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ketsuko
My husband and I often wonder why atheists don't realize that no one seems more obsessed with God and the Bible than they sometimes tend to be.
ketsuko
reply to post by Krazysh0t
Who said anything about labeling people as good or evil? Although I'm sure Charles Manson and Jeffrey Dahmer had some redeeming qualities if we try to look, the monstrous things they did far outweigh the good. Were you in the crowd who felt that Tookie Williams should have been preserved for writing a children's book?
Regardless, I am talking about actions.
You are talking about moral relativism. Either something is or is not wrong. It doesn't matter if someone else doesn't have a problem with it. Now that doesn't mean you have to go out of your way to stop it or even that you should or can, but that doesn't mean you have to approve of or accept it either.
Adultery is a good example. It's just plain wrong and I've never seen anything good come of it. I don't care when the parties involved don't seem to have a problem with it. It's still wrong, and I won't hesitate to say so. You likely wouldn't go there being far more libertarian than I am.
Although, I do agree with you that the majority of the evil in the world is human evil. We choose to hurt each other. That we can do this is part of having the knowledge of good and evil. We know we can do it and we choose to. We are a pathetic species at times. For every truly noble human who chooses to do good things, ten more would rather be selfish or outright evil.
But then the last two are easy and often feel good.
AfterInfinity
Life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it. That's a lot of control on my part. And that's close enough to say I am my own master. End of story.
ketsuko
Stormdancer777
reply to post by benrl
Because lets be honest, if your an atheist than this should fall under such speculative threads as Ghost, Aliens, Big Foot, or just about any speculative topic on ATS. But its Christianity that gets the wild hair up their asses...
I was thinking that myself earlier, for some reason they flock to the Christian topics, that in my opinion shows their true colors.
I really don't mind the debating, but I do dislike the snarky comments, I would never dream of insulting a Buddhist or Hindu or even the atheist.edit on 013131p://bTuesday2013 by Stormdancer777 because: (no reason given)
My husband and I often wonder why atheists don't realize that no one seems more obsessed with God and the Bible than they sometimes tend to be.
There are more parties involved in adultery than the two people doing the act. There is the spouse (or spouses if both people are married) who is ignorant of the act as well. This person is being lied to by the adulterer and with the adultery is breaking their trust. One can argue that in this case that this is still a violation of the Golden Rule. The only way that it would be acceptable is if the spouse knew about the act and said it was ok with them, but then it wouldn't be adultery, it would be swinging.
A common flaw of Christianity is that selfishness is supposedly evil.
ketsuko
Stormdancer777
reply to post by benrl
Because lets be honest, if your an atheist than this should fall under such speculative threads as Ghost, Aliens, Big Foot, or just about any speculative topic on ATS. But its Christianity that gets the wild hair up their asses...
I was thinking that myself earlier, for some reason they flock to the Christian topics, that in my opinion shows their true colors.
I really don't mind the debating, but I do dislike the snarky comments, I would never dream of insulting a Buddhist or Hindu or even the atheist.edit on 013131p://bTuesday2013 by Stormdancer777 because: (no reason given)
My husband and I often wonder why atheists don't realize that no one seems more obsessed with God and the Bible than they sometimes tend to be.
Krazysh0t
Many Christian sins are due to selfishness too. Nudity, drugs, gambling, sex, contraception, alcohol, competition, earning a paycheck (greed) are all just different forms of selfishness that Christians frown on as sins, but all of them have been used by people since WAY before Christianity ever came on the scene. So if you decouple the selfishness part of sinning, all you are left with is what amounts to the Golden Rule.
crawley
I have a serious question. It isn't mockery. What did g or jesus risk with the crucifixion? Weren't both aware of his eventual return and immortality? So if nothing was risked, what was the sacrifice?
Krazysh0t
reply to post by ketsuko
So that just means you don't partake in it. But to condemn others for doing it even though all parties involved are ok with the action (even the spouse), is wrong. I've heard stories where swinging has saved people's marriages. A little change in partners to spice things up and keep things fresh. But you condemn the whole action. What if one of these couples decide to go your route and try to remain faithful? How long until one starts sneaking behind the other's back and doing the same thing in secrecy? Even if they both remain faithful, if they cannot rekindle that spark, they are doomed to an unloving marriage or divorce (another Christian sin... don't get me started on THAT sin...).
One person partaking in a cupcake could be considered super selfish if there is a starving kid standing next to him, meanwhile someone else could go on a week long drinking binge to pass the time if he is locked in a cabin for a while in the middle of winter with nowhere to go or see. It's all relative.
I have a serious question. It isn't mockery. What did g or jesus risk with the crucifixion? Weren't both aware of his eventual return and immortality? So if nothing was risked, what was the sacrifice?
ketsuko
No, I'm sorry, but it's wrong. I've seen it destroy marriages, so I guess our anecdotes cancel.
And if one starts sneaking around behind the other, shall we talk about selfishness?
And there is more to a loving marriage than just sex. Too many people these days get married because of that first rush of passion and then find out that there isn't much left to go on after it fades.
No, they'd both be wrong.
If the child is starving, and you're not, it's the height of uncaring selfishness to eat the cupcake yourself. You certainly aren't loving others as yourself.
And while no one could see you and you couldn't hurt anyone in the cabin, you could hurt yourself with the drinking binge. It's your responsibility to yourself to temper your urges and maintain some measure of good sense. Going on a drinking binge endangers you and isn't very respectful to your body. That doesn't mean you can't drink, but you shouldn't be going on a binge.
Krazysh0t
reply to post by LittleByLittle
I hope you are agreeing with me, because those are all points that I've made. You know being that I agree with the Golden Rule and all.
AutumnWitch657
NASA again. What about all the other people looking at outer space? Oh they are all in on it. (Worlds biggest conspiracy )When we can't even get an agreement on where to go for dinner we can get everyone with a telescope to hide the "truth" from us. This is beyond dumb. Just what is NASA hiding honey pot? I have a telescope. Not a big one. It's more toy than not but it's shows me the sky. What should I be looking for ? I promise if it's there I won't pull any punches. I'll tell the real truth.
LittleByLittle
Krazysh0t
reply to post by LittleByLittle
I hope you are agreeing with me, because those are all points that I've made. You know being that I agree with the Golden Rule and all.
I agree that the Golden Rule should always be followed and any deviation from it is immoral. The problem is that some people use moral relativism one step to far and break the golden rule and uses moral relativism as an excuse for their behaviour.