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I'm not going to tell you how to conduct you private affairs. Why can't you extend that courtesy to others.
Also i agree with whoever said that the if men is not going to be involved in whether the child is born or not, then he should be exempt from paying child support.
Originally posted by EndlessFire
reply to post by Sulie
But the father should be held responsible for getting my body back to the way it was, pre-twins.
Was this rape or did you know before having sex that pregnancy was possiblity?
Would you kill your unborn child because stretch marks are ewww?edit on 23-8-2012 by EndlessFire because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by Druscilla
Originally posted by IsThisThingBugged
It is the women's body yes... men can't, and shouldn't, be able to FORCE an abortion on any women .
But they should be able to "force" the women to keep the baby.
I always thought it is a healthy compromise. And EXACTLY the rights women have, am I right?
I hate lib, conserv paradigm nonsense but in an equable society shouldn't a man have a say in the life of his possible child?... Not forcing abortion on women but forcing life for babies...
Forcing anything, whether it pregnancy or abortion is no man's, and no one's right to say other than the woman involved.
As illustrated in some other's previous posts, you do a few minutes of of leaking fluid, and this somehow makes you King of the World with the power to order someone to suffer, risk their life, change their body drastically in the short term and in many ways forever as well, plus potentially sacrifice career, income, time, and over all general quality of life for the next 18 years?
All because you leaked some fluid after a few minutes?
I don't think so.
Sure, the goop gun should be entitled to as many words as they can fill into the span of time it took them to leak their fluids, whether that's a few minutes or more, but, beyond that; nope, nuh-uh, no way.
Girl has to deal with the product and consequences of your few minutes of gooping forever after.
It's her say.
edit on 23-8-2012 by Druscilla because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by luciddream
Also i agree with whoever said that the if men is not going to be involved in whether the child is born or not, then he should be exempt from paying child support.
If its not a 2 person decision making at the start, then it stays as one person decision making for the rest of the life whether you like it or not.edit on 8/23/2012 by luciddream because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by EvilSadamClone
I really hate the term pro-abortion.
It's called pro-choice, there is a difference, but not to a pro-lifer's mind.
I really wish they'd stop using that term.
Originally posted by luciddream
reply to post by JIMC5499
Yeah let her pay for abortion that she discussed with her girlfriends instead of the boyfriend who got her pregnant.
Originally posted by EndlessFire
reply to post by windword
If she can choose whether or not she wants to be a parent after pregnancy occurs then he should be able to as well.