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spartacus699
I beat on kids every day at school. That's what boys do. Boys will be boys. They wrestle fight, and if they sense weakness then they really go after the weakling. It's just what boys do. ohhhh I forgot see now a days they're not suppose to learn how to be men. Only sissys
Eryiedes
reply to post by spartacus699
So, if I understand this correctly...you would solve this problem using the identical mindset that created it, employing some sort of Darwin-esque solution to human interaction which has done nothing but fail throughout the entirity of man's history?
Complexe social problems can't, have never and will never be solved by violence.
Your solution is not a solution at all.
It is just another symptom of the same sickness.
-Amitaba-
spartacus699
Eryiedes
reply to post by spartacus699
So, if I understand this correctly...you would solve this problem using the identical mindset that created it, employing some sort of Darwin-esque solution to human interaction which has done nothing but fail throughout the entirity of man's history?
Complexe social problems can't, have never and will never be solved by violence.
Your solution is not a solution at all.
It is just another symptom of the same sickness.
-Amitaba-
no I'd teach them to become sissy's.
sheepslayer247
reply to post by bigfatfurrytexan
I think we have a similar style in how we raise our children and I commend your son for standing up for himself. My sons have had to do the same. In fact, my oldest is the type of kid that stands up for the people being bullied.
Also, I have taught them that the smart person will do everything to avoid the fight. It doesn't make em a sissy.
Dianec
I was hoping I wouldn't have to deal with this but my son is now the target of bullying by an older kid. This kid just walked up and slapped my son in the face - hard. My son was shocked and did nothing. I'm sure he felt powerless (kid is way bigger than him), and stunned. Two other kids saw this and were just as shocked. They were the ones who told me about it.
Evidently this is a "game" that is spreading to my area - catch someone off guard and knock them out (I'm told it starts out as slapping and advances into punches). I don't remember the name of it but the kids have a title for this. What I want to know is - why are some kids such a target for this while others are never touched? Should I tell him to walk a different way or have a meaner look on his face?
I need some input. Report to school my kid gets it worse (even thought I am saying something I've asked the school to protect identity and just keep an eye on it - which they have promised to do). It's happening on the school bus, and while I would love to go and talk to this kid that will make it worse as well.
I'm not against him hitting back but don't think he has the confidence to deal with this kid. I think he is afraid but also ashamed that he is afraid. I am checking into some mixed martial arts for him - or maybe boxing (both are sports so are good anyway), but he is not the fighting type. He's a good kid - doesn't bother anyone so why such a target? It hurts to see this happening and I feel powerless in the short run on this.
Lolliek
reply to post by Dianec
If your school district hires a company to bus the kids, they may have cameras in all of the busses. Our busses have video, but no audio (like you would hear anything anyway). My son has been in a similar situation. I called the school principal AND the bus company. They will review the tapes. The drivers don't tell parents about this, because if a tape HAS to be reviewed, then they can get in trouble. In this instance, Big Brother comes in handy.
Good luck!