Alright, so this is something I've been pondering for a little while now. Not sure if it's worth posting, but we'll find out.
So, I live with my fiance and a couple of roomates, both girls. My fiance is actually the only guy who lives here. Anyway, I personally have never
really had girl friends before, all my friends have been guys in the past. I relate to guys better sometimes, and guys are a little easier to read.
All the girls my age in life have always been... unfavorable. So, I always avoided hanging out with other girls.
Now, I'm really close to these two other girls who are my roomates, and another girl, who doesn't live here anymore, but she comes over a lot. Those
three girls are awesome, and I love them to death, but they are WEIRD sometimes. I'm not normal by any means, but I've never seen friends act the
way they do.
They pinch, bite, and tickle each other all the time. No big deal, right? Then, it leads to grope fights.
They grope each others breasts, and even smack them. Don't ask me why.
They even do it to me sometimes, and it's just... odd.
Is this the way girls act around each other? Or is it just my friends and other select groups of weirdos?
It's like groping is their natural communication. It's as normal and simple as hugging to them.
I grew up with a decently screwed up family, but before the divorce, my mom was very thorough in teaching me that "men need to respect you" and
"Never let anyone touch you here" and "People who don't give respect don't deserve it" and all that. I've inherited her
conservative-nazi-respect philosophy. No, I'm not nearly as bad as my mom about it, but still... its just weird for someone like me, an alpha chick
with conservative-nazi-respect beliefs, to have friends like this.
Basically what I'm asking is this; Is this okay?