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More than a few young women who can’t be bothered with contraception and or are irresponsible with it. In my country some school drop outs with no prospects think that having a child is a good way to make a living. Off the government/taxpayer, (single parent pension.) When the reality sets in and they change their mind, you guessed it!!
Originally posted by MollyStewart
Please don't call me bro. I am not your brother nor male; thank you. I would have thought my moniker made that somewhat clear.
I understand the question "Who?" very well and since you decided to frame the question with aggressive, accusing verbiage I will respond but not in kind.
My sister had an abortion because she slept with someone she did not know and fell pregnant. It was an inconvenience for her, one she regrets to this day. In fact even though it was a proper medical procedure, it affected greatly her chances to have another child later on. With her last child also had as means to partial income,damaged her beyond repair. Her daughter who is 23 has a young baby, she chose to keep her baby which was for some time also used as a stipend, or financial support mechanism although many of those problems have since resolved due to rehab and a partner who is now solidly employed. So whilst none of these things happened directly to me, I have direct knowledge of them by contact with these people and their friends, many of whom are in similar situations. I trust that is somewhat less anectdotal for your sensibilities. I'd rather you did not respond to this post as I believe I have answered your question adequately but if you feel you must, remember these people are members of my family.
Cheers
edit on 10-3-2012 by MollyStewart because: correction
reply to post by LErickson
So that broad brush you painted a whole lot of women with is based completely on one experience with your one sister? Wow, that is some stretching.
Originally posted by MollyStewart
reply to post by Maslo
Why could these children not live happily with families who desperately want children and cannot have them? People who can support them and love them and change the pattern of life they would otherwise have been destined to follow if allowed to be born. These children could possibly change the world. Why is abortion ok and adoption not even a consideration?
reply to post by Maslo
Adoption can be considered, but there is enough unwanted children for adoption even now. I doubt majority of these children will end up being adopted in a good family. We simply do not need more unwanted babies.
Originally posted by LErickson
Originally posted by MollyStewart
Abortion has become a convenience after the fact and may have even been promoted by those organ donor doctors who found a steady, cheap and reliable supply of stem cells for research?
Who is having abortions as a matter of convenience?
Originally posted by Tsubaki
I don't really understand the debate honestly. A woman is is pregnant should decide the course of action. No one else. Men? Unless its someone in the family we have no business even discussing it.
Originally posted by Tsubaki
reply to post by acidsweep
Men? Unless its someone in the family we have no business even discussing it.
There, I typed it again.
Originally posted by acidsweep
Originally posted by Tsubaki
reply to post by acidsweep
Men? Unless its someone in the family we have no business even discussing it.
There, I typed it again.
Let me rephrase what I said.
You're a moron.
Originally posted by Tsubaki
Originally posted by acidsweep
Originally posted by Tsubaki
reply to post by acidsweep
Men? Unless its someone in the family we have no business even discussing it.
There, I typed it again.
Let me rephrase what I said.
You're a moron.
Thank you.
Now, what does it make you to insult a stranger over the internet?
Ah, don't worry, your parents and not you are to blame.