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Originally posted by Osito
reply to post by MaMaa
I have told her about it, she just doesn't understand. I think the only reason she is still with me is because of the sex (can I say that word?).
I dont mind it, but I feel like a sex slave sometimes she's always horny, I'm always horny also, she wants it and I give it to her... like... she is not as kinky as I am, she never does anything!!!
Originally posted by AwakeinNM
Originally posted by Osito
reply to post by MaMaa
I have told her about it, she just doesn't understand. I think the only reason she is still with me is because of the sex (can I say that word?).
I dont mind it, but I feel like a sex slave sometimes she's always horny, I'm always horny also, she wants it and I give it to her... like... she is not as kinky as I am, she never does anything!!!
Oh, buddy, my ass bleeds for ya. So annoying, those insatiable nymphos who like to cuddle.
Send her this way - I'll take that pain in the ass off your hands for ya.
By the way, you have a LOT of learning to do before you even consider getting married. Seriously, you should dump her now and find a nice lesbian friend who likes the same movies as you do to chill in your crib with you.
Originally posted by boncho
You're not showing her enough affection. Not just the cuddling, but the whole fact that when she was mad you let her "go out with friends". Girls don't want you to let them leave. She could be doing it just to test you.
Once she feels like you care she will actually cut down aggressiveness annoyances, but chances are she is out considering other options as it is.
Originally posted by FissionSurplus
reply to post by MaMaa
Yep. As a female, I'm the same way. There are times when affection is nice, but all the time? Yuck. It's smothering.
The OP's girlfriend seems needy, clingy and constantly needs reassurance. That is incredibly draining for anybody to deal with. I couldn't never handle cling-ons.
To the OP: Your girlfriend and you are on different wavelengths. If she's going to pout every time she has to do something without you holding her hand, perhaps you may want to consider a more mature girl who can go for more than 10 minutes without being reassured and coddled.
Originally posted by boncho
You're not showing her enough affection. Not just the cuddling, but the whole fact that when she was mad you let her "go out with friends". Girls don't want you to let them leave. She could be doing it just to test you.
Once she feels like you care she will actually cut down aggressiveness annoyances, but chances are she is out considering other options as it is.
I have shown her affection the first couple of months we were good, and then she did so many stupid things. I am a cuddly man... but I have a boiling point, like I have a line were I cant cuddle much. I like to have my own time also, which I do but come on!! Can't she just enjoy the movie? We have sex 8-12 times a week, my friend down here needs a rest sometimes too.
Affection or fondness is a "disposition or rare state of mind or body"[1] that is often associated with a feeling or type of love.
Originally posted by MaMaa
Originally posted by boncho
You're not showing her enough affection. Not just the cuddling, but the whole fact that when she was mad you let her "go out with friends". Girls don't want you to let them leave. She could be doing it just to test you.
Once she feels like you care she will actually cut down aggressiveness annoyances, but chances are she is out considering other options as it is.
I'm sorry, I mean no disrespect, but that is the most ignorant thing I have heard in a while. Not only is such a thing not true, it sets a relationship up for power control issues. Most women (I say most because there are some messed up ones out there) do NOT want to be controlled or think a man has the power to make her stay or go anywhere.
Most women (I say most because there are some messed up ones out there) do NOT want to be controlled or think a man has the power to make her stay or go anywhere.