you need to understand that I dont consider defining ones self by their sexuality ..intelligent behavior or value system. Also you need to
understand that to the uninformed...this dumbness passes for correct (PC)today among many. It is quite marketable too.
Also as to bipolar..I am not intrested in this phenomonon in women. It is just another avenue to high maintenance.
As to the high maintenance types..yes this is the type I have mostly run into..some variation of this ..yes. I am not intrested per se in the bipolar
aspect of this. I am intrested in the maintenance aspect. Like many women I am not intrested in the details per se....just the results. Is thier
something wrong with this???
For some reason the high maintenance types seem to be attracted to people with goods and services or a surplus of this potential. Why is that Dae??
That is what intrests me...cause and effect so so speak. I am not intrested in this type ...it is just a pheonmonon which often happens when dealing
with wildlife.
As to my post to Whitewave...she is one of the women I respect on this forum. When she posts it is clear and to the point positions. Not always
positions with which I agree but I note for lack of histronics and emotions. Very mature diciplined posts. On occasion I Like to poke her in the ribs
with that kind of comment about a boat and fishing et al.
I surmise by the manner in which Whitewave posts that she is a woman of maturity and ability..the "P" word ..Potential. Not histronics/Drama. This
is a tell tale indicator that she has or has had a position of responsibilty where she cannot always work or occupy to her emotions or emotional
satisfaction as do so many women and today so many men too....but instead requires some dicipline. I can respect this in a woman. A man too for that
matter.
Real dicipline is quite rare today.
In otherwords she does not strike me as a drama queen. My summation is that she can give as good as she will take for the right man. And it would take
a man too!! Not a high maintenance drama queen..and yes there are high maintenance male drama queens out here. Lots of them. If I was in her neck of
the country I would be running her down till she dropped!! On my moped of course!!!
I am not saying here that she does not have emotions..not at all. I am saying she has admirable dicipline with her emotions. Something quite rare in
todays high speed fast food lane of life.
As to my song being the same for the last two years..I have had numereous opportunity to have it confirmed on ATS/BTS. I will confirm it again here in
a few minutes.
Two years ..am I on a time clock here ..a defaut schedule??
Learning never quits. We will be learning the rest of our lives. Learning is part of life..not just between sound bites.
Also I have traveled around the world..its an ok place to visit. However I reside here ...stateside..and have affairs/interaction mostly stateside
with stateside peoples....not people over there.
Now ..on the subject or topic of dumb...ok..watch this from the post after your last on this board.
DominionOfGozer
posted on 25-7-2007 at 10:26 PM
this girl keeps saying she is gonna kill her self if i dont marry her, but i haven't even had a taste of whats good yet.
Here is a guy who has a high maintenance woman for whom he needs to dump..or just keep her around for idle times. Tell her to fish or cut bait.
A woman who threatens to kill herself if he doesnt marry her is most likely a woman with insecuritys for whom or what she will not handle or integrate
herself into the solutions on her own merits or demerits. In otherwords ..insecure in hereself. Hence ..high maintenance. Her tack is to get him in a
position by marriage to handle or support her insecuritys. Is the clock getting ready to strike midnight Cinderella???
My summation is that she ..this woman hasnt a clue as to what it really is for which she is offering this guy of any real intrinsic value for
marriage..not a clue.
Whats worse and dumb..is that this guy thinks the summation of ther marriage potential is " a taste of what is good yet." Talk about dumbness..on
both sides of this scenerio.
This person is as misguided as the woman he is describing. As if having a taste is going to make up for her high maintenance baggage she will bring to
a marriage!!
Now..Dae...am I wrong or insensitive for pointoing out this dumbness?? Do I need to put ointment on this scenerio to ease the sensibilitys of others.
Or do we have a case of institutional dumbness going on here on both parts?
Do I need to take a lie detector test on this one..or a DNA paternity test.??
Now Dae, With this in mind..what was your point about generalizations and dumbness?? Learning???
It is all around us Dae..it passes for "Feelings" and correctness...daily.
I am not intrested in this for myself though it assaults us daily. Stick around ..there will be another one. They are stamped out like on a xerox
machine!!
WHen I see and speak to folks like Whitewave it give me hope for mankind.
Thanks for your post,
Orangetom