Final channelings:
The 7 Stages of Emotional Clearing
How to clear the negative emotions in our bodies is a process that most of us have never been taught to do. Society does not give much credence to
this work. Consequently, when we do try to clear, because we do not know the stages that humans go through in order to release painful emotions, we
get stuck. For many, this leads to feelings of frustration and so they just give up. But when we give up, we do so at a price. When conflicts remain
unresolved, their associated emotions remain, creating energetic imbalances in the body on the physical level that lead to illness. On the mental
level, they can create bi-polar disorders and, in some cases, depression. On the emotional level, they lead us to either act out in destructive ways
such as raging, or in covert ways, using passive/aggressive behavior. All of these things are destructive to our personal relationship with our Inner
Children, not to mention our relationships with others.
The 7 Stages of Emotional Clearing are given as a roadmap to help you navigate the stages of clearing that each person experiences in order to fully
and completely clear negative pain associated with a conflict or other negative event from the body.
The 7 Stages
1. Trigger
2. Identify Trigger through anger
3. Projection and blaming
4. Express and release anger and pain
5. Look for and find the mirror
6. Own the mirror
7. Clear the mirror
1. Trigger
A trigger occurs when someone violates a personal boundary or agreement.
2. Identifying the trigger through anger
Once triggered, you react with anger or, if not anger, at least a sense that something is not right.
Note: Many people get stuck here because they have learned to immediately stuff their anger when it occurs. An example would be saying to yourself,
“Oh, it’s just not worth getting upset over.”
3. Projection and Blaming
If you are angry, the next thing you do is blame someone for it. We call this “projecting” because you are putting the blame for your pain on
someone else.
Note: Many people project and blame but they don’t go past this point and express it to the person with whom they are upset.
4. Express and release anger and pain
This is the step in which you vent your anger toward the accused. Expressing can take various forms depending on the intensity of the violation and
trigger. Mild violations may require just speaking up about it. Stronger violations may require speaking up and a few choice cuss words to clear the
pain and so on.
Note: Most people will stop short of this step because they believe they don’t feel comfortable and/or they don’t have the right to express their
anger. In that case, passive/aggressive behavior will ensue because anger must have a release.
5. Look for and find the mirror
Once the anger has been expressed, logic can return. Now and only now can you begin to look for how you have co-created the situation. Beginning with
Steps 1—3 of the Formula of Compassion, you look for the lesson, contract and role that the other person is playing.
Tip: If you are not able to talk with your guides to get the information you need to find the mirror, try starting with Step 4 of the Formula. Ask
yourself, “What fear is the other person expressing through their behavior?” Once you figure out what the fear is, you then ask, “What belief
is triggering that fear?” By doing this, you are tracing your way back to the belief that is at the root of the behavior. Keep this rule in mind:
Beliefs create fears which we then act out through our behavior.
Continuing..
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