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I don't think of homosexuals as something other than people, either.
Just people with some confusion over certain issues.
I don't think of homosexuals as something other than people, either.
Just people with some confusion over certain issues.
Originally posted by DaesDaemar
reply to post by otherpotato
And if science can find a way to make sure you don't have gay children, are you then still on the side of science? It's a never ending circle.
Mark my words: the atmosphere of hysterical rigidity, fantacism, personal attack, and inflexibility in the face of any questioning or skepticism whatsoever that emanates from the more strident Gay Rights voices is far more dangerous to the Gay Rights movement than any external "oppression" or bigotry out there today. It creatIes rankor and enimnity where none existed before. (emphasis mine)
As the OP says in his opening post what we should really be worried about is the children.
The current political and social stigma against homosexuality as caused untold amounts of pain, anguish, and scarring in homosexual children and adolescence.
Originally posted by Xcalibur254
This shouldn't be a political issue. This shouldn't be a religious issue. It should be an issue about doing what is right. There is no evidence to suggest that any children would be worse off by allowing same-sex couples to adopt and marry. There is evidence to suggest that many children would benefit from allowing these things to occur.
Originally posted by TheRedneck
Gay marriage is a political issue today. That is a fact.
Changes to traditionally accepted cultural conditions require acceptance by the citizenry of the country in the US. That, like it or not, is also a fact.
Today I return to the thread and find myself disgusted again at the thought that such hateful, ignorant, oblivious people should be allowed to exist in the same state as a child!
You want to know my real feelings? I think everyone should be treated equally, and everyone should have freedom to live their life as they see fit while not prohibiting others from doing so. But that belief means I cannot support gay marriage in the US at this time, much less gay adoption/conception, because it is painfully obvious to me that those arguing in this thread, as well as the even greater number of similar individuals not on ATS, are interested more in punishing me for perceived wrongs by violating my right to believe as I choose. Because that is what this is really about for the majority of supporters: revenge, not equality. Revenge against religious beliefs, hate toward religious beliefs, a sincere and wanton desire to see others embarrassed, humiliated, perhaps even stripped of their freedoms.
Heaven forbid children be exposed to this level of hateful intolerance!
Even more troubling is the fact that amidst this turmoil of hate, there are a good number of people who truly desire equality and nothing more.
Who is who? I think everyone already knows which side they are on.
Originally posted by AfterInfinity
reply to post by Lucid Lunacy
I think 'long-term" has been and gone.
If we are honest with ourselves. the only real argument is religious.
As it is, the law denies equal rights to gay couples.
Marriage has state and federal benefits attached.
Cultural acceptance will only come after the laws have changed.
That's the ebb and flow of these threads, A good discussion goes on for pages because the hate-spewers aren't interested in debate and then they come back and the debaters go away because it gets sickening.
By that reasoning, you wouldn't support straight people or religious people having children, either.
No one can violate your right to believe as you chose.
You may be surprised at the numbers who truly want equality, but sometimes get FRUSTRATED and spew a little venom at the roadblocks.
I am on the side of the Constitution. Freedom of religion AND equal treatment under the law can and should coexist. That is my position.
Originally posted by Skywatcher2011
reply to post by FailedProphet
When gay couples get asked by their raised child how babies are made, I wonder how they will respond?
Or when the child becomes a teenagers how the gay parents will explain practicing safe sex.
edit on 10-8-2012 by Skywatcher2011 because: bold
Originally posted by Annee
Originally posted by davjan4
Traditional families now have to defend themselves,
HA HA HA HA HA HA
That is so stupid. There is zero reason for Traditional Family to defend themselves. What exactly are they defending themselves against"
Who exactly is the opposing force of Traditional Family that they feel so threatened?
Originally posted by Glass
Originally posted by Skywatcher2011
reply to post by FailedProphet
When gay couples get asked by their raised child how babies are made, I wonder how they will respond?
I'd probably explain the sperm cell and the egg, cellular division, etc...with diagrams to help them understand. I'd be sure to point out that usually this is done with sex between a man and a woman but also mention the other ways it can be done.
Or when the child becomes a teenagers how the gay parents will explain practicing safe sex.
edit on 10-8-2012 by Skywatcher2011 because: bold
Pretty simple as well. Safe sex with condoms and birth control can prevent the egg from being fertilized during/after sex. Condoms can also prevent the spread of STI's so make sure you always use one no matter what, junior
Why do you think this would be such a difficult concept to explain to my kids?edit on 10/8/2012 by Glass because: (no reason given)