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As it is now her mother lives in a one bedroom apartment with 3 adults and one other child
Any help would be appreciated. What am i doing wrong? Am i an asshat?
Originally posted by MessOnTheFED!
reply to post by boncho
When she left me and my daughter in 08' and got a new boyfriend within 2 months and they were living together, i voiced my dislike for them sleeping in the same bed (her, her bf and my child). She assured me that they didnt, but come to find out through a friend of hers that she let my daughter sleep in the bed with them the whole time. How in the sam hell do you know someone for 2 months and think its anywhere close to ok to let them sleep in the bed with you and your child?edit on 10-4-2012 by MessOnTheFED! because: (no reason given)
Sorry to evade the sensors but i believes that sentence alone speaks volumes of the people in that houses character.
And i certainly dont want to resent me one day for takeing her away from her mother.
Originally posted by MessOnTheFED!
reply to post by Destinyone
The funny thing is that she keeps telling me that he sleeps on the floor. Then my daughter comes home from over there and tells me that she didnt get a good nights rest because she couldnt hardly move in the bed. Nikoles brother is the other adult in the apartment. He told me that she never slep in the bed with the two of them, then when I told him what my daughter had told me about being tired and not sleeping good all he could say is "its not like there f_____ng with her in the bed" Sorry to evade the sensors but i believes that sentence alone speaks volumes of the people in that houses character.
I've been on the receiving end of this to be honest, I split from my partner and she stopped me seeing my daughter. There was nothing worse I can tell you! I was staying with a friend literally crashed on the floor in his 1 bed apartment. She used to say that there was no way she was coming to visit me because of my situation etc. But my friend was harmless!