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...how can we open those eyes who's owner refuses to open?
Originally posted by silo13
...how can we open those eyes who's owner refuses to open?
Have you ever known anyone in your life who no matter what you told them they just wouldn't believe it - if the information came from you?
Doesn't' matter what - directions to a restaurant, the best a new type of headache medicine or car, the 'real truth' - whatever - they’re just not going to take your word for it?
But! If someone else tells them the same exact thing they’re all over it like white on rice?
That’s the way it is sometimes. It’s personal dynamics. You’re not failing to give the right info, the true info, you’ve got good intent and you’re persistent. But all that doesn’t matter if someone isn’t going to listen to you.
Sometimes all we can do is ‘plant the seed’ as they say - and then move on to someone else. You can’t spend all your energy on the ones who’ll not believe you no matter what - when there’s a whole bunch of people out there who are willing to be open and honest and listen.
Some people are terrified. The only ‘weapon’ they can wield with any grace at all is ignorance, so they chose to remain so.
Good Luck!
peace
Originally posted by justwokeup
If you are telling things people don't want to hear you have to do it subtly or they will ignore you or get angry at you. Small facts, a bit at a time, slipped into other discussions.
You also have to have some credibility with your audience to start with or your task is hopeless.
If you discredit the messenger you neutralise the message, no matter how important or true the message is. Its why ad hominem attacks are so prevalent. It works very well.
Originally posted by KewlDaddyFatty
reply to post by freakanature
Hi,
Call me a devil but go out and meet women from a local church. Get at least one to like you. Take her home to your place and talk to her all night long. Get involved into seriouly deep conversation. Rinse and repeat.......Spread the word
Originally posted by freakanature
Originally posted by KewlDaddyFatty
reply to post by freakanature
Hi,
Call me a devil but go out and meet women from a local church. Get at least one to like you. Take her home to your place and talk to her all night long. Get involved into seriouly deep conversation. Rinse and repeat.......Spread the word
The idea you give is quite good, but i generally avoid Christians in person, they refuse to believe anything not in their holy book, my time is wasted on them
Originally posted by Trueman
Originally posted by freakanature
Originally posted by KewlDaddyFatty
reply to post by freakanature
Hi,
Call me a devil but go out and meet women from a local church. Get at least one to like you. Take her home to your place and talk to her all night long. Get involved into seriouly deep conversation. Rinse and repeat.......Spread the word
The idea you give is quite good, but i generally avoid Christians in person, they refuse to believe anything not in their holy book, my time is wasted on them
That's not true. I'm christian and I'm here too. There are "who knows how many" christians ATS members.
Closed minds are closed minds, regardless their religion.
Actually, your opinion shows you need to expand your knowledge.
Like Michael Jackson, "start with the man in the mirror".
Originally posted by Trueman
Originally posted by freakanature
Originally posted by KewlDaddyFatty
reply to post by freakanature
Hi,
Call me a devil but go out and meet women from a local church. Get at least one to like you. Take her home to your place and talk to her all night long. Get involved into seriouly deep conversation. Rinse and repeat.......Spread the word
The idea you give is quite good, but i generally avoid Christians in person, they refuse to believe anything not in their holy book, my time is wasted on them
That's not true. I'm christian and I'm here too. There are "who knows how many" christians ATS members.
Closed minds are closed minds, regardless their religion.
Actually, your opinion shows you need to expand your knowledge.
Like Michael Jackson, "start with the man in the mirror".
Originally posted by freakanature
Originally posted by Trueman
Originally posted by freakanature
Originally posted by KewlDaddyFatty
reply to post by freakanature
Hi,
Call me a devil but go out and meet women from a local church. Get at least one to like you. Take her home to your place and talk to her all night long. Get involved into seriouly deep conversation. Rinse and repeat.......Spread the word
The idea you give is quite good, but i generally avoid Christians in person, they refuse to believe anything not in their holy book, my time is wasted on them
That's not true. I'm christian and I'm here too. There are "who knows how many" christians ATS members.
Closed minds are closed minds, regardless their religion.
Actually, your opinion shows you need to expand your knowledge.
Like Michael Jackson, "start with the man in the mirror".
I wasn't meaning to coat all christians the same way, just in my experience i get absolutely no reaction when trying to enlighten a Christian,