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Originally posted by dave_welch
reply to post by Deetermined
That's because she doesn't.
That's my point though. Don't go back to him. Every abusive guy will do the same thing. He'll be an awful person until you're fed up, then he'll be just as nice as pie until he can get you back.
Don't continue that cycle. Only you are in control of your life. Move on, you may just find that you have been missing out on something much better. I know, God knows, I know that it's hard to move on. But, you have to base your life on your past experiences, and from what you've said here, those experiences are screaming at you to get away.
I hope I'm not coming off as mean or anything. I'm genuinely giving you the best advice I can give.
Originally posted by dave_welch
reply to post by Deetermined
Well, the thing is that I think she's being bullied into staying with this guy. He's done that several times before. Whether I end up with her or not is unimportant, really, I just want to help.
Why is it that you will constantly use your friends, and then just go back to the deadbeat that is the cause of your problems?
Is there something wrong with the average woman's brain?
Do you women really enjoy being abused?
Why do you seek the solace of a friend, and then ignore their advice?
I've come to notice, that they all make the same mistake every time. Someone tell me why this is.