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This time I'm sure I'm misunderstanding you, but no offer of an apology here. How do you handle the case where one might have three reasons for a position and one is religious (as in gay marriage) Leave the religious one out? I'm sorry, but that seems like a "Free Speech" problem brewing. Or, are you asking that we censor ourselves?
Then you should be able to make a case as to how your position on the law would benefit everybody. . . . You should be able to make your case without bringing your religion it to it. If not, you are advocating theocracy.
I agree completely, our law is subject to the desires of 51% of the population who have to be persuaded by one set of arguments or another. Definitely not by a religious body. I would not like that at all.
By all means, be against gay marriage simply because your religion tells you to but don't make the mistake that our law is subject to your church.
This is another example of the terrible misunderstanding we seem to be having. I don't think Christians are trying to govern others, as Christians. (I know that sounds funny. I don't know quite how to fix it.) I think, on some issues, the church expresses her opinion and the believers express theirs. That seems to me just and reasonable. Force? No that would be wrong (and my argument would be based on religious reasons. ) Persuade on grounds that almost anyone would find objectionable? That's allowed. JFK was our President because he had a better make up man in the TV debates. That kind of silly reason is allowed as part of the mysterious creature named "Man." There was a fair amount of questionable behavior in getting 60 Senators to vote for Obamacare. My point here is that many government decisions are made for irrelevant reasons. To try to silence a reason that many are vitally concerned with, but you aren't concerned with, seems an uncomfortable place to be.
So, no... even if my religion was the flavor of the month and being touted around as the main reason to back up my positions, I would still be just as disgusted by people who try to use it to govern others.
Would you consider rephrasing that? Maybe something like "Outlawing abortions forces women to carry their baby to term?"
Um yes outlawing abortion is forcing women to be baby factories, it makes them create a baby.
If you know that women will be seriously affected by pregnancy, certainly they must know it, too. Doesn't that mean that they have a reason to be extra careful with sex, more so than the men? Are you suggesting that no one should be concerned about it, boy or girl?
Try to say " she could have chosen t not have sex etc." Well the boy could have also, but men get a free pass to screw and not chance their bodies being destroyed because of it.
Well, if it involves governmental decisions, it's every body's business.
What I am telling you is, IT IS NONE OF YOUR DAMNED BUSINESS EITHER WAY!
Originally posted by Cuervo
Originally posted by LauraM
reply to post by Cuervo
There you go again, trying to invalidate my beliefs becasue they are rooted in Chrisitanity. I'm sorry, but you are being very dictatorial. You are saying believe as I do, or you shouldn't have a voice.
I didn't say anything like that. I said... kind of what you are saying, actually.
Originally posted by LauraM
I would not use biblical quotes in my arguments, but there is no denying that they would stem from my religion.
Yeah. I know. You can have your beliefs and those beliefs can stem from your religion but don't go quoting scriptures, doctrines, or churches to make a case for legislation.
Originally posted by LauraM
That being said I lean much more toward leaving things up to individuals, not being dictated to by the government or tyrannical people who insist that others should believe as they do. As it is in the real world, we are being ever increasingly micro-managed by the government.
But. That's what I just said...
Originally posted by LauraM
I'm glad you are not in charge.
Why? Because I wouldn't use my religion to tell you how to live?
no differently than any other medical procedure and why should it be ??
Clearly, it's everybody's business.
no, because that's absolutely false as history has already proven.
Would you consider rephrasing that? Maybe something like "Outlawing abortions forces women to carry their baby to term?"
again NO, because women don't ejaculate their eggs, ever, not even for pleasure.
Doesn't that mean that they have a reason to be extra careful with sex, more so than the men?
Originally posted by inverslyproportional
reply to post by charles1952
Of course you may interject, this is an open forum.
Question1. For many women it isn't an option, as skin elasticity only goes so far, as well as the calcium supplies of the body, and it is quite mentaly chalenging especially for the young, pregnancy cares not about your age or income status.
Question 2 I don't know any women that I know of having had an abortion, so all I could offer would be conjecture, which is the same as nothing. Although I don't know any women that regret having their children, even at a young age. Though that does not mean many wouldn't feel quite different.
Question 3. I say what I do because it is unequal, as a boy can simply get a girl pregnant and walk away so to speak, leaving her to deal with the consequences alone. This causes inequal treatment under the law which is illegal.
Sorry, but there is no way to legislate nature from being what it is
Lst statement. It is not the .gov position or place to decide what is good for women only on a subject that clearly took both to cause in the first place.IMHO of course as many would see it differently.
You are absolutely right. But government does have an essential duty to protect human life. This is one of the basics. It is only scientists and abortion activists who call a baby a fetus. Ask any pregnant woman- I'll bet even the ones considering an abortion; they will call it a baby.
However it is my assertion that others don't have a right to force their version of morality on others, as this is tyranny.
Should have said all that was on your mind, I am not concerned with the amount of words, I like to read, especially intelligent thought out discourse. This is how we all cme to understand others perspectives, and thus, the world as a whole.
if you cannot answer this question yourself, then perhaps you do not understand the Constitution in a manner that would be appropriate.
Why is it then, that the people who espouse American freedom and talk about the constitution are so often the very same people who bring up religion when speaking about law?
But as I tried to point out, it currently is, and has been, a subject of government legislation and decisions. I quite understand that some think it shouldn't be in the future, but what circumstances are facing us right now? You may remember that the Hippocratic oath, governing physicians conduct, had been unchanged for thousands of years, until the 1960's. Until that time it told physicians that they were not to perform abortions. You must see how an abortion has been considered to be significantly different from an appendectomy.
no differently than any other medical procedure and why should it be ??
This medical procedure (abortion) to remove a parasite should not be any more politically, morally or religiously divisive than removing a tumor.
Just a tiny point. You probably don't mean "prospective parents," I think you mean "prospective mother."
still doesn't make it everyone's decision or one that should be influenced by any religion other than that of the prospective parents.
But then, so is the original quote I was suggesting should be rephrased, by your statement. How would you phrase it?
Would you consider rephrasing that? Maybe something like "Outlawing abortions forces women to carry their baby to term?"
no, because that's absolutely false as history has already proven.
This one I just don't understand.
Doesn't that mean that they have a reason to be extra careful with sex, more so than the men?
again NO, because women don't
ejaculate their eggs, ever, not even for pleasure.
Maybe I can help, depending on what you mean by "punish." But first, if the responsibility is equal, why does only one have the right to make a decision? How can you be responsible for the outcome if you can't control the outcome?
the responsibility of consenting participants is always equal since one cannot reproduce without the other. so then, should both be punished ??
i find it odd that in most religious theory, that answer is no ... that truly puzzles me.
Well, I don't know about men, but I would be. Wait a minute, though. This "unwanted" business has me confused. Does that mean a woman who says, "Let's make a baby," then three months later decides she doesn't want to have it, makes the man a criminal for an "unwanted" pregnancy? That's just wrong. Maybe we should rephrase that, too.
IF it were illegal to create an unwanted pregnancy, do you think men would be "extra careful with sex, moreso than women?"
only on TV dear, only on tv.
Murder in all other circumstances is prevented and punished.
yes, you did, however, no moreso than cancer, diabetes, MS or any other medical condition.
But as I tried to point out, it currently is, and has been, a subject of government legislation and decisions.
pregancy is not an accident. abortion is not an accident.
How can you be responsible for the outcome if you can't control the outcome?
glad to hear it, hope it serves/served you well.
Well, I don't know about men, but I would be.
in a Theocracy, it certainly would be. is that what you prefer ?
This is not about telling a woman what she can or cannot do with her body.
not until it can survive sans its host ... and for most, that's full term.
It is about protecting the life of a baby which has it's own body.
that's not a delusion, it's a fact ... do you need a definition ??
Go ahead and delude yourself by calling it a parasite, or a glob of cells if you want.
thanks, but i'll be a woman and still hold a pro-choice belief ... it is the American/Constitutional way.
Or just be a man and admit that you believe in infanticide.
Um yes outlawing abortion is forcing women to be baby factories, it makes them create a baby.
It's a living Constitution and it was created that way "on purpose" because people expected changing circumstances and social evolution.