Is it a good or bad spirit? This has been ongoing since i was 4 years old - In Need of Anwsers!!

Hello ATS'ers...

I am in need of some of your advice's on this matter in particular, and if you are a skeptic...Do not bother reading the rest of this as i know what i'm on about and your comments will be a waste of time, on your part .

However, if you have had things happen to you like me then feel free to write yours here so we can share . Also, ANYONE feel free to comment back, no sarcastics or skeptics welcome though.
Sorry if my story seems abit everywhere.. So much has happend its hard to put it all together! lol

A bit of my background with Spirits/Ghosts - When i was 4 years old i had my first ever encounter that scared the life out of me in bed. I was laying there and suddenly a hand started tickling my feet, i knew this was a hand and not the covers or anything else. I remember i was thinking of just a hand, not a ghost, i thought some cut off hand was tickling my feet as no one was in the room. When i realised no one was there i jumped out of bed and looked at the end of it and under it and no one or nothing was there. I clearly remember climbing over the stair gate that was on my beedroom door frame and running downstairs and sat between my mum and uncle, mum tryed to tell me it was her and a brought it, but then when i was 5 she admitted to me it wasnt her as other things started to happen and obviously i questioned it.

''Mum'' Why is there a man in black standing at uncle gary's bedroom door?
I remember that like anything! i used to see him every now and again.

Abit about my nans house where i stayed when i was born untill 5 years old. - My nan and grandad have lived in that house for around 45 years and when they moved in they happend to notice whilst decorated that there was odd symbols on the bathroom wall and then again in the shed, i think they were triangle.

A few weeks of my nan and grandad moving in, some random young boy asked my nan, ''How are you getting on in that house. A long time before i was born alot of things have happend at my grandparents, from lights/orbs to full images of spirits, and it has never seemed to be just that one spirit.

When my two uncles were young they used to play with this 'man in black' in their bedroom at bedtime.... One night my uncle gary said to my grandad ''Dad are you going to play with us tonight?'' Obviously this got discussed and my 2 uncles was'nt told untill a few years later. My uncle gary used to have someone punching his back and then he would turn around and see my uncle chris asleep still.

When i was 8 years old i remember coming from out of the kitchen into the hallway, i always looked up at the stairs before before steping round the banister to walk up, but as i looked a see a woman in white. This woman in white was wearing some sort of victorian dress but she was all white, my nan has also seen her and obviously i screamed and ran to my mum and nan, as you do!.

Theere has been many times where my grandparents would hear someone shut the front door and open the cuboard under the stairs and then shut it... This is what my uncle chris done, but my grandparents would soon find out it wasnt him or anyone when know one was there.

Theres been sightings of a small man in black or boy.

Here are some from my current home whom i share with my mum and have done since i was 5 years old minus a year and a half when i moved to milton keynes.

When i was 5+ my mum used to hear walking around upstairs but to find me still tucked in bed, i used to always hear someone outside my bedroom door!

My uncle garys girlfriend moved in for a while when she was pregnant and was trying to sort a place out where they both can live together and as i live in a 2 bedroom house, my mum and my uncles girlfriend stayed in the same room and they experienced an upside down cross at the bedroom window which is now currently my bedroom and the occasionally pots rattling which my uncle chris experienced whilst sleeping over for the night.

Once when i was 10 i was painting on my desk in the front room and my mum was reading a paper and we both heard a faint male voice that was in our heads at the same time, it wasnt out loud it was in my head, I cant remember for the life of me what he said now but that was really creepy.

When iwas around 11 i had a friend stay over and my bedroom smelt like gas like actually gas! still dont know what that was but no cooker of gas leek it was just my room - the room im currently occupying.

Every friend who has stayed here has claimed to of hear or see something, My current boyfriend is a skeptic, well not som much like one but hes never had weird things happen to question it except from lately, but before hes mind started to change abit about the whole paranormal business he never and still doesnt like going downstairs at night, he says my front room is eerie and i know exactly what he means!

A few years back me and my friend was watching tv, and suddenly my back door slammed open but more like it got kicked or something. Me and my friend was sh*****g it! i said to her omg imagine if we heard a tap at the window and we actually did, i really dont know what to think of that!

2 years back i was in the kitchen and and i have a big dog called barclay.. I heard a noise like it was him walking down a few steps at the top part of the stairs and then it sounded like he plonked his bum on the step, but then i look in the front room and barclays laying on his back as he does!

A few months ago i was in bed with my bedroom door open as i do because i have to have light in my room, fromt he age of 6 - 12 i slept in my mums room and then when i was brave enough to sleep in my own id have to landing light on and my light out but some stuff has happend recently that made me sleep with the light on for ages, but now my boyfriend stays all the time now so we have to light off and door closed, i guess i just feel safe..
But anyway i was saying i was laying in bed, door open and then i hear mum walk up stairs, i know its her because she wears platform shoes and its just a bit clonk clonk clonk.. anyway i heard her get to the top of the stairs so i said '' Goodnight mum'' ... No reply back so i said ''mum'' and the shouted ''mmuuuumm'' and then i heard her voice from where she sits in the front room and she obviously didnt run back downstairs and sit down within a few seconds and i would of obviously heard the clonk lol.

The night after i heard a noise that sounded like a chinese container lid getting pulled back and flicked back on a wall... i thought my dog was eating the hoover then i noticed he was in his bed at the end of mine.. it came from the hallway and mum was in the front room in her chair and she heard it to... I put this down to a warning about my mum as she is really ill. The steps up the stairs was my mum steps and the rythem of the chinese container sound was like a clock so i put together ' mum and time ', a week after that she had a stroke.

Whats made me write this to you all is that i dont know what to think of these spirits and also what happend 3 nights ago. - Me and my boyfriends in my room watching tv.. Then my gucci perfume flew off the dresser and an hour later i thought my mum was listening to us outside the door as i heard suffling around outside my door and my dog was wagging his tail... I said to my bf, quickly open the door, and in a split second he got up opened the door and no one was there...

And then i heard mum come in from using the outside toilet.

I dont know if im dealing with an angry one, a family one or a mixture.
I would like to add that my bedroom is the coldest room in the house and in the past 4 months ive gone through 3 lights bulbs ( only just found out this could be a spirit presence.

Also with the flying objects, my ex bf was round one day and my baby picture frame got flown at his head and a couple of times when me and my mum have had an argument things would fly across the room.

There is more when i remember i will post them...

Sounds like you may have a mixture of both good and bad entities there. It may be a good idea to get a paranormal investigator in there to see what's really going on.

I notice the word Dad is conspicuous by it's absence

Yet 'uncle' features heavily

Interesting

Sorry to probe but why no mention of a father figure ?

I've had some weird stuff happen as well but for the life of me I couldn't tell you if I was 4 years old or 8 at the time

You seem very sure of the timeline

4 years old I have no recollection of at all

Oh well

Cody

My dad left when i was 3 and me and my mum lived in my grandparents where my uncles both lived too.

Yes 4 is young to remember things but something so mind printing as that i think most people would. I also remember jumping on a wrapped little tramploline for my 4th birthday thinking i didnt need to unwrap it

Interesting story and I do believe it.

Whatever it is, do not fear it and don't dwell on it. Don't try to be friends with them or communicate with them.

The flying objects make me tend to think poltergeist activity and I wouldn't consider anything that could do that to be benign or friendly.

reply to post by BloodSister


It doesn't really sound like anything bad, strange yes, bad? I don't see much negative in there, just weird, as spirit contact is almost always a bit weird.

It could very well be that before your mom had her stroke, she was being watched by passed family members. They actually do try to help in whatever way they can from the other side. You received a warning to prepare for your mom's stroke from the sounds of it. A few times through out my life I would hear something or see something and then my mind would suddenly put 2 and 2 together and get the answer, much like a spirit guided knowing.

Sounds similar to what you are saying you experienced.

Now I have to ask about your chosen nickname, "Bloodsister"

What is it you do to generate paranormal activity yourself?
With that kind of nickname, it suggests you already are into some sort of unusual activity.

reply to post by BloodSister


Fair comment

May I ask if you're religious in any way shape or form ?

It has a bearing on my next reply

Cody

reply to post by Darkblade71


Hi Dark

Just knew I'd see you here

Cody

reply to post by cody599


Hey Cody!

Yeah, you know it!
I am that predictable!

reply to post by Darkblade71


Yeah it sounds the same, it must be some guardian..

Haha My nickname ''BloodSister'' came from when i was researching up about the Rh Negative blood group which i am but i obviously regret this name.... I feel silly! lol

Dee

reply to post by cody599


Im not religious but i believe in the whole ET senerio ect... I'm into all that lol


Dee

reply to post by BloodSister


No need to feel silly.

I used to regret mine sometimes,
especially when dealing with certain subjects because just the name can make people uneasy.

reply to post by sad_eyed_lady


Very true.

I did try and contact it and now thinking about it maybe that was a reaction to me doing that. It was only because i watched ghost program and thought id give it a go.... I dont think ill be doing that again lol.

Dee

reply to post by BloodSister


Yeah, sometimes you have to be careful with what you ask for because you might get it.
If you tried to open some form of communication with it, and are starting to get more activity, then you have gotten what you asked for to some extent.

Yes, this all happening around the world. You are protected though. The Bible has all the answers and instant peace, too. So the Bible states that His people are destroyed for the lack of knowledge. Then it says we get knowledge from reading the Word of God. One is still heaven bound at just the acceptance of Jesus or Yahushua...but to take it to the next step read the word....So, to round it up....you are experiencing real stuff, but the remedy is right there. A remedy like no other. It turns out you are invincible.

I said in my story if i remember anything else i will post it, well here it is - My nan was in bed one night and couldnt sleep. She turnt over and when she did she see a white young girl spirit holding some sort of carnation flower as in if she was giving it to her... That would have creeped me out lol

reply to post by BloodSister


could it of been a white lotus flower?

white lotus flower is associated with beauty and the state of non-attachment; therefore it is closer related to its meaning in Buddhism as opposed to Egyptology (where the Lotus, usually the blue one, is associated with re-birth and the Sun). Furthermore the white lotus flower symbolism is often associated with the divine Gods and Goddesses of India, and it is often depicted as growing from the naval of Vishnu; Brahma sits on top of the Lotus and from there He carries out the order of Vishnu to create the world. The central heart of the Lotus also has a symbolic meaning as it is thought to be pure, therefore people of good heart and soul should strive to reach the beauty of the fully opened white Lotus flower heart.

White Lotus Flower and picture

Or was she sure it was a carnation?

White carnations symbolize sweetness and loveliness. They are also symbols of innocence and pure love.

Wiki Carnation Symbolism -white

Both seem like good signs

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reply to post by Darkblade71

Aww thank you for your research on the flower

My nan deffo said it was a carnation flower. I am glad its a good sign lol.

Dee