Men who cuddle are happier!

I need me an ATS female to cuddle with.

I need me an ATS male to cuddle with.

Originally posted by Glass
Back when I used to date girls, practically all I would do was kiss & cuddle. My favorite thing to do with my girlfriend was just watch a movie and cuddle.

Unfortunately, they all got bored with me since I never made a move beyond cuddling, left me for obnoxious douchebags. Probably ended up leaving them too because they wouldn't cuddle enough.

Don't get me wrong, I wanted more out of those relationships, but I'm just not the aggressive type. I find it difficult to make the first move.

Nowadays I don't get to do any cuddling, and I'm miserable, so I guess its true.

Yep, here is my thread on InCel that I have. I'm beyond miserable though I don't sit crying in the corner about it, but it does get me down. Reading posts like this actually makes me feel envious. I use to visit a dating forum and had to leave it. Just makes no sense to read about other peoples' luck in love or otherwise romantic, sexual encounters when you don't get any intimacy.

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If u sit and sulk in the corner you'll never meet anyone!

Believe me I've been there. Just look at my threads from January in this forum. I had my heart ripped out and shattered. Then one day I realized if I wanted to be happy I had to move on and not dwell on the past but look to the future.

Originally posted by pikypiky
I need me an ATS male to cuddle with.

Oh really now?

Perhaps this explains why I haven't been in a good mood lately. Not enough cuddling. I have to be honest though, I find a lot of women aren't into the whole touchy-feely sort of stuff.

I vote for a national "cuddle with a stranger" day!!

I'd like cuddling except for two things...

1) I'm a natural heater, so after a short time, such close proximity gets too warm, and I like to be cool when I'm relaxing....

2) Eventually, I will want to do more than cuddle, because...I'm a dude and we're just like that...

The wife does love to cuddle though.