cant get her out of my head.........

reply to post by athousandlives


thank you .....thank you so much

reply to post by davethebear


that made me smile... thank you

upintheair
i love this woman... but i blew it with her! i decided to focus on my career and now because of the pain its caused me ive lost my job!!!! my home and my woman!! my life partner....in some ways i want her to see this ...in others i really don't want her to see how low ive become! she's a beautiful person not just in looks but in herself ive definitely punched above my weight there

It now leaves me in a position were i have no friends living in my dads spare room unable to talk to him!! 2013 has been bad!!!

You are describing here the 'domino' effect of your own actions! and then trying

to shift the blame on to others ... BUT:-


# You decided to focus on your career? So? ... you need a living/career for

yourself for life whether you are with someone or by yourself surely?


# Because of the pain it caused you, you lost your job!!!!!! (self inflicted?)

but still you seem to be trying to shift the blame .... like the situation was out of

your control?


# Inevitably ... no job = no home? not no woman = no job no home!


I fail to understand why living with your father would leave you without friends? and

why you are unable to talk to him? Could be if you did talk to him you could learn

something from him? Take responsibility for your own actions, move on and learn

form your mistakes ......

reply to post by eletheia


....thats why i deleted the OP.....nice analysis though...you do that for a living??

Am I missing something here, or is it my age?

People seem to be responding to the op's thread and the op is also responding to others, but on my pc screen there is nothing written in the opening thread...

What's all that about?

Or is it me?

davethebear
Am I missing something here, or is it my age?

People seem to be responding to the op's thread and the op is also responding to others, but on my pc screen there is nothing written in the opening thread...

What's all that about?

Or is it me?

OP has been edited out .... you can see the OP on my post fully quoted!

just start dating again

I believe it was Rob bass that said

You got no money and you got no job ,
Then you got no girl and there you are .

reply to post by davethebear


people like others misfortune....me thinks?

reply to post by spartacus699


wow!!! that was easy

reply to post by JHumm


exactly where i am....

upintheair
reply to post by davethebear

 

people like others misfortune....me thinks?

What? Uh? Aye? Come again?

So is a conversation going on here or not?

spartacus699
just start dating again

Exactly. You've got one woman stuck in your head (usually visa versa), which is nature's way of getting the squirrel to chase another squirrel up and down a dozen trees. So just find another woman, complain to her about your last one while, and this is important, wining and dining her with the finest food (see my lentils and rice recipe linked in my signature. It will catch you any woman, anytime), and enjoy a rebound or two. But if you pursue the one that's stuck in your head, tis the way of madness and restraining orders.

reply to post by Aleister


if only it was as easy as lentils and rice

upintheair
reply to post by Aleister

 

if only it was as easy as lentils and rice

It might be. Women love it when a man cooks for them, especially if the meal is really good and topped off with a place setting, a candle, and a rose. Or, on the cheap, a paper plate, a birthday cake candle, a dandelion, and my lentils and rice!!!

reply to post by Aleister


haha you're funny are you free tonight??