posted on Nov, 1 2004 @ 10:48 PM
I am an American that has been married to a Muslim for 25 years. Let me speak of the "mentality" that my husband was raised with. I call it the
"Hit the Table Complex" You see I have seen this by a number of Muslims or Middle Eastern people. When the child bumps their head on the corner of
the table, "they" (really dont want to sterotype) literally hit the table to show the child they are "taking care of the problem", then it is
laughed about so the child will stop crying. Over years and years with this as only one example, children are raised in a semi-violent atmosphere by
the nature of their upbringing and observation of violence on their own turf.
When the mind breaks, so to speak, a person can revert back to problem solving by what has been implanted in their mind as a child or in a horrific
event they witnessed. Now this particular man honestly probably just lost his mind, and it is not typical in any region of the world but I can tell
you from experience that due to years and years of war and upbring, there is definately a difference in the middle eastern countries compared to the
US.
And again after many years of deciphering this, it is not all about religious differences and/or beliefs but rather "programming". But in their
defense, I have to say there are alot excellent things taught that are not followed as much here. Like the respect for the elderly, family, schools
and teachers. Like the teaching of heritage, and customs. Kids can actually speak of stories told to them by their Grandfathers, and it is done with
respect!