Helping the Dead

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I have a friend who sees the dead whenever she closes her eyes. She can hardly sleep at night because they are always talking to her, she can talk back.

She won't get into details because it really haunts her, but it's been revelaled that she is here to help them.

I need to know how?

How can I help her? What is she suppose to do?

Some call it a gift while others call that ability a curse.....does this happen every night?

Originally posted by Meldionne1
Some call it a gift while others call that ability a curse.....does this happen every night?

she calls it a curse, because she doesn't know what to do..

she doesn't want to help the dead, she wants to help the living - and let me tell you, she is a beautiful woman who has cared more for me than anyone I know yet I've known her a very short time.


It's every night. It's very vivid. It's a huge "problem" for her.. and I want so desperately to be able to help her.

I believe her fully because me and her are a lot a like, and it's a blessing we found each other. She and I have very similar life missions, and helping people is also in my destiny, Idk if it's for the dead or living though, but I have seen a lot of things spiritually aswell.

Anyways, please any input. If it were me, I think I would tell them about christ and preach from the bible, become a white light, and aide them.

Actually, I had a past life hypnosis and it was revelealed to me that I am in fact an energy mover, in one vision I had I was hovering over an epic battle of slain soldiers and it was my job to gather the energy and to move it..

could me and her perhaps need to handle this problem together, or can she do it on her own?

anything is helpful, please.. I know there are some very advanced souls here. we seek you.

reply to post by derickonfire


It's a huge decision and your friend must be mentally prepared (and probabbly physically, too) as not only would she have to deal with her own day to day life, but if you say it's as frequent as it is for her to 'see' the entities, it would be challenging to help them to say the least. If your friend is serious, she will work out a way that's best for her, depending on her own strength/will. If her mind is set on doing this, all you can do is support her and keep a close eye on her. Good luck!

What are they saying to her??
Does she feel fear when this happens, or is it more of an annoyance?
Are they the same people or different people when this happens.

PLPL

Did some she was close to recently die??

Your friend thinks of it as a curse because she doesn't understand her ability...so she will fight it until she actaully understands it. if she is more into helping the living,... than the dead have come to her to pass a message to their living loved ones to comfort them.. So ultimately she will be helping the living. Obviously word has gotten out with the spirit world that your friend can hear or see them. ....and they are probably pretty excited about that! Just imagine if you died and had no way to get a last message to the one you loved. That would be torment...but if you found someone who could hear you, you'd try to contact them too... You probably will have to help her to understand how her ability works or is suppose to work, but you will have to ask a lot of questions to the spirits and keep calm. your friend is probably alittle freaked out too..

Originally posted by Minori
What are they saying to her??
Does she feel fear when this happens, or is it more of an annoyance?
Are they the same people or different people when this happens.

PLPL

Did some she was close to recently die??

edit on 6-1-2013 by Minori because: after thought

I'll see if I can get more out of her.. I don't think she's afraid of it, at all.

I guess I would know a lot more if I knew what the conversation was.. but she is able to talk to them. She can see their faces clearly and hear them.

It's family members that have died, I do know.

She comes from a polygamy cult, so I bet a lot of those souls are stuck or lost.

It would depend how she felt about this, whether it be a curse or not.

Could she be a medium in the making? She could help people by passing on messages from the dead, giving people closure and letting them know their loved ones are ok on the other side if she is able to home in on these skills.



Not being able to "turn it off" must be annoying though...

Many dead people don't realize they are dead. First she must make them aware of the fact and tell them to look for the light or someone who will meet them to pass on to where they should be.

I think I would also go along with what some other members have already said. Perhaps that the dead have messages for the living, through your friend.

Many many years ago, I met a woman that had the dead visiting her, much like your friend. She started doing "nights" where people were gathered and that perhaps some passed people would have messages for them. It struck me as there was always something factual to relate the information received. She would say something like "okay...who's had a knee injury lately?" and someone would answer "Me." and she'd go "okay then...this message is for you. Your oldest son is having serious drug issues, you need to talk to him about it." She kept going like that for a couple of hours, we were about twenty that had gathered at a friend's house.

I was flabbergasted. There was a dead person that I knew of, that had a message for me and the symptom described was only mine. His message was right on the dot. After the medium had left, we were left amongst friends and we talked of the coincidences. It was an impossibility for it to be just coincidences. The medium didn't charge a cent, she just said that it was her mission, she was the receiver and transmitter. Some of us did give her money though, at least to cover her expenses to get to us plus a little more.

So, perhaps, that is what your friend's calling is. Just my opinion, friend. Do as you wish.

One of the more gifted posters in this area is Tayesin.

www.abovetopsecret.com...

And I would really explore all of his posts, they're really informative.

If you google, Astral Projection Soul Rescue, some links will come up, such as this one.

www.astralvoyage.com...

www.astralvoyage.com...

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There is a show on Bio channel called The Haunting of with Kim Russo she also visits the houses of celebs on the show Celebrity Ghost Stories. She seems to have her ability under control and maybe a good source for support and knowledge. Seems to me premature deaths need their story told and or help in crossing and communicating various things to the living. Most people get scared at first but understand in hind sight.

reply to post by derickonfire


Okay.

She's a sensitive, and these dead people can sense her ability to sense them. It's all fine and dandy, but she needs her sleep, and she needs to set limits. No pestering during sleeping hours.

If she makes this clear in a firm but kind way, and responds to their appearing during those times with a refusal to contact, they should back off. But she needs to be firm.

Also, it sounds like utter nonsense, but the mineral black tourmaline seems to clear the area of this sort of thing. I can't even believe I'm writing to use some crystal, because it isn't in my nature to believe such things work. But I know two different people...wait, 3!...who have tried this with excellent results. One person is a man who had an NDE, and found himself in a similar predicament to your friend's. The black tourmaline was stupidly effective and fast.

This sort of thing is as much a chink in her protective armor as it is a gift, but it can be used as a great gift to help if she decides to go that way. But she will need to set limits, for sure.

Originally posted by SonoftheSun
I think I would also go along with what some other members have already said. Perhaps that the dead have messages for the living, through your friend.

Messages for the living, but we just don't listen close enough.

Tell her to listen to what they have to say.

Setting firm boundaries and having a notepad close by are a must.

reply to post by derickonfire


In this episode of Paranormal State, Chip Coffey helps a young lady deal with her abilities to see dead people. It sounds like what your friend is going through. He helps her learn to deal with it, how to tell the spirits when the can, and can't communicate with her.
Tell your friend to watch this episode. You can also try emailing Chip to get advice, if you don't find what you need here. www.chipcoffey.com...



I hope your friend finds peace.

reply to post by derickonfire


This happens to me often, the next day I wake up telling my family about the people behind my eyelids..lol.
It is rather strange how it does happen, I usually see a lighter color shadow moving upwards almost like smoke and then when the smoke clears I see a face. I do not hear any talking, nor do I talk to them. They are motionless, almost like a potrait or photo. I do make eye contact, but no words.

PLPL

"[They] have something to say," he says. "There's something unsolved in their life, whether it's an unsolved murder -- they know who the killer is but the police never found out -- a lost love [who] died suddenly, they're in denial [about their death]. A spirit, I believe, is still trapped here is because they're not ready to move on. They want to keep living. Or they're dead and they're just stuck here, in purgatory, because they know that if they go to hell, it's gonna be worse."
And there's also a reason why they choose your particular home to haunt.
"It's still a fight of who owns the place. There's a living person there but there's a ghost that wants the living person out."

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If you’re one of the “nine out of 10” who Bagans predicts has experienced some supernatural activity in your home, don’t panic, he advises.
“Just let it be, because I think that if you try and communicate with them, like what I do, then once they realize — like in the movie “Ghost” — that you can hear them, they will just bug you even more. If that’s what you want, get a digital recorder and talk with them. If you directly start communicating with them, they’re gonna know that they’ve gotten your attention. That’s what they’re trying to do — get your attention.”

I'd follow this dude and see what's up. I'm sure he has seen and heard it all.

source for more www.metro.us...

Something that's always bothered me about mediums/dead people talking and wonder if someone has a logical explanation.

Why is it that when the dead are apparently "talking" to the living and want messages passing on, they somehow lose the ability to speak coherently and use the persons actual name? Instead we get garbled half sentences with hints and clues. If they are really there surely they can ask for the person by name as in "Tell my wife Mary Smith I've not paid the phone bill" instead of all the vagueness

Originally posted by phyllida
"Tell my wife Mary Smith I've not paid the phone bill" instead of all the vagueness

LMAO! That's pretty funny



Anywho..I think it has to do with energy (they need to draw from) when my wife died I tried a few things with the flash light (like you see on "Ghost Hunters") it did not work. What did work was me calling "Target" about her credit card bill and they wiped it clean! Amazing!

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lol lol

I was actually a member of the spiritualist church here in Yorkshire and boy what fun that was! An audience full of old ladies called gladys and ethel with dead husbands all called albert and george and a stage with "mediums" on it dishing out vague references to someone with the name beginning with E yada yada. If these spirits of the dead can get through back from the great beyond, if their message is so important for them to need to do that instead of moving on, then surely they can use verifiable facts like names and addresses?

Needless to say, I was expelled for "not playing ball and frightening people" LOL