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Originally posted by gotya
Whatever if you want to find a date there's an app for that.
I roll my eyes again.
EDIT -
If you look like this....
then please send me a message.edit on 17-8-2013 by gotya because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by WhiteAlice
reply to post by RUFFREADY
Mhmm, I do. I'm in my mid 40's and while I wasn't on the market (such a terrible saying lol) for long, a lot of my friends, both male and female, have found themselves in your boat. A lot of them ended up dating each other to avoid the tawdry scene of nightclubs, bars, and sometimes awful ambiguity of the dating scene. As one male friend of mine put it, "I went through that in my early 20's. I don't want go back to that again...I'm too old for that stuff." My one suggestion though is to maybe nix the "no kids" rule. With that rule, you're basically eliminating a lot of women out there and at our age, we're all bound to have some sort of baggage....including you. I don't know how my fiance tolerates mine because it's immense, lol. Luckily, he loves me so very well.
Good luck to you, sir!
reply to post by RUFFREADY
Thanks...you get it.
Originally posted by schuyler
Look. Be realistic. You were married for 29 years? Do you honestly expect to find someone at your age WITHOUT kids? Indeed, most will have grown kids and now grandkids! At your age it goes with the program, buddy!
Originally posted by WhiteAlice
reply to post by RUFFREADY
Absolutely be careful, especially in this economy. My dad has had some issues with interest in him being more monetary than in him personally. Wasn't good for his ego at all though he's kind of an arse so that could've been karma. Never know, lol.