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Here we go again.... More great hypocrisy from the GOP that claims to be the party of family values. I have no problem with people doing what ever they want in the privacy of their own bedroom. However I do have a problem with people telling others what to do or not to do and not following their own advise.
Originally posted by ColoradoJens
reply to post by JohnnyCanuck
The thing that must sting for the gay community is that, along with being a closet homosexual, the man is also a deviant. His behavior is not indicative of the overall gay community, but unfortunately, the stigma will be furthered.
Originally posted by ColoradoJens
reply to post by JohnnyCanuck
Personally, it would be tough for me to care less about the sexuality of those in government. What concerns me is how well they govern. So in this case, as in so many others, I put the blame on those who force others to lead hidden lives, not those who get caught in them. And if all of those closeted gay 'family values' advocates were able to quit being 'more ant-gay than thou', what a lot of energy could be applied to things that actually matter.
I agree with your post, but for one issue. This man is a politician who votes against same sex marriage. He is not going to help his "cause" any by this. He was getting rent-boys, paying them $$...I know it isn't the norm, but isn't Barney Frank gay?
CJ
Originally posted by JohnnyCanuck
I agree with your comments entirely...his behavior was deplorable, both off and on the legislative floor. I'm simply commenting on the particular social process that determines a gay, especially one in the public eye, should hide or deny his sexuality and sneak around instead.
Mind you...just cuz he's gay doesn't mean he can't be a hypocritical creep, either.
Originally posted by Sunsetspawn
Originally posted by JohnnyCanuck
I agree with your comments entirely...his behavior was deplorable, both off and on the legislative floor. I'm simply commenting on the particular social process that determines a gay, especially one in the public eye, should hide or deny his sexuality and sneak around instead.
Mind you...just cuz he's gay doesn't mean he can't be a hypocritical creep, either.
Everybody is ignoring the elephant in the room. These guys aren't hiding this during their public careers, they hide it, or attempt to, their entire lives. RELIGION did this to him. I don't blame the guy at all, mind you I find it hilarious that a lot of the anti-gay rhetoric that came out of his mouth probably happened just minutes after...
semantic joke involving "mouth" and "came." they write themselves.
I'm digressing. Yes, religion is the problem here. Imagine being a child, and from the young age of about 5 you couldn't help but LOVE the color blue. However, you've been told for as long as you can remember that loving the color blue is evil, and it will cause you to go to hell. That doesn't change the fact that you think that blue is awesome, and all it does is serious psychological damage.
You see, being gay IS NOT a choice, and religion is, in many cases, NOT a choice, as parents force their nonsense on their children right out of the womb ( Actually I don't think that belief is EVER a choice, but that's a topic for another day). Personally, I don't understand how people just accept such bizarre brainwashing. I have a clear memory of being about 9 years old and hearing that in order to go to heaven, you HAD TO believe. I recognized that as a tactic of manipulation and was done with religion. Unfortunately, many people either do not have such a hard wired analytical computer between their ears, or don't have the chutzpah to abandon a social and familial institution (I'm a loner and always have been, so I didn't care, integrity is so much more important that phony interpersonal relationships), and are now presented with two completely contradictory beliefs.
"I am gay"
"Being gay is evil"
I can't really guess what happens next. I've never been terribly close with any of the gay people that I've known over the years and even then they weren't very religious. All were closeted at one point, some dated women, and even some of my older step-relatives were married with children
The bottom line is that this somehow leads to crusading against homosexuality. Do we have any gay people on the board that can shed some light on this?
Originally posted by Skittle
Homophobia is suspect. Not really, it's just people like you and me being latent caught up in their interpretation of the norms of contemporary norms.
Nobody is 100% straight, or slidesexual. This is a fact.edit on 13-8-2011 by Skittle because: Added sentence.
Originally posted by Sunsetspawn
I'm digressing. Yes, religion is the problem here. Imagine being a child, and from the young age of about 5 you couldn't help but LOVE the color blue. However, you've been told for as long as you can remember that loving the color blue is evil, and it will cause you to go to hell. That doesn't change the fact that you think that blue is awesome, and all it does is serious psychological damage.
Originally posted by Stovokor
Originally posted by Skittle
Homophobia is suspect. Not really, it's just people like you and me being latent caught up in their interpretation of the norms of contemporary norms.
Nobody is 100% straight, or slidesexual. This is a fact.
Yes. Sexuality is a spectrum, not all is black and white.