What the hell! Let's all grope our friends!

reply to post by Flavian


LMAO!!!!

Well you're a different situation entirely.....he he he

reply to post by kat2684


Nah, i just couldn't resist. If one of my male friends did that to me.........well, they wouldn't get a violent response but i sure as hell wouldn't just allow it! But to be honest, i wouldn't allow it from any female friends either these days. Well, i say i wouldn't allow it.........what i mean is the missus wouldn't allow it.......

Originally posted by kat2684
reply to post by Flavian

 

LMAO!!!!

Well you're a different situation entirely.....he he he

LMAO really what a lucky man he is...

reply to post by XxNightAngelusxX

I've seen this behavior.
My husband and I have actually discussed this topic because of some situations we've seen.
Even though I grew up with 4 sisters we were not and still not comfortable with affection. The usual tinkering with my hair was the closest I'd let them get to me. The "tickle fights" were for when we were really little like under 8.

2 examples

An under 30 yr old that is very outspoken and aggressive verbally and physically. Her father would remind her not to punch people in the arm because even though she was joking around, it hurt. At every family gathering (mixed family company that I'm not getting into) she will go up from behind and grab select females tits. I mean literally cup them in each hand and play with them for a few moments. She's usually drunk and loves to act it. We write it off as someone who didn't get enough attention. She possibly also has bi tendencies - I don't know for sure but she loves going to strip clubs with "the guys".
She doesn't do this to me as it is an unspoken agreement, she knows I'd knock her out if she tried.

The other is a teenager and all her friends. My niece and her friends were all swimming at their pool in their bathing suits, I wasn't there. My husband was doing some work at their house and saw some odd behavior and asked me about it. He said they were all grabbing each others butts, boobs, etc and they we're all half naked. Most profess hetero sexuality and having boyfriends but he said it made him uncomfortable. Mostly being his niece but he said it was just weird. I said it was probably to be provocative and to get attention. Similar to when I used to sit in restaurants with my friends and yell penis really loud.

So yes I've seen this behavior. I just ignore it.

Originally posted by RobinB022
I think the answer would be quite different if I knew more circumstances, for instance; Is your fiance' around whenever this type of playing around is taking place, or do they only act like this whenever he's out of the picture. So, in front of him or no? Mostly in front of him/never around him, etc.?

My first thought as well. I know as a young gal, my friends and I would act a little frisky, only to get a MANS attention. And it obviously works! Look at all the men on this thread who want pics and videos.

~OkieDokie

Originally posted by OkieDokie

Originally posted by RobinB022
I think the answer would be quite different if I knew more circumstances, for instance; Is your fiance' around whenever this type of playing around is taking place, or do they only act like this whenever he's out of the picture. So, in front of him or no? Mostly in front of him/never around him, etc.?

My first thought as well. I know as a young gal, my friends and I would act a little frisky, only to get a MANS attention. And it obviously works! Look at all the men on this thread who want pics and videos.

~OkieDokie

As we say on ATS pics or vids or it didn't happen

Guilty as charged but it can backfire watch lmao

reply to post by XxNightAngelusxX


I wanted to chime in here because I haven't seen anyone mention the obvious.
What is the obvious?
1. The KGB's plan of ridding the US of morals and values has been successful.
2. The media and entertainment industry (working in tandom with #1's plan) has effectively communicated and brainwashed the youth to believe that this is normal and acceptable behavior. Well, it's not. NOBODY should touch you - EVER! Especially in private areas.
CAN WE SAY TSA?!?!?!

Yep. The plan has worked accordingly. As one poster mentioned about the Fox and Hounds bar. This is part of H3, which has successfully brainwashed people to think that it's appropriate to touch people and humiliate them, then blame the alcohol instead of their loose morals and lack of respect for your personal space. The name of the game is to make people uncomfortable. This tactic breaks a person down so they can be reprogrammed as the group sees fit. There are some really sick people out there who enjoy psychologically screwing with people.

Please don't confuse these girls as friends. You already stated that you told them to stop behaving in this manner and they haven't. This is a huge red, red flag that they don't respect you and don't give a crap if they're making you uncomfortable. Their level of maturity is certainly NOT at the level yours is and you need to value this. Be proud that you were brought up right and respect people's comfort levels and personal space, which is the way humans are supposed to act.

I hate to say this, but I'd kick them to the curb. You're growing and maturing while they are remaining stagnant. When they try to grab you, it's because YOU'RE making THEM uncomfortable. Your disgust at their behavior makes them feel wierd, so in order to counter this, they grope you. When this happens, they've lowered you to their level as well as your vibrational frequency. To keep your frequency high like it should be, please try to surround and involve yourself with people who respect themselves as much as you do. These girls appear to have low self-esteem and lack respect for themselves and others. People such as these girls will do nothing but bring negative energy into whatever space they are occupying.

Also, I wouldn't doubt if one or both of these girls were molested and this is their way of crying out for help and feeling as though what happened to them is normal and acceptable. .

reply to post by obnoxiouschick


Well my wife is a nurse at a nursing home and she has bisexual co-workers who smack her butt when she walks by and they will drop their pants and show her their asses but they've never tried to grope her breasts, like you she'd knock them out and she hits pretty damn hard. She punches me in the arm all the time and she's almost as strong as i am except i have that male ability to hit the overpower button.

reply to post by lonewolf19792000


Well nurses have pretty good stamina and they're usually pretty fit.
I had jobs where I had restrained people and I am pretty strong.

For them to do that stuff in the workplace is kind of strange.

I think I just give off the whole "don't even think about it" attitude. And I'm usually the ONLY sober female in the room. So my natural reflex would kick in and I'd pummel her. Other family members have actually discussed this and I think they're waiting for it to happen. We'll see when the holidays come around, maybe I'll get some video for all you guys to see this crap.

My sisters used to act that way with their friends(except for the biting bit afaik) and that was back in the 90's. So probably not that uncommon...

Originally posted by Afterthought
I hate to say this, but I'd kick them to the curb. You're growing and maturing while they are remaining stagnant. When they try to grab you, it's because YOU'RE making THEM uncomfortable. Your disgust at their behavior makes them feel wierd, so in order to counter this, they grope you. When this happens, they've lowered you to their level as well as your vibrational frequency. To keep your frequency high like it should be, please try to surround and involve yourself with people who respect themselves as much as you do.

What's this vibrational frequency you talk about? I didn't know we can oscillate like radio transmitters lol

Thanks for the replies guys... there's no video and there never will be.