Unhappy Father

Unhappy Father's Day to men who have no children today, because they were murdered in the womb... or as in my case, out of the womb.

May our young ones... Never Rest In Peace and be Damnation upon the souls of the wicked.

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I wish you peace of mind, CC, for your own sake.

Originally posted by Schkeptick
I wish you peace of mind, CC, for your own sake.

I thank you, but years have gone by, and I still feel no forgiveness. Not on that.

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Then you very well might not "rest in peace".

2nd.

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I am truly sorry for your lose, I hope one day you may be at peace in your anguish.

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I feel for you and your loss mate.

You hang in there,I would not pretend to know what you been through or how you`ve coped.

But I see a heck of a lot of good in you.

Your child would be proud of you I`m sure.

However hard it maybe your child would not want the wicked and the evil that has been done to change you for the worst.

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The worst is done, but I walk along until it is my turn to return to God's grace. I'm on a recon mission.

Kids Suck Anyways.

Why do people speak so cryptic? Can you not tell us what is on your mind or are you just talking to yourself? Are you trying to get a message to GOD?

If it hurts to talk about then this is what you must do in order to heal from this. Your statements are so obscure that I feel that your pain is even obscure to your heart and you have no words to convey.

If you lost a child I feel very deeply for you, if you lost an adult child I feel very deeply for you, but if you cannot express yourself I feel sorry for you!

Happy Father's Day! It may be time to release yourself of this guilt that you seem to carry! Be good to yourself today and let go of the anger and the hurt, embrace life while there is still time. Through your actions the departed can Live!

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Apparently someone murdered his child.

CC you have my most sincere condolences. I have 2 wonderful children with whom I do not get near enough time. However, they are alive and well and they know full well just how much I love them.

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I can't imagine the pain of losing a child. My child is everything to me, and losing him would be unbearable. I hope there are other things that make you happy, or at least help you bear up under that pain.

/TOA

Originally posted by scghst1
Kids Suck Anyways.

If kids suck then you suck because you were a kid too at one time...so someone said the same thing about you and you now think you are above a kid?

Originally posted by CobraCommander

I thank you, but years have gone by, and I still feel no forgiveness. Not on that.

Judging by the limited info you've given I can tell this is still a sore subject. It will stay that way until you confront it. Non-forgiveness is a dysfunctional emotional response which is harbored in the past. Not to say the emotional event wasn't traumatic at the time, only you can work at this.

I highly recommend The Power of Now. It helps to still the emotions which are routed in the past or future and I believe it can help you.

Stay strong and never let yourself feel defeated.

Peace

Look on the bright side, everything has one.

No more blues, just relief.

My first child was aborted by its mother.
My second child was put up for adoption without my knowledge.
My third child died of SIDS 10 days shy of 4 months.
My 4,5,6 children are alive and well and loved three times as much(if that is possible).

The point is is that you are not limited to one child. Stop living in the past and in hatred and maybe in the future your child will spend Fathers day with you. GET OVER IT AND MOVE ON. I'm not saying to forget but I guarantee your next child will mean a heck of a lot more to you because of the loss. If you spend your life with this mentality then you are wasting time and emotion on things that only pull you down.

2 Samuel 2:23 "But now he is dead, wherefore should I fast? can I bring him back again? I shall go to him, but he shall not return to me. " David speaks of his son Blue letter bible

Youll see your kid again and if the Lord decides not to terry then you will see him sooner.

I can't believe how disrespectful some people are to those suffering a terrible loss. It doesn't matter what your personal opinion is of someone, you should still be able to empathize with another human being who has lost a loved one, especially their own child FCOL. This is not something you can just "get over".

CC, words can't express how sorry I am for your tragic loss. I don't even have any children yet, but just the mere thought of losing a child induces a horrid, nearly indescribable feeling in me. Remain strong and remember time is the greatest healer.

I am so sorry for your loss and suffering. I wish you the strength and courage to carry on. I'm sure your child would not want you to spend your life in such grief.