U.S. Women and the Princess syndrome

reply to post by ofhumandescent


The guy in that video is the poster boy for bullied children. He wouldnt know a woman if one came up and tickled his undercarriage. A prize guy right there...any you lot think women are being superficial etc.....NO they are just trying to avoid cabbages like this guy.

reply to post by Threadfall

Originally posted by Six6Six Originally posted by Patrol AFTER TWO FAILED MARRIAGES, I HAVE SOLVED THIS PROBLEM. I AM MARRIED TO A FILIPINA GIRL. THEY ARE THE GOD'S GIFT TO MEN. Shame about the looks department though......


You're a misogynistic, bitter loser from the sounds of it. What kind of crypotzoological monstrosities do you pay to get your perverted pleasures from??? To say all one sex/nationality/race/religion/ethnicity/sports teams fans/et. al. means--NECESSARILY--that you ARE a dummy!

hahaha. Thank you my friend. My point exactly. bravo

reply to post by Six6Six

The guy in that video is the poster boy for bullied children. He wouldnt know a woman if one came up and tickled his undercarriage. A prize guy right there...any you lot think women are being superficial etc.....NO they are just trying to avoid cabbages like this guy.

i would actually pay to watch a reality TV show revolving around your life, I really would.

I know guys I went to high school with who talk just like you. Funny thing is, they're worse off than those they make fun of

reply to post by BASSPLYR


Los Angeles?



You've got that on the money. I'm from Los Angeles and I would hate to go back there. Aside from the high living expenses and whatnot, the people there really erk me. I use to hate having to go to Beverly Hills and some part of the South side (which are like the complete opposite of each other I know) because there were some very "high on their horse" men and women. It's like you bump into them on accident, or you just happen to glance at them and they give you a dirty look. And I really don't see the point of having to take 5 billion pictures of yourself in the mall or in the street and submit them to instagram or whatever so everyone can see the "lavish" life that you live. I knew a bunch of girls from LA that didn't know how to properly buy something from the supermarket (they would pick up the item and almost walk out of the store with it), or pump gas in their car, or even cook a simple meal like eggs or spaghetti!

Ohh, how I don't miss those days. And don't get me started with how boy crazy most of them were. Like they were very smart, creative young women and they got mostly C's in their classes because they won't do simple assignments or study because they have a party to go to, or they have a date with so and so and she knows he's paying for the whole thing. Some were in class talking about some douche, (and when I say douche I mean DOUCHE, most of the guys they were talking about were complete assholes, like the type of guy that would spend a little money here and there to get in your pants...and a lot of girls fell for those guys). Their excuse for not doing certain assignments or whatever was "I have a life", but it's like, being in school is a job. A job is apart of your life. They don't call it school LIFE for nothing. You may have another "life" outside of school, but if you ever want to make a somewhat decent living in California, I would suggest you pay attention, do your work, and put the boys in the back of your mind. Anyway, most young boys around that age range have nothing else on their mind but sex and themselves. If you are not bringing the pleasure to them, then you're out the door just like the other women that they have had before.

It's just very sad and ridicules how some girls denote themselves in that manner, but hey, you can't tell them anything. They'll eventually learn on their own...or not.

SECOND REMINDER!!

Originally posted by AshleyD
Hello everyone. It seems we're in a rather heated gender argument.

Let's please remember our focus. Opinions are fine but personal attacks are not. Let's please keep it civil and respectful.

Thanks.

....

Don't get me started on this. It's about time other men noticed what is really happening....FOR THE PAST 20 YEARS, instead of just blindly handing them all of their stuff in the hopes of sex they will never get (even if they did, it wouldn't be worth it)...or getting married to these government assisted, affirmative action leeches and losing your entire future as well, while they use their own children (who they claim to love) to pry into the wallets of men and separate the children from their fathers, not considering the welfare of the child...but rather their own financial, greedy needs. It's about time! It's not like a woman can walk into court in a divorce hearing ESPECIALLY with a child and win 99% of the time ...even if they have a drug problem or cheat on you during a marriage. Clearly the government is on the side of men AND women in the spirit of true equality. Nah, they are not pissing on the backs of men and telling us it's raining.

Okay I got a scenario....

You order a mail order bride. You get married. Then on your honey moon you find out the woman is actually a man!!! oups too bad Now your stuck with it!

Originally posted by RealSpoke
The majority of the women that suffer from this are suburban girls. If you want a down to earth dime, try dating women that are from the city.

I have to disagree. Women from the city are just as bad. They are constantly reminded of what they don't have. A luxury car, a big penthouse, that new $700 phone.. etc. Which leads to crime or a way for yourself to get those things (golddigger). I think women from rural areas are the least narcissistic. Expecially if they are part of the community.

Originally posted by Six6Six
It just seems to me that this is a thread to bash women for NO reason.

I can bet with almost 100% certainty the men on here complaining are the men who fail in every walk of life and then blame the women for being to stuck up....NOT realizing that these women just have STANDARDS that you lot fall well below.

We have men in here who fail in their marital lives, ship in women from 3rd world dumps who speak next to no english and would marry a chimp just to leave their countries.

Well done you guys, instead of seeking out women that match your low standards in your own country you instead fail and point the finger else where.

In reality you are socially retarded and offer nothing to these women beside a life of mediocrity and living pay check to pay check.....the sum of failure in a nutshell.

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LoL

Looks like someone gave their ATS password to their wife!



The point about standards does need to be addressed though.

Studies have shown that women tend not to respect a man unless they are in a clearly dominant position professionally or financially. This is a major difference between men and women. A man can make millions of dollars a year and still date/marry a poor lady who does other people's nails for a living, meanwhile a 'high powered' women will not want to be with a man of similar stature. Their 'respect' is relative to their own situation professionally and/or financially.

Women's standards are highly variable depending on their perceived status while men tend to have far more stability in this regard.

LoL again now at your 100% certainty that the entirety of those posting on this thread are losers and failures. Many that post on ATS are actually quite established/ accomplished in many fields outside of jobless paranoid schizos, but with your emotions flaring as they are would rather mock than show rationale in providing evidence of your claims.

Many of us just recognize the extreme double standard of expectations between the genders.

PS

I am a manager at a plant nursery which has recently expanded now employing over 40 individuals (full time), I own my vehicle outright and am supporting family members (paying Father's mortgage) who have lost their jobs.

Btw I graduated college two years ago.

I would love to hear about your profession and success as you seem quite full of yourself.

Originally posted by Jana12
I authored a book on this topic/disorder. I have experience with these types of people, as this disorder also runs in my own family. I hope the following information is helpful.

It's called 'Narcissism' or NPD, Narcissistic Personality Disorder and it's actually very serious -- not for the person who has the disorder, but for those involved in any way with the person. Unfortunately, it's an untreatable, incurable emotional disorder. But, many people don't believe that until after they've spent a fortune on therapy only to find out the person with NPD was playing them. They get their kicks out of playing head games.

They lack the ability to empathize -- to put themselves in the place of others. That inability never improves or changes. They get high off of being the center of attention and when they aren't the center of attention they are down. They are shallow, very superficial. They also get high off of drama, even if they claim to hate drama. They also specialize in destroying relationships, tearing apart families and fracturing emotional bonds -- and with absolutely no remorse. Sometimes, others don't even realize that these Princesses were actually the source or cause of a break-up or an estrangement b/c they usually cover their tracks.

They lack the ability to accept responsibility for their actions.They will destroy you if you have a relationship with them. They are, essentially, an out-of-control or an unruly adolescent in the body of an adult ... even in their 30's, 40's, 50's and beyond. They also have limited coping abilities.

A specific part of the brain never matured beyond late adolescence.

Some experts believe 'the emotional center' of the brain is underdeveloped and that this particular center or region of the brain did not properly develop along with other brain regions that did develop (children are narcissistic) ... AND then other experts believe the circuitry of 'the emotional center' of the brain is faulty or improperly wired ... AND others believe it's genetic plus an environmental component triggered the disorder.

Anyone who co-parents with an individual who has this mental disorder is doomed to a lifetime of sheer misery. They use innocent children as objects or pawns to make others 'dance to their tune'. They have children with those who are not narcissistic as a means of keeping them tied and connected to them for life. NPD goes way beyond entitlement issues and self-absorption ... way beyond. These people are real bad news. Never confront them or tell them you suspect they have this disorder.

If a teenager with narcissistic tendencies does not outgrow narcissism by their early 20's (mid 20's at the very latest) when the brain's emotional/social development center achieves maturity, then chances are that it's not a phase. It means they have the actual disorder. Reality TV exploits them and gets paid to do so. But, then, they live in fantasy, not reality, as they're so full of themselves they're actually unaware they are being exploited.

It gets progressively worse with age and there is no known cure. My advice -- stay away from these people. They will slowly take you down in every way -- emotionally, financially and ultimately physically, meaning they slowly destroy your health. Sadly, many people take this disorder way too lightly.

Excellent info, Jana12. I have narcissistic people in my family. They create hellish situations for other people without a thought as to the consequences. Manipulative, pathological liars. It's not always possible to steer clear.

Originally posted by Egyptia
reply to post by dominicus

 

Essentially we live in and have created a civilization where people in general are dysfunctional. There is no 'norm' anymore and both sexes are lost because our 'advanced disassociative technological' society has divided us from each other and even ourselves.

I'm not sure if ever there truly existed a 'norm' because I believe that is an oxymoron when referring to human beings but I do believe we have vastly deteriorated and become degenerate in ways that have isolated us from everything that 'should' matter but no longer does.

Even the compass of ethical and social mores (customs & moral attitudes) are blurred leaving us internally and socially bankrupt.

I agree. Except I do believe there is a human "norm" -- but we (humankind in general) are so out-of-alignment with our true natures, it appears there is no "norm."

The Hindus have a word that would encompass "normal": Dharma.

Originally posted by Brown Bear
Yeah... and just imagine what they'll do to their children when they have them, and their husbands until the divorce.

I often wonder what the current crop of grossly overweight princesses without Class think that produces such haughtiness? If the past few generations demonstrate anything it's that raising children and holding their families together are beyond their ability.

Believe me guys, these girls won't look so good, or so desirable, in a few years with a couple of kids and as many ex-husbands under their ever expanding belt. Go to Walmart to see their future, and yours too unless you follow the advice many father's now give to their sons:

"survive your 20's with a vasectomy and have it repaired in the 30's and save yourself the inevitable grief and years of child support and alimony to a woman you detest (18 years)."

It's their meal ticket and the cross you'll bear. Be careful and take the advice... or regret it.

That's actually excellent advice. Wise fathers.

So far, in this thread, I have counted at least half a dozen posts along the lines of:

"I treat women like royalty because they deserve it, and I am having so much freaking sex all the freaking time, anyone who doesn't treat women like absolute royalty must be a virgin loser!"

So much attempted psychological manipulation.... so little time....

When i was a little kid, it was my birthday.

I had gotten a few presents and my parents told me one of our neigbors was coming over.

I shouted excitedly "yay! i'll get more presents!"

Next thing i know im on the ground, slapped in the face by my dad. wasnt expecting it, so fell over due to balance, it diddnt even leave a mark.

I was educated about being greedy. I'm now 27, and also despise all those princess syndrome women, i cant even socialise with them because all they talk is crap on TV and Magazines.

It all comes down to the parenting imo.

(and no, my parents wernt abusive, it took alot before they'd get out the spoon. Probably not the nicest way to learn that lesson, but it worked lol)

(Second Line)

**warning**

I just honestly thing that this thread boils down to a person (OP) being constantly rejected by the fairer sex. Having his attempts at enticing a woman completely laughed upon I feel that he is now using this anger towards women as an attempt to label them selfish and stuck up with a case of the "princess syndrome" (stupid name conjured up by an idiot more than likely).

I feel that when CERTAIN men (or indeed women) are rejected they resort too first bad mouthing the women / man and then the entire sex in general.

4 days ago there was another shooting in America (no suprise as it seems to be their fav pastime these days) this time it involved a woman who shot 2 random men at Gig harbor market in Peirce County. SOURCE Market shooting

Now the interesting part is the following statement

A witness said the woman was targeting men because of something that had happened to her in the past.

I think people that come online to rant about women or men with a view to airing a problem with the opposite sex are in the first stages of destruction. This OP clearly has been burned badly enough to write out a post on a forum....its how it starts......Im just pointing it out that is all. First post, then who knows.....

Be warned, not all moaning people intend to do nothing......to be bothered to make his hatred known he comes online....where to next?