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Originally posted by LadyGreenEyes
reply to post by FailedProphet
I will also mention another case, where I personally knew the people. All-female couple, and the daughter of one of them, that told me, when she was older, that she never felt she had a choice to be other than they were, because of how she was raised. She was very unhappy about it, but didn't know what to do.
d that leads to the issue of surrogate parents. Few if any manage to live through childhood without some form of outside support, whether it be grandparents, aunts, uncles, etc. I think this is actually an important thing to a child, as there are some things one simply does not wish to discuss with their parents. I do not believe "it takes a village to raise a child", but I do believe it takes someone from outside the family to reinforce the morals taught inside the family.
And on a personal note: never worry about what others think. It is an exercise in self-destructive futility.
I will say this: if being on ATS has taught me anything about this issue it is that the differences between gay and straight are minor, especially compared to the difference between socially responsible and socially irresponsible. You and I would both benefit greatly socially if we could get rid of the flamboyant examples of perversion found in most Gay Pride parades and the idiotic trailer trash that can't form a coherent thought yet get described as "redneck"... both examples of MSM propaganda.
Originally posted by pajoly
I am sorry, but threads like this disgust me because when you whittle it down, you are trying to launch a debate that ultimately translates into whether one group should be deprived of children simply because you are ignorant, uninformed and believe your lifestyle is morally superior to that of gays.
Originally posted by pajoly
OP, your parents (your heterosexual parents) failed you. They raise you as the most dangerous of person -- a soft bigot with a moral superiority complex inherent in an evangelical.
If you had gay parents, you'd have turned out more kind.
You know, you are one of my favorite people to discuss any issue with my friend
Even though we did nothing wrong and I should not have to, it is what it is.
I long for the day when the gay community will cease to exist and they can stop labelling themselves as different.
My whole problem with this community is that they are very seperatist, not inclusionary, yet they wish others to accept them into their community. I understand that repression and discrimination will often lead a community inward and make themselves very exclusionary, but it's not an excuse.
Same goes for those who are against gay in general, there's no proper logical argument for it, only emotional ones, that really have no basis.
Originally posted by ProfessorT
What is different about having gay parents as oppose to having straight parents? I see none whatsoever. I have a very good friend who is a lesbian and she always looks after her niece. She is as motherly as any other mum and loves the kid as if it is her own child. We really do need to get over this fear factor that people have when it comes to same-sex couples being parents. If I could have swapped my childhood and have been brought up with gay or lesbian parents I would.
Originally posted by TheRedneck
reply to post by Annee
US Census reports 2,157,000 marriages in 2008 source
USA Today reports 131,729 gay marriages in 2011 (by US Census reports) source
In this case, 2,157,000 is the 'norm', while 131,729 is not. Personal opinions notwithstanding.
Now can we get back to a factual discussion?
TheRedneck
reply to post by Lucid Lunacy
You know plenty of people can attest to the success of single fathers and single mothers too!
reply to post by Annee
I personally feel - - multiple women and one man - - - with the women in charge - - - would be the healthiest environment for child development.