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reply to post by StruggleTogether
I cannot and will not believe in such a horrible God. If there is a God, I will have nothing to do with him. I can see what he has done all around us and I cannot imagine someone as powerful as God allowing it to happen unless they were terribly cruel.
At 22 I wanted to make my future wife's parents happy so I tried to get involved in the Catholic Church, that didn't work either, but I will say the Catholics get it, they keep the Priest's accountable for the length of the message 10 am Mass will be over at 10:45, Catholics, unlike Baptist's understand that we are in Church but we won't be next Sunday if you don't have it all wrapped up in 45 Minutes.
Originally posted by Tardacus
god is busy he has a whole universe to take care of he doesn`t have time to micromanage every second of every life here on earth.
The bible says that the entire life span of a man is but the blink of an eye to god,our entire 80 or 90 years of life on this planet is less than 1 second in god time.
in the grand scheme of eternity 1 second is nothing, so does it make sense to think that god is going to micro manage our lives and intervene in them just to save us from 1 second of pain and discomfort?
I imagine it`s kind of like when a baby gets a vaccination, it`s just a quick little prick with a needle and in the grand scheme of the baby`s entire life it`s really insignificant, but to the baby it`s the worst pain that has ever happened to him in his short life and probably seems like it will never end.by the time he is 50 years old he won`t even remember getting the vaccine and he sure won`t remember the pain.
a million years from now we won`t remember the pain and turmoils of our lives here on earth.
so, i think that preventing us from experiencing pain and turmoil here on earth is probably pretty low on gods priority list.
edit on 2-3-2013 by Tardacus because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by Philodemus
Perhaps if you told us what sort of “Christian” you were it would help us understand more precisely what angle you're approaching this from. There is a world of difference between the denominations and a Catholic is in no way a Baptist.
Both of these statements are true. However, they are not sympathetic. Religion is a man-made structure of beliefs based on an presupposition of the perceived nature of God. Religion doesn't intrinsically mean a personal relationship with God, but it should. I am sure you were aware of that and you only meant only what you said. One recommend reading that will probably blow your mind is a selection from Ludwig Feurebach called, “Religion as Illusion” from his “The Essence of Christianity”. Read the one translated by George Elliot. It's stunning.
I am going to try to say this with as much human love and compassion as I can because I can see that these events have moved you in a very deep way. First of all, know this, that there is no correlation between good people/good happenings and bad people/bad happenings outside of natural laws of cause and effect. If you live your life in a selfish state as lonewolf admittedly did, then you will invariably spiral into depression as every last hope you had flees you and every good friend turns their back. This has nothing to do with sin. It's cause and effect. If you live a life of debauchery and get stricken with cancers and venereal disease due to the choices in lifestyle that you made, this is again, cause and effect. It is not sin.
The friend of your father's got cancer do to cause and effect. Not because of lifestyle choices (I'm guessing, since you didn't mention anything to make us assume such) but because of the fact that she is a woman living in the 21st century when this sort of thing is becoming the genetic regularity rather than the exception. It is not her fault, not the fault of a God or devil. Plain and simple.
Originally posted by Philodemus
And truly my brother, understand this, that if you don't grasp the fact that good can still come out of this, you too will be eaten by a cancer of a different sort. This is your opportunity to get in there and make a difference. You have a connection through your father, so get in and make yourself available to the family, and specifically the children. You seem to be worried most about how they will handle this and how they will come to blame their father. If this is your human concern, then you are obligated to act on it as best you can. Be part of the solution. If you don't, you will hate this make-believe God even more, and your life will be crippled for it.
If I am wrong and there is a God, then I refuse to believe in him. I refuse to believe in an all powerful, all knowing, omnipotent God that willingly allows this to happen, not just to this family, but many, many others. A God that sends those who do not believe in him to Hell, an eternity of suffering.
If you understand that there has to be a governing attribute to the Christian God, and that the only attribute that makes the whole of the theology synergistic is Holiness, then this sort of thing would make far more sense to you. I do not believe in God. But if I did the most logically sound concept that I can see that would be in harmony with the totality of the scripture, both old and new testament, would be a Holy God. If I can discount scripture completely (as I do) and still felt the need to believe in God (which I do not) I feel I would be inclined to think of God they way Charles Hartshorne does. I highly recommend reading his ”Time, Death, and Everlasting Life” (Chapter 10 of “The Logic of Perfection, 1962) if you want a balanced and not so dogmatic approach to considering ideals like reward and punishment, heaven and hell.
I cannot and will not believe in such a horrible God. If there is a God, I will have nothing to do with him. I can see what he has done all around us and I cannot imagine someone as powerful as God allowing it to happen unless they were terribly cruel.
Again, I can see where you are coming from, but I don't think you truly understand the arguments made by those who would defend this God. If it isn't enough to accept this God based on all the good done in His name then it isn't enough to reject Him based on all the evil done in His name either. You must be fair. If you wish to reject the idea of God you must be ready to dig deeper than this and find more substantial reasons for doing so. This is my clarion call to you, a fellow atheist. Dig deeper. Make stronger connections that lead to more steadfast conclusions.
Why do we need to believe in a God? Why can't we just practice being decent human beings? Do the right thing because it is the right thing to do. Help someone because it is nice. Don't help someone because its what your religion says is the right thing, help someone because they need help.
These are actually, much more difficult question then they first appear. You make them hypothetically, as if they answer themselves, but they don't. Why do we need to believe in God? Well, for that answer I recommend Daniel Dannett and his book, Breaking The Spell.
Why can't we just practice being decent human beings? Well, for starters, what makes someone “decent”? In other words, what determines “good”? For this you must plumb the very depths of mankind’s humanistic knowledge. For this you must acquaint yourself with all that is humanity in it's totality. Try reading some David Hume.
Help someone because it is nice.
The deeper issue here is whether or not any action is truly motivated from altrusitic intention. Is there such a thing as a completely selfless act? I don't think there is. For a good view of these concepts pick up some Neitzsche. Specifically, read the first part of “Dawn of the Day”.
I have started reading more about the teachings of Buddhism because I find a lot of them to align with what I believe. I don't believe in a heaven or hell.
I advise you to keep a distance. Buddhism is no innocent lamb.
I believe that we live on through the memories of others. Why should we not make those memories the best we can? Fill the people around you with happy memories, reach out to a random stranger and change their life forever. They will remember what you did. Surround yourself with your friends and family and just be a good person for the sake of being a good person. Not so you can go vacation in Heaven for eternity.
Again, please read Hartshorne's “The Logic of Perfection”, chapter 10.
If God created us, then he created her genetics. Her cancer was predetermined according to a belief in God. I'm also aware that it had nothing to do with lifestyle choices, they are very healthy and have been very conscious of what they eat (same goes for their children). So then why was it genetically supposed to happen?
Originally posted by Akragon
reply to post by StruggleTogether
If God created us, then he created her genetics. Her cancer was predetermined according to a belief in God. I'm also aware that it had nothing to do with lifestyle choices, they are very healthy and have been very conscious of what they eat (same goes for their children). So then why was it genetically supposed to happen?
Have you considered the possibility of Karmic debt?
Originally posted by Akragon
reply to post by StruggleTogether
If God created us, then he created her genetics. Her cancer was predetermined according to a belief in God. I'm also aware that it had nothing to do with lifestyle choices, they are very healthy and have been very conscious of what they eat (same goes for their children). So then why was it genetically supposed to happen?
Have you considered the possibility of Karmic debt?
Originally posted by vethumanbeing
Originally posted by Akragon
reply to post by StruggleTogether
If God created us, then he created her genetics. Her cancer was predetermined according to a belief in God. I'm also aware that it had nothing to do with lifestyle choices, they are very healthy and have been very conscious of what they eat (same goes for their children). So then why was it genetically supposed to happen?
Have you considered the possibility of Karmic debt?
Karmic debt answers 99.9 of all questions (you have no control) over your fate and destiny. With the other one percent, I placed my remaining hopes on the roulette wheel 11 black.
Originally posted by StruggleTogether
But aren't we created in God's image? Why would we be created imperfect? If God intends for us all to go to Heaven and live an eternity of perpetual serenity, why not just create that? It seems rather odd to have this two step process of sorting us out when he is creating us in his own image.edit on 3-3-2013 by StruggleTogether because: (no reason given)
If he's all-knowing, all-powerful, and perfect, why does he need this reinforcement of his greatness from a bunch of insignificant beings that he created? It's illogical and irrational, IMO.
There are a whole range of scientific reasons for why I don't believe in God and those were what definitely pushed me over when I was 18. I said I was agnostic for awhile, but recently I have just felt there is simply is no God.
This is essentially what I'm saying about God. How can he be a loving, caring God, but allow so much pain and sorrow in this world? It goes against him fundamentally and serves to reason that either he doesn't exist or is not the God we think he is.
I don't understand though. Why must he go through this? What benefit could this possibly serve him?
She was attending various treatment programs and trying to avoid chemo, but no matter what they did, things kept getting worse. At this point, Lauren has cancer in almost every part of her body. There is virtually no chance that she will be able to make it through this
If I am wrong and there is a God, then I refuse to believe in him. I refuse to believe in an all powerful, all knowing, omnipotent God that willingly allows this to happen, not just to this family, but many, many others.
A God that sends those who do not believe in him to Hell, an eternity of suffering.
Originally posted by StruggleTogether
Originally posted by Tardacus
god is busy he has a whole universe to take care of he doesn`t have time to micromanage every second of every life here on earth.
The bible says that the entire life span of a man is but the blink of an eye to god,our entire 80 or 90 years of life on this planet is less than 1 second in god time.
in the grand scheme of eternity 1 second is nothing, so does it make sense to think that god is going to micro manage our lives and intervene in them just to save us from 1 second of pain and discomfort?
I imagine it`s kind of like when a baby gets a vaccination, it`s just a quick little prick with a needle and in the grand scheme of the baby`s entire life it`s really insignificant, but to the baby it`s the worst pain that has ever happened to him in his short life and probably seems like it will never end.by the time he is 50 years old he won`t even remember getting the vaccine and he sure won`t remember the pain.
a million years from now we won`t remember the pain and turmoils of our lives here on earth.
so, i think that preventing us from experiencing pain and turmoil here on earth is probably pretty low on gods priority list.
edit on 2-3-2013 by Tardacus because: (no reason given)
I'm not necessarily saying that God needs to micromanage each and everyone of us (although being the creator of everything, time should be of no obstacle to him). If you were to set up a scientific experiment you would remove everything that could potentially harm/alter/destroy/cause unintended side effects towards what you are trying to observe*. You wouldn't leave unnecessary/harmful objects in your experiment and just ignore them because your busy doing something else. In this sense, why can't God just remove these harmful things in life? Why even have disease or starvation? *I understand God may not be observing in a scientific endeavor, but I felt it was a decent allusion.
reply to post by Lionhearte
...I am happy to hear that you were able to relieve your mother of pain through the power of prayer, but I have never witnessed such a sight. My mother has been a devote Christian since I was born and she too, has never witnessed anything of this nature. It is becoming increasingly difficult for her because of this. She has been losing faith and has grown depressed because she hasn't had her prayers answered or the pain she feels lifted. I do not talk about these matters with my mother because I don't want to hurt her beliefs, but why has she not experienced what you have? Why have so many prayers gone unanswered, so much pain gone unnoticed, and so much death gone unwarranted? I am terrifically happy for the what you got to experience during that moment, but I feel as though your case is not the norm.
I haven't mentioned Satan because I simply haven't felt it necessary really. If I don't believe in God I don't believe in his opposition. So God sends 1,000's of missionaries to Africa to help alleviate the problems there. Why does he not simply end it all himself? Why did he even let it begin in the first place?edit on 3-3-2013 by StruggleTogether because: (no reason given)
reply to post by Lionhearte
But aren't we created in God's image? Why would we be created imperfect? If God intends for us all to go to Heaven and live an eternity of perpetual serenity, why not just create that? It seems rather odd to have this two step process of sorting us out when he is creating us in his own image.edit on 3-3-2013 by StruggleTogether because: (no reason given)