This Young girl committed suicide by social media !

Originally posted by freedomSlave

Originally posted by dayve
Right... The police came to her door at 4am to alert her, that a picture of her boobs had been sent out..... What a dramatic idiot. I dont care if she killed herself or not, this video is stupid.

WoW buddy you are sad individual . People like you should have no place in our society.

I have more of a place than people like you. Your gonna attack cause of your lil pity party. If your gonna feel sorry for everybody that kills them self, your a weak minded individual

Originally posted by dayve

Originally posted by freedomSlave

Originally posted by dayve
Right... The police came to her door at 4am to alert her, that a picture of her boobs had been sent out..... What a dramatic idiot. I dont care if she killed herself or not, this video is stupid.

WoW buddy you are sad individual . People like you should have no place in our society.

I have more of a place than people like you. Your gonna attack cause of your lil pity party. If your gonna feel sorry for everybody that kills them self, your a weak minded individual

Seeing the replies in this thread and others wishing death on someone else or calling them names just shows the hypocrisy is rampant. The people in this thread wishing ill and hurt on others are no better then the guy asking this girl to flash him. This girl brought the whole thing on herself and if you dont feel bad or sorry or dont pretend too like everyone else in this thread is doing pretending they care..They gang up on you and bully you. I cant believe these people give wo craps themself when theg are bullying other posters in this thread.

reply to post by 0bserver1

Why I choose the Title I think that that social media like face-book and others should have some kind of police amendment that every person that are be threatened or harassed should be given protection against the violator .

Why? It is already illegal to threaten and harass people online and facebook is already big brother for stupid people. Nevermind now that I think about it if you have a facebook you deserve to have all your communications monitored.
Personally I think people that are sensitive should not be on the internet in the first place.
If you notice at the end of the video it says she was put on anti-depressants, if you read up on those one of the side effects of all of them is suicidal behavior especially in teens. Its really no surprise, put a girl on a drug that is known to make people want to kill themselves-blame the internet.

Originally posted by 0bserver1
This incident could lead to a copy cat effect?

It's far worse than that.

This is not just ordinary bullying. And communities have to stop betraying their children concerning this kind of pedefile and porn rings, that obviously have both teens bought off by the adult rings behind them, often higher up, and cia, or elite run in my opinion.

This does not just target teens. Young women too. But the initial boys, may not even be the ones who tormented her and followed her school to school, humiliating her wherever she went.

The privacy people should have even online, where only bondable highly reputable persons with reasons to access private information, should ever be able to have this. But today, anyone can be located and targetted online.

So the initial pics at 12 or 13, that kids get peer pressured into, may have been intercepted by a porn ring.

At that age what they do, is black mail the girls into working for them. She was told she was beautiful and perfect.

But since she wouldn't go along, she was destroyed as a message to all the other girls and young women they were doing this to.

And that is why its going to take community programs and intervention to target all the girls/women in a similar situation.

This was more than the usual bullying.

How did the police find the first pics so fast also? Why did htey come to her door if not to start the process of intimidation.

What I would have done if I was her mother, after the suicide attempt and the cutting she kept on doing, is to take her out of school and home school her.

Control her internet and stop the peer pressure issue altogether.

Take art lessons, art therapy, new age meditation and self help kind of counseling. Take her on a good holiday, and even massage therapy, reiki, any kind of nature outings. Teach her good self esteem and independent thought and self worth, and creativity.

But communities have to stop this kind of black mail bullying for it leads to porn rings.

I just want to point out.

When the facebook page with a profile picture of her breasts was posted, wouldn't that be an automatic red-flag for facebook, deeming further investigation. What about when the police arrived at her house and let her know about the photo. Why did they not track the original source and charge this person with possession of child pornography??

I think Amanda`s lesson to the world was/is.... dont do those type of things for others just to be popular or to get friends to like/love you,respect yourself first through your actions,that opens the way for real friends to come into your life who love you for who you are,not what they want from you and dont turn a blind eye if you see someone being bullied.

Real friends can forgive mistakes,the internet never forgets or forgives even though a person may have.

Parents need to explain this to their children from early on,because bowing to peer pressure just for the want and need to be accepted as popular is the cause for so many girls and boys grief that can affect them for the rest of their lives.

From reading about her life her parents were seperated,so she may not have had the best stable environment early on,to develop her own self respect.

Imagine it was your own daughter that has been put through all of that or your son,for those that say they dont give a crap speaks volumes, not much unlike all the people that bullied her.I suppose that if it was your own daughter or son being hounded from school to school being ridiculed and bashed you wouldn`t give a crap.

I only hope you never bring a life into this world.

Originally posted by popcornmafia

Originally posted by Catacomb

There was a lot more to it than Facebook bullying...did you actually watch her video? Or, did you just post on here to show how thoughtless and callous you can be when someone takes their own life? You obviously put zero effort into learning why she took her own life.

She moved several times, and was harassed, bullied, and beaten, in real life. It wasn't just when she was on the internet. The bullying is a direct cause of her killing herself, and just because you can take people treating you badly, doesn't mean everyone can. Everyone is different, and some people just can't stand up to others, and cannot take harassment. They do not want to live, and can't see a way to live when every day of their life is full of depression and hatred towards them.

That is what bullying does, and people who have never been through it, or don't understand why someone would want to take their own life, please do us all a favor, and keep your heartless posts to yourself. There was enough bullying in this girl's life, she doesn't need to be bullied and made fun of in death, as she was in life.

edit on 12-10-2012 by Catacomb because: (no reason given)

There are weak minded people in this world, there are strong minded people.
During the holocaust, Jews endured a hell of a lot more
and they fought for their.lives. Did Ann frank take.a.gun
and blow her brains.out... no she fought and.fought
and fought. Dont give me that BS

OMG you are on a competition, who is the strongest, which girl had more hair on her manly brave chest. That child, by the way, was cutting her arms up in absolute desperation, More than a cry for help, she was over the line of sanity and self help, and is a baby, a small beautiful little traumatized angel baby. I have 5 boys, ranging from 11 years old to 22 and I would never speak of any child like you did.

You don't toughen kids up, you love them and rescue them and build their self esteem up. You take them away from the danger, the public shcools and the peer pressure. You treat them with dignity and love.

I guess you thought this was all a blood line mystery school test for who was the most tough skinned eh.

ITS NOT!

The real test is who loves the most and understands others.

After reading two pages of comments: If I'm weak minded for caring about strangers I don't know, so be it.

Would have loved to have a chance to save her life, whether or not her fate was inevitable and sealed. Those of you criticizing a now deceased girl who suffered til the end only serve to remind us there will always be a balance between good and... Not so good.

By the way, TheSparrowSings, those are good questions.

I watched the video and read most of the first page of replies before my blood boiled at some of the replies here. What happened to this girl was a travesty and was in no way her fault. The only people's fault who this is, is the bullies, her parents/carers and her medical practicioners. This story is so sad because a pretty young girl has had her life taken away by needless nasty people. I wish I could have seen the video before she comitted suicide because I would have leant my support and if I was geographically close enough, just go around and give her a big hug.

Some of you have made me sick to my stomach, I knew there are people like you out there but I didn't think it was so widespread. You make me feel so sad.

Let me tell you, that deep depression and anxiety are not easy to deal with. Its not that the person is just miserable, they have a chemical inbalance in their brain causing this. Those that have said such horrible things about this incident, I hope you are proud of yourselves.

reply to post by michael1983l


Whats even more sickening is the bullies toward her were youngsters,these people posting their heartless comments of her aren`t.

I share your disgust and thoughts in your post micheal.

I can not stop crying for this poor girl. I haven't been deeply affected by something I have seen online like this in a long time.

reply to post by 0bserver1


Just sad... Not really sure how to respond to that video. I'm sorry the world was cruel to you and I'm sorry that you didn't have the support system you needed to carry you through these dark times... RIP

I have a 16 year old niece, the thought of her being bullied terrifies me... Not sure how people raise kids today, I was in HS 10 years ago and it wasn't this bad... Just sad stuff...

Cyber bullies are pansies. Even biggie pansy than regular bullies.

reply to post by ManBehindTheMask


You are wrong there not more vile and evil its been like this before the social media and internet connection. Do you know what the difference is we didnt get told we were special and should have everything we want. I grew up getting bullied Ive had horrible things done to me but I didnt kill myself over it. Social networks didnt cause this problem her own parents did. They bought there 7th grade daughter a webcam and let her use it unsupervised knowing theres sick people on the internet. The police showing up at 4 in the morning does sound kind of funny but they could have seeing as it was child pornography. As for the main poster when did she say she loved the guy that she showed her boobs that was a major misinterpretation. On a final note the people talking bad and "bullying" the people that have different thoughts about this case are really no better then the weirdo that had her pic.

Originally posted by dayve
Right... The police came to her door at 4am to alert her, that a picture of her boobs had been sent out..... What a dramatic idiot. I dont care if she killed herself or not, this video is stupid.

No offense, but ATS doesn't need dbags like you on here.... I understand that this will likely get erased and I will likely get a private message explaining that i shouldnt do this, but a little kid died, she was bullied, she committed suicide and you leave a dbag response like that??Big man you are...

reply to post by michael1983l


In no way her fault right. If I went out around town flashing my cock and somebody took a pic of it and put it all over the internet whose fault is it. She didnt know here pic was going to be screen capped but you cant say she wasnt in the wrong her parents should have taught her better

reply to post by darknull


You sound like you were never a teenager once. She made some mistakes, does that mean she deserved to die you sick bastard. Edited out.

Originally posted by michael1983l
She made some mistakes, does that mean she deserved to die you sick bastard. Go jump off a cliff.

Deserve to die?

Umm..

She killed herself.

reply to post by SLAYER69


Do you think that people kill themselves for no reason. She was suffering from major mental issues brought on by stress and being bullied. I'm so raging right now, i'm seriously thinking of never coming back here, I don't want to mix with the likes of people like you.

Originally posted by darknull
reply to post by michael1983l

 

In no way her fault right. If I went out around town flashing my cock and somebody took a pic of it and put it all over the internet whose fault is it. She didnt know here pic was going to be screen capped but you cant say she wasnt in the wrong her parents should have taught her better

Come on man, she was 12 years old when that happened, guys were paying her compliments, requesting more and she acted... A 12 year old doesn't understand the true ramifications of what they do, they don't understand REAL consequences, their minds are still developing, right from wrong is still a skill they are developing... A grown man (i hope thats what you are) like you knows better when it comes to waving your junk out in the public eye, a 12 year old girl going through puberty, not so much...