Rivals

I know that you can see the people that you have chosen as your rival. Is there a way to find out who has you as one?

When you see the brick come through your living room window

For me it's somewhere around 70% of new memberships.

reply to post by Philodemus


Go to your profile and at the top click "rivals" and underneath your profile info on the left is a list.

Plus you should get a U2U when someone adds you as a rival.

reply to post by Philodemus
When someone adds you as a Rival you will receive an automated message in your Inbox alerting you to the fact, so if it happens you will know who it was and when it was that they "rivaled" you.

reply to post by Philodemus


I logged on last week and had a message.... It stated that some tossed me on there rival list... It's the first time it happened... I busted out and thought to myself... Shucks... I dont' know what I said but it must have been a good!

So, I think they give you a message heads up~

Thanks guys. I got a U2U last week and promptly deleted it. Then I realized I had never met the person who listed me. Then it just got me wondering who it was. Then I really wanted to look them up and see if I could figure out why this person I have never talked to considered me a rival. But....I forgot their name. Black Metal-something-or-other, I think? Oh well. I don't care if I have rivals. They were the first, though. So, I'm interested as to why....

reply to post by Philodemus


If you click on Tools at the top of the page, then on Members, go to that page and at the bottom there is a search. I typed in 'black' and up came some options. The first one I clicked on lists you as a rival. I will U2U his profile page.

reply to post by aboutface


Could you say that again

OP if its yahn goodey don't worry about it.

I used to add people that REALLY pissed me off as a rival.... until I thought about the fact that a rival is somewhat of an equal and somewhat deserving of respect... not true of the people I added as rivals.

So take someone adding you as a rival as a compliment

reply to post by James1982


I do. And as I said, if it weren't for the fact that we haven't interacted, I wouldn't care. I was just curious...